Comparing one's feelings with one's own 1
In the third grade, classmate Shi Zhengyuan had a cold and fever and could not come to school, so he took three days off.
After school, the teacher assigned all the homework, but his parents didn’t come to pick up the homework, and no one helped him take the homework, so I volunteered to help him bring the homework to his home. After some inquiring, a simple map appeared in my mind, Room 408, Building 5, Shoe Fan.
I took his homework and the heavy schoolbag on my back and set off. I walked across the bridge and turned into the alley, and this is it, but I forgot that it was building 5 with a few odd rooms. I was so anxious that I almost cried. So I shouted in the corridor of Building 5: "Shi Zhengyuan, Shi Zhengyuan"!
An old lady heard about it and took me to Shi Zhengyuan’s house after she understood the situation. When I arrived at his home, I asked about his situation and told him everything about the homework assigned by the teacher. He thanked me very much and invited me to have dinner at his house.
Later, I sprained my ankle while running and couldn’t come to school. He also helped me deliver my homework and showed concern for me. He patiently taught me questions that I didn't know how to do, and we became good friends.
There are many such examples around us. For example: when I water the flowers, I will help you water the flowers, and you will help me water them tomorrow; I will play games with you, and I will ask you to play with me next time; there is also a more valuable thing, running for the cadres of the same class When you vote for me, I will vote for you.
From this, we can see that people are noble and know how to repay kindness. If you treat him well, he will treat you very well. If you respect me one foot, I will respect you one foot. ; If everyone learns to compare their hearts to their own, the world will become a very beautiful place. Comparing Your Heart to Your Heart 2
Today we learned the lesson "Comparing Your Heart to Your Heart", which made me understand how to be tolerant to others. Understand respect. If people care for each other and help each other, they will gain respect from others and a warm heart for you.
There are many things in life that compare with each other. There is a little girl in our community, and she and I live together. One day an old lady walked by, carrying many things in her hands. I walked past her, and the old lady was struggling to go up the stairs. At this time, the little girl walked up to the old grandma and said to Grandma Cai: "Hello, let me help you get your things! I am very relaxed and will not be tired." The old grandma smiled and gave the things to the little girl. Carrying the things up the stairs step by step, I felt extremely warm in my heart. How happy it is to respect the elderly. At this moment, I think it is the happiest moment in my life. The little girl's love for the elderly will always be remembered in my heart.
On this day, the sky was clear, and I was waiting for the bus. There was a little girl. She was holding envelopes and delivering letters to every household in the community. I walked on the bus and saw her weak body. I thought to myself: Is there any danger in delivering letters at such a young age? Even at this age, I don’t dare to go out alone. "At this time, we arrived at a community. The little girl got out of the car and delivered letters from house to house. There were many beads of sweat on her head. I was very moved when I saw it. I couldn't help but say: "Little girl, aren't you tired? "The little girl showed a smile on her face and said: "I am not tired, I serve them, I am very happy, when I see others happy, I am also happy."
Respect between people, Trust, how harmonious the society will be. Comparing one's heart with one's own heart 3
Comparing one's heart with one's own, this should be a quality that everyone should have. My mother often teaches me to be compassionate with others when I complain to her.
That day, Chen Xiaojf and I were playing games, but I suddenly found out that she was plagiarizing my game. I said to Chen Xiaojf, "Can you please stop plagiarizing me?" "But who knew that not only did she not listen, she even started arguing with me. At this time, I was completely irritated and said, "I'm breaking up with you!" ". We had a cold war like this day after day.
One day, I told my mother about this dejectedly. My mother listened and said to me: "Why don't you put yourself in Chen Xiaojf's shoes? Maybe she has wanted to be with you for a long time. I played, but I was put off by your cold words?" When my mother said this, I remembered that she once said to me coldly: "Zhang Chuhan, do you still want to be friends with me? "Yes?" I was about to say: "Yes!" But when I was about to show up, I saw her cold face again, so I swallowed it back and walked away pretending to be dismissive.
My mother listened and said to me: "If you were Chen Xiaojf, I would definitely never talk to you again!" My mother suggested that I write a letter to her, and I agreed.
Later, I wrote a letter to Chen Xiaojf and admitted my mistake to her. I sincerely hoped to be forgiven by her. She and I became good friends again!
This incident made me understand that empathizing with others can reduce big things into small things. If we can empathize with each other in life, we will have respect for the elderly and more care for the children, which will lead to more tolerance and understanding between people! Comparing yourself 4
There will always be times in life when you encounter difficulties. If someone helps you out of sympathy, everything will be better.
During the Spring Festival, I went to visit Tengwang Pavilion in Nanchang. When I came out from the tour, it started raining heavily, and a northwest wind blew. The cold wind was mixed with cold rain, and even my hat was blown away. The three of us were trembling. They were shivering and crowded together, holding a small umbrella. The big raindrops made the umbrella bang. We were going to the train station to catch the train again, but we couldn't find a taxi. My pants and shoes were already soaked, and the rain hit my body drop by drop, flowing from my waistband to my shoes, "hissing" for a while. Ice cold.
At this moment, a taxi with the word "We have passengers" stopped in front of us, the glass of the rear window opened, and a kind-faced lady said: "Come in and share a taxi." "It's not pleasant to be outside in the rain!" We couldn't wait to get in the car and thanked the lady repeatedly. She also chatted with us enthusiastically: "I am from Beijing and I am traveling here. As the saying goes, "A thousand days at home" "Okay, it's hard to go out for a while." We are all out of town, so we should help each other if we have difficulties!" I suddenly felt a warmth, and the coldness in my body suddenly disappeared. This is the charm of comparing one's heart to one's heart.
On New Year’s Day, more than 10 of our extended family went to have dinner on the 101st floor of the second tallest building in China in Shenzhen. The elevator could only accommodate 15 people, and we happened to have one more person. Take two trips? At this time, a young man walked out of the elevator and gave us his seat.
Comparing one’s heart to one’s heart often creates a beautiful realm. One day I finished my homework and wanted to go home. I looked at my watch and it was already 5 o'clock. I didn't know what time it would be until I got home to do my homework.
So I ran to the intersection out of breath and found that the red light had turned into a street light, and there was a car on the opposite side. I couldn't wait to run over and happened to bump into an old lady with gray hair. The old lady took a step back, patted my shoulder with her rough hand and said with a smile: "Child, be careful. It doesn't matter if you hit me, but what if you hit a car?" That's a long way to go. "I glared at the old lady angrily, and ran over in a hurry. The car had already driven away. I glared at her again.
By the time I stopped, the street light had turned to red, and the car had already driven away. Like an arrow leaving the string, I tried to cross the zebra crossing and was so scared that the old lady stood there motionless. Later, a kind sister sent the old lady across the road, and the old lady thanked her repeatedly: "You're welcome, I'll do it." My grandma is about the same age as you. I hope that someone will help her cross the road when she is like this. "I listened to the conversation between the two of them. I lowered my head and felt very guilty. I felt that there was no room for me.
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Later I went home and thought: That big sister did the right thing! If we can empathize with our hearts in life, we will have respect for the elderly and more care for the children. It will make people more tolerant and understanding, and there will be more warm scenes in the world. 6
As soon as people are born in this world, there will always be friction in life. . But as long as we understand one truth and keep it in mind, all frictions can be resolved.
Most of every living thing’s actions are based on its own interests. If everyone is no exception. If we only think about ourselves and are selfish, the world will become very dark.
In our daily lives, throwing garbage is a very simple action, but the cleaner has to do it. It is very hard work, and we have worked hard for the cleanliness of the roads and the sanitation of the environment. If we can think about the problem from the perspective of a cleaner, do not throw away garbage casually, and do a good job in classifying garbage, then the work of a cleaner will be better. It will be greatly alleviated. When you have conflicts with classmates, you can think from the other side's point of view and think about what mistakes you need to correct and what makes your classmates angry. This way, there will be no quarrels. Sometimes when eating in a restaurant, a customer and a waiter quarrel. Since the waiter is in the service industry, he should stand on the customer's side and serve every customer well. Of course, the customer should not think that spending money is enough. You can trample on the dignity of the waiter at will. If both parties can think about each other, then all problems will be solved.
Friction between people is normal, but these small frictions always happen. If we can compare our hearts to others, all the problems can be solved and many tragedies can be avoided. Let us be broad-minded and kind-hearted people. 7
Everyone will encounter some troubles in life. If someone can lend a helping hand at this time, life will be more beautiful.
Once, I came home from school and opened the door. I forgot to bring the key. I was worried: My mother said I would go home late today, what would happen to my homework? Wouldn’t it be very late? I went to look for Xu Zhaoxiang (my neighbor and good friend), but he was not at home. I had no choice but to resign myself to my fate and wait for my mother to come back.
At this time, I saw my friend Wang Jiayi playing outside, so I said to her: Wang Jiayi, can you lend me your mother's mobile phone? I forgot my key, so I called my mother.
Wang Jiayi gave me the phone without thinking. At this time, Wang Jiayi’s mother came, and I told her mother. Thank you for your phone. Can I do my homework here? Of course!
After a while, my mother came. After thanking Wang Jiayi’s mother, her mother said: You’re welcome. , I hope someone will help my daughter when she encounters difficulties.
I remember one time, Xu Zhaoxiang asked his grandma to open the door after school, but no one responded. His grandma was not at home. If he kept waiting, it would delay his homework. So I called him to my house. After a while, my mother came back from get off work. I told my mother the whole story. My mother praised me for doing something right. After a few minutes, his grandma came and thanked my mother. The mother said to her: You're welcome. I hope someone will help my son when he encounters difficulties. My heart felt warm for a long time.
I now understand a truth: helping others is equivalent to helping yourself. If everyone can empathize with others and take the initiative to understand and help others, more love will be conveyed and we will be able to enjoy more warmth. . Comparing one's feelings with one's own 8
That day, my grandma took me to play in the children's park. We went there by taxi. When we arrived at the children's park, my grandma took out 20 yuan and said to the driver: "I'm sorry, I don't have any change. Please give it to me!" The driver said expressionlessly: "I don't have any change either." "How about you go outside? Exchange some change from the market! "Grandma trusts this uncle very much.
"Oh! Wow!" After saying that, the driver took the 20 yuan and left. After waiting for almost 20 minutes, the driver still hasn't come back. I thought to myself: I must have been fooled. I said to grandma: "Don't wait, he will definitely not come." But grandma said: "Good boy, wait a little longer, I think he is not such a person." After another 10 minutes, the driver still hasn't come, " It's been more than half an hour, and he's definitely not coming. "Grandma was a little disappointed, but she still didn't give up. She said to Uncle who was checking tickets at the door, "Please, if you see that driver, help me put the money away, and I'll come out. Come get it later." Then he took me in to play. When he came out, Abel said he had never been here at all. I knew it would be like this.
This uncle, he has never thought about it from our point of view, it is all about money. I don’t understand why they value money so much. Can money buy integrity? Can you buy other people's trust in you? Indeed, everyone loves money, I can understand it, but only if you truly serve the people can you gain the respect and trust of others. This is a fortune! 9
In daily life, we often encounter situations like this: when others are at home, someone comes to see their parents for something, and their parents are not at home; a classmate in the class is sick and cannot be home for many days. go to school. There are some such things in my life.
The water dispenser in our class has been broken for several semesters, and we can’t drink water, as if there is a severe drought in Yunnan. Suddenly, when the second semester of fourth grade started, Song Yuanzhi's father and mother spent money to buy a brand new water dispenser for our class. We didn't need any money and we could still drink warm water. My heart suddenly felt a lot warmer. I heard that at a parent-teacher meeting, the teacher asked parents to raise funds to buy a water dispenser. Then Song Yuanzhi’s parents said, “I’ll buy it.” Then, the water dispenser was in our classroom.
There are still some bad things in this world, and there are such things around me.
I remember that I was still in kindergarten. I have a used bicycle that I want to sell as junk. It is parked in the corridor. One day we went for a walk and suddenly saw a water delivery man carrying my old bicycle. His mother stopped him and said, "This is our bicycle!"
"I picked it up from the corridor, you have nothing to do with it." The man said.
"You can just deliver water properly, why do you need our car?"
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Finally, we took him to The guard took care of it and returned the car to us. I would like to give him a piece of advice: don’t take other people’s things privately.
Yes, if we can empathize with each other in life, we will have respect for the elderly and more care for the children, which will lead to more tolerance and understanding between people. Compare Hearts to Hearts 10
My grandfather once told me this: when he was three or four years old, he was playing in the garden and fell down accidentally, and he was in so much pain that he couldn't get up. An aunt who was walking happened to pass by and helped him up. When grandpa thanked her, the aunt said softly: "My son is about the same age as you. I hope that when he encounters this situation, someone will help him up." After hearing this, I My heart felt warm for a long time.
One day, I accompanied my mother to a restaurant for breakfast. The young waiter had been working for so long and still hadn’t served the meal. I saw that my mother was very hungry. I was anxious. I was about to complain when I looked up and saw my mother's calm eyes - she was looking at the dense beads of sweat on the waiter's forehead. I couldn't help but hold back the words that came to my mouth. After a long time, the waiter finally brought the meal. The waiter breathed a sigh of relief and said repeatedly: "Auntie, I'm so sorry. I just started working, and you are my first customer. If it weren't for your patience, I wouldn't dare to cook for you." Mom used He held my hand and said calmly to the waiter: "This is my daughter. She will also face her first customer when she works in the future. I really hope that when she serves the first customer, she can also get customers." "Tolerance and encouragement." After listening to my mother's words, my heart was filled with warmth and happiness.
Yes, if we can empathize with others in our lives and put ourselves in others' shoes, we will have respect for the elderly and care for children, which will make people more connected. Tolerance and understanding. One day, I developed a high fever due to a cold, so I went to the hospital for an infusion. During the infusion process, I saw such a scene, which made me unable to calm down for a long time.
What happened was that there were a lot of patients in the infusion hall that day, and seven or eight nurses were very busy. Suddenly, "What do you do for food? Replace people quickly!" A shout made the noisy hall suddenly quiet, and people all poked their heads out to take a look. A young nurse who looked like she had just taken up the job was inserting an acupuncture into a baby under one year old. I don’t know whether she was nervous or inexperienced. It seemed that the injection was not done properly after two or three times. A big green bump appeared on the child’s head. The little baby She cried loudly in pain and struggled hard. The mother of the child was so distressed that she burst into tears. Finally she couldn't help but burst into anger at the nurse, "How did you become a nurse? Can the child's head be used as a target for you?" The young nurse suddenly said. Her face was red and she stayed there helpless. I saw tears in her eyes. It was not until the head nurse came to relieve her that the little nurse hurriedly escaped.
If the young nurse could treat the patient as a relative and work hard to practice medical skills, how could he be humiliated in public? If the mother could be more tolerant and make the nurse less nervous, maybe things would be different. If everyone can empathize with each other, things may not be so embarrassing. Comparing Hearts to Hearts 12
Today, Teacher Xie taught us the lesson "Comparing Hearts to Hearts". My heart was like waves hitting the rocks and could not calm down for a long time, because it brought back my memories of last Sunday. .
I went home after learning calligraphy from the Chinese art class. When I was taking the bus, an old lady got on the bus with difficulty. I looked around carefully. I saw no empty seats several times, and even the first two seats were "occupied" by people. If you want to have a seat, you can only have a kind person to give up your seat.
I saw the old lady walking back and forth, obviously looking for a seat. She walked up to a young man and asked kindly: "Can you give me a seat? Young man ."
"Why should I give up my seat to you? Go away and ask for a seat from someone else," the young man shouted angrily.
The old lady’s expression suddenly became much sadder. I thought: The old lady should blame the young people. But she was like a mute eating Coptis chinensis, unable to express her sufferings.
I couldn’t stand it anymore, so I stood up immediately and gave my seat to the old lady.
The old grandma asked: "My child, why did you give up your seat to me?"
"My grandma is about the same age as you. I hope someone will give up her seat when she is in the car." I answered.
When I got off the bus, the old lady said to me kindly: "My child, you must be rewarded for being a good person." After listening to this sentence, my heart warmed for a long time. Yes, if we are in life, If you can compare your feelings with others, you will have respect for the elderly, more care for your children, and you will have more tolerance and understanding between people. Comparison of Hearts 13
On a sunny afternoon, the little animals were reading leisurely in the library.
Just when the little rabbit was very fascinated, a little hedgehog came. The little hedgehog just sat for a while, twisted his body, and accidentally pricked the little rabbit with the thorns on his body. The little rabbit yelled: "Ah!" While shouting, he jumped like an arrow from a string to a distance of one meter away from the little hedgehog.
The little hedgehog quickly said to the little rabbit: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I didn't mean it. You sit down!" The little rabbit scratched his head and said: "It doesn't matter. In fact, you don't need to be like this. I believe you. Not on purpose.
"But the little hedgehog knew that if he continued to sit, he would prick the little rabbit again. He said to the little rabbit in frustration: "Thank you, I'd better lend the book home and read it!"
Seeing that the little hedgehog was about to leave, the little turtle stopped him and said, "Don't leave, I'll sit with you." The little hedgehog turned around and asked the little turtle: "Little turtle, thank you for your kindness. I will prick you, so forget it!" "The little turtle covered his mouth and snickered. The little hedgehog asked in confusion: "Why are you laughing? The little turtle said: "I have a shell on my body. Don't be afraid. It is my best shield. It is most suitable for us to sit together." If we compare our hearts with each other and help each other, the world will be warmer. "After hearing these words, the little hedgehog burst into tears, as if a warm current slowly flowed into his heart. Finally, the little animals could read and study seriously in the library.
Little Hedgehog After spending the day happily, it decided to help others like the little turtle in the future.
I woke up in the morning and looked at the alarm clock with sleepy eyes. It was half past seven and I couldn't sleep anymore. Listen. Watch the live broadcast to dispel sleepiness.
So, I got up and washed up.
I remember one time in junior high school, the head teacher said at the parent-teacher meeting: "I am at home. If the child When I was studying, I would mute the TV when watching TV and only read the subtitles below. My daughter felt sorry for me and said, "Dad, you can let the TV be born."
Even so, the head teacher also Just adjusting the sound to almost mute also allowed my classmate to have a good learning environment.
After I got home, I started doing my homework, but my dad still turned the TV sound to the maximum while watching TV. I was helpless and prepared to have a good talk with my dad.
I said helplessly: "Dad, is your parent-teacher meeting in vain? Our class teacher's daughter studies so well, and the class teacher has given her a good learning environment, why can't you follow Our class teacher should learn from this, even if you can’t mute the sound, don’t turn it up so loud.”
But what my dad said made my heart hurt.
He said: "Whenever you can get good grades and be among the top ten in the class, I will restrain myself. You can't even study well and you will control whether I watch TV or not."
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It is said that learning is your own business, but many objective factors cannot be ignored.
Can the mentality be the same when studying in a quiet environment and studying in a noisy environment? Can the efficiency be the same?
I hope parents can provide students with a good learning environment when they study. Don’t think that learning is just a matter for students. We are tired enough from studying and don’t want to worry about unnecessary things. Annoyed. Comparing one's feelings with one's own 15
Every morning I would get into a mood about taking care of my hair, and my mother would tell me a lot of truths, even though I didn't want to hear them anymore.
This morning I have to take care of my hair again. I am thinking about how to control myself and not make a fuss over such a trivial matter as taking care of my hair. Yes, when I feel pain, I bite my teeth tightly to divert the pain. Mom is here: "Come on, baby dragon, mommy will help you take care of your hair." "Oh." "Get your teeth ready, 1-2-3-it hurts, don't say it, bite, bite, bite ..." I kept saying in my heart.
Oh, no, the words are coming out, "It hurts so much!" I looked unhappy. When my mother saw that I was upset again, she said: "Now let's switch and compare our feelings. You will be the mother and I will be the baby. I will lose my temper at you. Let's try it." I thought to myself, it really hurts. If I hadn't seen For my mother's sake, I would have roared like a lion, but my mother also had good intentions and was serving me. But then again, who can take care of my hair without it hurting me? At that time, my mother must have been thinking, are you still not happy if I help you take care of your hair?
Looking at myself from another perspective, this is the real comparison of one’s heart with one’s own. If there were more comparisons of one’s heart with one’s own in life, then, for me, there would be more understanding and happiness, and less worries and worries. Troubled.