I saw a post that day, which wrote nine conditions that a powerful woman should meet before she turned 40, such as house, car, deposit, baby, travel, career, hobbies and so on. Many people who leave messages either meet all nine requirements, but they are not happy, or they can hardly meet them, but they feel quite happy.
So what is good and what is bad? Is the external conditions satisfied, or is the heart happy and smooth?
The external environment is constantly changing, the external environment is uncontrollable, and there is no absolute standard value for the quality of the external environment, it only depends on your inner definition of it.
"Huiguang Yunju" tells us that if we cling to the outside world, it is adversity; If you don't persist, your heart will not move, which is prosperity.
I'm impressed.
See the illusory truth of life clearly, accept the reality, follow the laws of nature and feel at ease, and you will always be in good times; If you cling to eternity, resist impermanence, escape from pain, and be imprisoned inside, you will always be in adversity and uncomfortable.
Your heart moves with the environment, or the environment moves with your heart, depending on your wisdom and choice.