I'm impressed.
For children, playing is an intuitive way of learning, and children who can play are destined to be more competitive in the future.
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Children who can play.
More creative
Gabriela Madris, a Costa Rican child educator and psychologist, once wrote in El Pais:
Mr. Lu Xun also wrote in Kite: Games are children's most proper behaviors, and toys are children's angels.
So for children, games are the best learning, which can stimulate their creativity.
There is a little boy who was born in the countryside. When everyone went to work, he began to doodle everywhere and scribble aimlessly.
One day, while his father was not at home, he sneaked into his father's room, picked up his father's brush and drew a strange figure on the snow-white wall. Soon, the shiny walls were covered with paintings painted in black ink.
Such a naughty and playful child is inevitably blamed in many families.
However, the boy's father didn't blame him, but bought him a small blackboard to let him use his imagination.
Later, at the age of 65,438+05, he became a professional cartoonist. He has written more than 65,438+000 works, such as Tales of Zhuangzi and Tales of Laozi, which have sold more than 40 million copies worldwide and won the Golden Horse Award for Best Comic and the Golden Man Award for Lifetime Achievement. His cartoons are distributed in 48 countries around the world.
He recreated China's traditional philosophy and literature through cartoons.
He is a cartoonist and various artists-Cai Zhizhong.
German philosopher Gross said: "Games are children's preparation for future life, and they are instinctive exercises."
Play is a way for children to know and explore the world.
Graffiti, playing with mud, picking up leaves and other waste products, these activities seem meaningless in the eyes of many parents, even for fun.
In fact, it is through these behaviors that children show their talents and creativity and gain a sense of accomplishment.
Edison liked to play with chemicals when he was a child. His mother gave him a special laboratory to "play" with peace of mind, and finally "played" a king of invention.
Levin Hook likes to play with glass lenses and dreams of inventing a "magic mirror". Then, he "played" the world's first microscope.
Nowadays, many parents, in order to let their children win at the starting line, sacrifice their children's play time and fill their children's lives with various remedial classes, even from kindergarten.
However, we ignore that it is free play that can make children more creative and harmonious.
David Elkind, a child development expert at Tufts University in the United States, believes that play is a way for children to learn. Without games, children will miss many learning opportunities.
Free play will benefit children a lot. It will help children become creative, discover their passion, and cultivate their ability to get along with others and adapt to the environment.
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Children who can play.
Have the ability to get happiness.
Children must have the ability to be happy. Only those who have really experienced life are more likely to be happy.
Faye Wong's daughter Li Yan is a playful child.
She dabbled in painting, piano, calligraphy and other fields; Besides, she also likes climbing mountains and catwalks, learning from Oracle Bone Inscriptions and doing nothing. She can also become "Miss Li" and teach everyone how to dress up and be a goddess on the Internet.
So, we saw a girl in a divorced family, but full of happiness.
Lawrence Cohen, a famous American clinical psychologist and children's game therapist, said in the book The Power of Games: "For children, games are work, and games are the main way for children to make friends, experience life and explore learning."
When I was a child, I could have a good time and mingle with my friends. When I grow up, I can certainly resist the pressure of life and naturally organize a group of people to make money.
Pengyuan Jin, CEO of a brand promotion company.
Coca-Cola nickname bottle, and Durex creative copy, these plans, are all played by him.
In the company, his requirement for employees is "everyone's creativity", not only the core team members, but also the employees in the administrative and financial departments should be able to play and provide good ideas.
He believes that fame will not last long, but personal fun will last long, so fun is more precious.
If a child is a "king of the children" from an early age, among a group of children, he can always seize the C position and get everyone together to get high.
Then, his future may be many times stronger than those children who only know how to work hard and don't know what "play" is.
Because of his ability of organization, planning, leadership, communication, expression and affinity, he has dumped other children for several blocks.
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Children who can play.
Be more focused
Professor Hong Lan, a brain scientist, pointed out that children's brain development is the three magic weapons of early enlightenment: exercise, reading and games.
There are also scientific studies that show that if children are not allowed to play enough, their memory and concentration will go wrong!
If we go back to the news media's interviews with the top candidates in the college entrance examination in previous years, they often have one thing in common: more than 95% of them learn to work and rest regularly and love sports.
20 19 yang chenyu, the top science scholar in Nanning, Guangxi, is not only a scholar, but also an all-round scholar with a wide range of interests. He likes calligraphy, badminton and football. He usually likes watching documentaries and is interested in scientific research.
And Wang Xilai from Wuchang Experimental Middle School in Hubei Province. The child has been playing mobile games before. In order to attract players, the game needs players to go online frequently to "avoid relegation".
When the college entrance examination and game time could not be balanced, Wang Xilai's mother took the initiative to undertake the task of "relegation".
Mother hit hard and slowly groped for the doorway. When he was in the third year of high school, her mother successfully completed the "relegation" task and was able to play with him as a team.
It is also her mother's open-mindedness that makes Wang Xilai have no worries and concentrate more on her studies, so that she can get a good score of 675.
Parents' understanding of "play" is only entertainment and recreation, but in children's eyes, "play" is endowed with colorful meanings such as like, happiness, sharing and exploration.
Austrian philosopher rudolf steiner once said: If a child can devote himself wholeheartedly when he is young and forget to play, then he will be able to face all the tasks assigned to him with equal concentration when he grows up.
Only by playing can children know themselves, explore the world and stick to their inner love a little.
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I once saw a hot search news in Weibo. A poem "Autumn Tour" by a fifth-grade pupil became popular, and even CCTV news forwarded it.
Adults are crazy about their children's homework, but children are only worried about going out in late autumn.
I don't know when it started, but my childhood, which was supposed to be carefree and in a daze, was already crowded with endless homework and various excellent classes, leaving only anxiety and daze.
A new report released by the American Academy of Pediatrics (AAP) points out that in the past 30 years, the time children spend playing games has decreased by 25%, while the number of children who use electronic devices for entertainment has increased significantly.
Liu Xin, director of the Center for Physical Research and Health Guidance of Shanghai Institute of Sports Science, also said that it is every child's nature to love to play, so children should be given enough time to "play".
For parents, education should not only be a blind effort, but also a telepathy between parents and children.
Understand the child's inner needs, treat the child with love and acceptance, play with the child, and let the child grow up with the touch of the heart. This is the real education!
For children, they can play, play and want to play from an early age, so as to build a strong spiritual world and meet the future with a better and stronger attitude.