Calligraphy and love and marriage, at first glance, seem to have nothing to do with each other. In fact, it is not difficult to climb together, because "everything is idealistic" and everything is dominated by "heart". !
Studying and studying calligraphy is the same as talking about marriage in love.
The first step is naturally to "fall in love" (choose a post). Some people have their own favorites, and some people are introduced by a boastful matchmaker (teacher). But since they are in love, they have to like it themselves. Whether it is Zhong Wang Yan Liu or Su Huang Camo, as long as they have something they like, they are all predestinations made in previous lives. Be careful when you are in love, and both sides must have feelings in order to achieve "mutual affinity." Calligraphy is the same. When you choose "Miss Liu Gongquan" (please forgive me for using a masculine tone), you should get to know her, get to know her, and have a clear understanding of her height, education, temperament and personality. If it is not suitable, you can also fly Miss Liu away and contact Miss Su, Miss Huang, Miss Mi and Miss Cai. If you really like Miss Liu, take her back. Congratulations! You have entered the besieged city of calligraphy!
The second step, naturally, is that you and "Miss Liu" are in pairs, and the heart is in harmony. I don't know whether Zhuang Zhou butterfly or Zhuang Zhou butterfly will blossom and bear fruit in the end! For example, the next generation of Uncle Journey to the West and Miss Liu, although they are still surnamed Journey to the West in the evil patriarchal society, already have Liu's genes.
I don't have to tell you what will happen next. Unscientific research shows that couples who are completely compatible and have no regrets only get half a pair in a thousand years! Calligraphy, like married life, needs constant adjustment and revision. If you think it's okay, it's a more serious problem! Since I am a little tired of "Miss Liu", I don't have to blame myself too much. You see, she is just a "bone", and she really owes a little fat! Then you can consider "marrying" "Miss Su Dongpo" as a mistress, because the word Su is rich enough; If times have changed and you are tired of Miss Su's "stone-broken toad", you can "marry" Miss Huang Tingjian to be the third room. If you think "water snake waist" is too petty, you can "marry" that "cross-legged Tian She girl" and "Miss Yan Zhenqing" as the fourth room. Calligraphy is not limited to monogamy and monogamy, but also more, so many people throughout the ages! This is not only a playboy, but also a traditional virtue.
Of course, if you like the new one, you may not forget the old one. You can take turns to "light" at the ladies of "Liu, Su, Huang and Yan" to enrich your calligraphy life! But remember, you will always be the "husband", and you should know how to control your wife ("control your husband" is one of the top ten names of the Buddha), so that the calligraphy life can be beautiful!
I've also met people who are blind, dumb and have no feelings. They have been insisting (learning to die) all their lives, that is, waiting to die!