With the opportunity of this moral education home not having a holiday during the New Year, I also robbed myself of a chance to share. Take this opportunity to review and summarize the past year and look forward to the coming year of 2020.
I. My 20 19
1, attend instructor training:
I think the most important and meaningful thing I did on 20 19 was to attend the classic instructor training at headquarters.
20 18 is a very busy year for me. In March of 20 19, the tension of the department staff eased, and the company had many changes, which increased the workload. So I am still busy.
However, as parents, we chose the classic of nourishing the heart, and our goal is to meet for ten years and stay together for life. This is related to laying a foundation for children's life, building a structure and planning their lives. I sincerely hope to stick to classic learning. But I still don't feel loyal enough. I think I need to know more. Find a deeper motivation.
Another child grew up slowly, feeling that his guiding ability would soon fall behind.
So I really hope that one day, I can have the opportunity to participate in instructor training.
In May, the opportunity came, but the headquarters originally asked each team to have five instructors to lead the team, but at that time we couldn't get so many people together. Finally, Chen Hui and I signed up. If I don't go this time, I don't know if there will be time and opportunity next time.
Fortunately, a few days before departure, the headquarters invited He Laoshi to give a lecture, so He Laoshi took me and me.
Through four days and three nights together, He Laoshi's dedication, dedication and consideration for others are very good, but his very humble spirit is very touching.
The same is true of teachers at headquarters. Are well-hidden experts. When you need them to play, you will know their abilities, but they are so sincere to others. They treat people who go to the headquarters like brothers and sisters.
I was also very lucky to meet Mr Lai who attended Lai Sijia's graduation ceremony from the United States and returned to China with Jia Jia the day before the end of the training. Teacher Lai is already a potential person, but he is simple and unpretentious, which is beyond description. He is really a saint.
After studying for four days and three nights, I was embarrassed to tell others how good our classics were, but after I came back, I suddenly had the confidence to talk to my colleagues. Because I have a firm trust in my heart. There is really nothing to doubt. It is a blessing to be able to read.
I also have the courage to invite my parents-in-law to watch it together. So on the third day after I came back, I realized that the whole family was reading the Bible.
Therefore, the classic of mind cultivation is really not afraid that you understand, but that you don't understand. If there is such a learning opportunity again, I strongly recommend you to attend.
2. Participated in easy work, broadcasting, recording, typesetting and hosting.
I couldn't believe I could do so much, but I did. Whether it's broadcast, recording or typesetting, you get different results.
What surprised me most was that I became the host after class.
I was afraid to go to school at first, and I didn't speak fluently, but I had to share time after class in August, so many family members couldn't afford it during the summer vacation. He Laoshi gave me a chance, and I was really scared, because it was Zidong's high-energy course! However, it is not the way to always retreat. After all, we have to break through this piece one day, so we have to bite the bullet and get it.
Really fulfilled the promise is growth, pay is harvest.
On September 30th, I suddenly found my breakthrough. I didn't expect to say anything before I robbed the wheat, but I actually thought of it after I went to the wheat. So I found that there are some things in people's subconscious that they don't know. People can start from scratch.
I once again feel how wise it is to provide these easy jobs. Imagine that if the platform pays the paid teachers to do these things, don't say that we can't listen for free for 365 days. Do we parents have a chance to grow up like this? It's impossible!
In addition, if these positions are only held by excellent people, it is impossible to achieve the goal of learning and growing together, which will only lead to polarization. Therefore, family members like me who are not confident enough about themselves must overcome themselves. When they have the opportunity to undertake, they must undertake some easy work, so that you can have a chance to find a better self.
3. The help of psychological education to my work.
I insist on getting up early to study, which makes my study better. I didn't have to go to Shanghai for meetings before, but I will go every quarter this year, sometimes two days and sometimes three days, with training and meetings. I only went with our manager this year. My study conditions are very good, so our manager has a very good impression on me, and always says that I have gained the most from the training.
I think it is easy for adults to mobilize their brains when they study. Our brains are more active because they have morning classes.
The sharing of the morning class made me learn to lose face, and also made me no longer timid when I needed to speak.
Our manager gave me the impression that he was aggressive. He gave me an A in the middle and the end of the year. Otherwise, I'm not his favorite. I have been a senior supervisor for fifteen or twenty years, and my management ability and professional ability are much better than mine.
We need to compare on the same level. There was only one A, and it was given to me in half a year. This time, I consciously rated myself as B-class. Under normal circumstances, the scores of the leaders behind will not be higher than their own scores, but they are still given. I am also quite surprised. In fact, he will criticize me at work, so our state is really important, which makes him have confidence in us.
Second, the child's 20 19
1, get up early and read the Bible:
After attending the tutor training at the end of May, I began to get up early to read the Bible for my grandparents to read together. After 7 months, the remaining days are less than 10 days. I haven't done it for more than a year, but now I have. It really feels like a qualitative leap, because with getting up early to read the classics, the daily classic learning tasks are more guaranteed to be completed. At night, children, like adults, are easily delayed by some things. Even if you don't finish reading it in the morning, there is less left, and it is easier to make up for it.
Also, morning reading has been a good habit since ancient times. Try to cultivate it, this accidental feeling is that there is an invisible help. This invisible force comes from Yuxin Headquarters.
2, began to be a book club host:
From July 28th, I hosted the 286th reading meeting with your baby for the first time, and then I was no longer afraid to host it. Later, I held it with Guoguo, Wei Xuan, our parents and children, totaling ***5 times. I feel that the typhoon is much better, and I can sail more freely. I can host it without writing.
Thank you very much for your promotion. Before that, because of the restrictions of adults, I never had the courage to sign up. Through the sharing of bean sprouts, we know that we can have excellent bean sprouts. Bean sprouts have paid a lot and are very attentive. As a small host, the big host is responsible for sharing the reading club. As long as the bean sprout mother wants to sign up, she will support it, although she is also very busy at work.
So we are encouraged to challenge.
By accompanying the child to break through, the child is actually very grateful psychologically, so he brought food to his mother at the first reading party and came back to help cook. Later, if there is a host, he will praise his mother.
3. Recite more than 0/00 poems of Tang poetry/KLOC, and 38 chapters of Tao Te Ching;
Join the recitation group and finish the ancient poems 100 from April to August. Although I don't recite it every day, I still grow into a big one. I don't think we can do it without it. This 100 poem includes five-character poems and seven-character poems, as well as poems with a long analogy, such as Qinyuanchun Snow and Qinyuanchun Changsha.
Although the study tour of Yun Shui ballad is not good, it may be due to lack of proficiency and nervousness. After registering for level 5, I only got level 2, but the accumulation will not be in vain.
This winter vacation, his goal is to recite the enlightenment of 50 children's poems.
4. Take part in two study tours:
In the summer, I went to study in Baishuiyang, Ningde, and recently I went to study in Yunshuiyu, and I also performed a recitation performance of "Into the Wine". The typhoon is much better. It was soft before, so I had to learn by rote, without body language and momentum. However, this time, although it was a last-minute cramming, it was only practiced the day before the study tour, but the performance on the stage, regardless of tone, speech speed and body language, was much better, and the performance was very calm and there was no stage fright.
5, the progress of calligraphy:
I took the calligraphy and painting grade exam this semester, and I have passed the hard pen calligraphy exam level 3. The school is going to produce a collection of calligraphy works, and his is also selected. At the end of last semester's calligraphy class in senior one, the teacher was very disappointed with him and told him that your calligraphy had regressed. Later, I stopped to let him go there.
Later, I practiced 1-2 hours with him every Saturday morning, made him my little teacher, and everyone bought a copybook to practice.
Practicing calligraphy in this way will not be boring, but will become interesting and rewarding. In addition, the school will practice writing class before class every afternoon, and their Chinese teacher writes very well. He will be interested in imitating the teacher's handwriting, and he will follow in other classes. He thinks the handwriting is very good.
He has basically maintained a good writing habit, and his usual homework will basically be written neatly. I can't say that my handwriting is good, but my homework is not good.
Sometimes I think it's important to lay the foundation with my children. After laying a good foundation, it will be a feeling of getting twice the result with half the effort. Reading classics is the same as writing. It's a little hard at first, so let's stay with them and get into the habit slowly. Big babies like Jun Kai and Guo Guo are now reading spontaneously. Not to mention bean sprouts, the time for bean sprouts to serve on the table is really fast. Then the treasure of virtue, in the sixth grade, people will still stick to it. It is impossible if we don't start to pay attention to the cultivation of habits.
6, the progress of habits: reading, more and more can find the fun of reading, so sometimes I don't want to sleep. I will use my foot bath time to read books and sleep to read books. I think it is ok to concentrate, and he is also very interested in reading the preface of adult books.
I did my homework. I delivered food in the evening of the first half of the year. I haven't delivered the meal yet, but I can finish my homework consciously when I come back at night. Generally speaking, he will finish it around seven o'clock.
By learning to make a study plan, he now knows how to make a plan and implement it. Although I didn't do very well, I already have such consciousness.
This is the main situation of 20 19, which is not vigorous, but I think ordinary people are like this. They grow up with a little accumulation, and they can grow taller with a little accumulation.
Third, family.
1. First of all, the whole family reads the Bible and lets the whole family master it by themselves. Their participation is a deeper recognition.
My wife often travels, sometimes only once a month. I want to see a scene like ours, and he is psychologically happy.
So he seldom talks to his parents, but he can read the Bible together. I really haven't thought about it before.
Later, my in-laws insisted badly because they all had to go to work, but they would cooperate if they were called over. Because I can't insist on it every day, I think they will think that I am cultivating children's intentions. They can't stay with me every day, but I can. I can't move.
2. Because of studying, quarreling with my lover is much less. Although there will still be arguments and quarrels, I think I will reflect and converge in due course.
I obviously feel that I can appreciate his advantages better.
Although he lacks in dealing with people, an IT person is better at dealing with machines.
But because we study classics, we follow Mr. Hua and Mr. Zidong to get in touch with history. Yes, I mentioned it to him. Later, he began to tell historical stories, read some historical articles and discuss with children. The children haven't heard the lectures on the Book of Changes and the Tao Te Ching. I find that our family can talk about more topics. I found more in common. In the past, I might attack others and despise others because of my ignorance. And then kill people. Now I will encourage and praise.
3. Further trust
Because of our persistence, he gained more trust, so he was not too opposed to buying Xiaoai English.
I am moved by the active sharing of my family after class, and I am grateful to you:
Teacher Rao: Because of Zhu Lan's commitment and dedication to the platform, he has grown up and deeply influenced Master Xing. Therefore, the progress and transformation of Zhu Lan and Xingye are obvious to all. I am very glad that Jingbo has been insisting on reading classics in his hometown these days, so our persistence along the way has also set an example for people around us!
Seven mothers: I was very touched after listening to Zhu Lan's sharing. I really found that Master Xing has changed a lot and made a lot of progress! On the other hand, my children have entered the education center and made great progress. Instead of losing your temper as before, it will comfort other children. Speaking of having a second child, after listening to Zhu Lan's sharing, they have more motivation and confidence.
Kaiser's mother: Because of my mother's health, I began to participate in book clubs more frequently in the second half of 18. I found that many family members joined in, and found that Zhu Lan was very friendly and affectionate. I was deeply impressed by Zhu Lan's sharing today. I really enjoy it and praise the progress and happiness of this family! I also admire Zhu Lan's guidance to children and the improvement of the relationship between family and lover! In particular, the transformation after attending the tutor training has greatly increased my belief in participating in the tutor study. I am very grateful to Zhu Lan for sharing and paying.
Jiujiang orange fruit mother: I have been taking my children to read classics since I invited them. I envy the whole family for reading classics like Zhu Lan. This is also my new year's goal, to achieve the family reading classics, the whole family progress.
Ziyang's mother: I gained a lot by participating in the diary shared by Zhu Lan. Everything she shared was done with facts. Commitment is harvest, dedication is growth, and concentration is harvest. I need to think deeply about Zhu Lan's contribution to the family, and I will gradually shift my focus to the family. Zhu Lan is like an important person in my life. I'm glad to have a good friend like you!
It's a pity that Teacher Fang didn't write it down.
Thank you again for the opportunity given by such a platform, and thank you for your listening and encouragement! Thanks to Deziyang's mother's mother for carefully recording! After sharing, I got full energy again!