* Brother? Traits: visionary, decisive, considerate and meticulous.
* Colleague Mary: trusting, thinking, agile, open-minded and cheerful.
* President Shi of the ideal bookstore: wise, generous and calm.
1. What are the characteristics of these three people?
Wise, capable, decisive and calm.
2. What are the similarities between you and these three people?
Calm and generous
3. What's the difference between you and these three people?
Caring, willing to share, satisfied with the status quo, willing to accept new things.
4. Do you expect to be such a person?
Look forward to and try to follow.
Two. ? What are your favorite magazines, TV programs, online media, etc? What do you like about them?
Reader magazine can read beautiful articles of good quality.
Pay special attention to the observation and thinking of some things in magazines.
Variety; perform
The life I yearn for, I like the state of their free life. What I like best is that after dinner, relatives and friends sit together and chat freely.
"Sister Flowers" are an eye-opener all over the world and experience different folk customs. She visited the Louvre, blew the sea breeze on santorini Island and experienced a hot air balloon overlooking the earth.
"Little Red Book" can learn many food practices, and can also see different people's interesting lives and various decoration styles.
Three. ? What's your favorite book or movie? Tell me the most impressive 1-3 stories.
Jin Yunrong, the author of "Love Makes Growth Trouble", tells a part of the film "Black Swan" in which a promising mother gave up her career and devoted herself to educating her daughter to become the chief dancer of the ballet company. She is always in charge of her daughter everywhere, which makes her anxious to tear her nails and scratch her back. You can't close the door when you sleep at night, because mom kisses her every night before going to bed. My daughter is bent on playing the leading role in the ballet Black Swan. The director said that her daughter has the purity and beauty of a white swan, but she can't play the unruly and charming of a black swan. She locked herself in her room and practiced day and night, while tearing her nails and scratching her back uncontrollably. Mom never found out about all this. On the opening day, my daughter played the role of "black swan" brilliantly. Everyone stood up to cheer for him, only to find that she died on the stage. Later, I learned that my daughter stabbed her heart with scissors in order to experience the uninhibited and charming of the black swan before she came to power.
The mother who loves her daughter deeply finally ruined her daughter with her own hands!
The day after tomorrow is a disaster film. It describes that one day a certain place in the United States was swallowed by the sea, and the extremely cold air hit, and a certain place was frozen into a big ice cube. In this process, in order to find his son, his father went backwards and finally overcame all difficulties. He found his son who is trying to find a way to survive with his companions. When he arrived at the rescue helicopter, he was finally rescued with his son.
* "The most beautiful parting in the world" Korean film
The sons and daughters devote themselves wholeheartedly to the family, and the whole family is busy. Later, the woman found out the terminal stage of cancer and arranged things after leaving to relieve her family's troubles. Finally, leave calmly and quietly. Recalling the past with my husband at the last moment is very warm. After leaving, he turned into a tree to accompany his family, who felt that he had never left.
Why did this story impress you?
The first story shocked me! What I thought was love, finally turned into hurt. Everyone is a living person, not a chair. No one has the right to control other people's lives, even the mother under the banner of love!
The day after tomorrow, because the father insisted on overcoming all difficulties to save his son, the son was finally saved by himself and his father.
"The most beautiful parting in the world" is because the hostess found out that after the terminal cancer, her family stayed with her and expressed her love. The woman didn't die in bed because of illness, nor did she suffer from terrible chemotherapy. Instead, walk with the person who loves her according to your own wishes and spend the rest of your life.
* Does this story have anything to do with your career?
No contact.
But it has something to do with my life. I started to learn mind mapping a few years ago, then I learned visual mapping, and then I learned writing and time management.
I started practicing yoga two years ago, joined 007 a year and a half ago and started writing. A year ago, I became a member of Fan Deng Book Club and read more than 100 books. In the last month, I participated in the "Non-violent Communication 2 1 Day Training Camp" and studied NVC in depth.
The original intention of learning is to find ways to change and educate children. It is difficult to be admitted to a key high school because of children's poor grades in middle school. Once, I felt that I was the most failed mother. Walking slowly all the way, I found that I really influenced my children. Do yoga with me, make a daily plan, read books and punch in together. Although he sometimes stumbles, he can find more and more changes.
Last time in NVC pronunciation practice, I found the answer by listening: don't try to control children, but influence them by being yourself and trying to achieve your goals. This is also my biggest gain in NVC training camp.
At the same time, it is slowly affecting your lover's educational concept and discovering his progress. I hope to move in a good direction slowly.
* What's your favorite movie?
I like watching Jackie Chan's movies in my early days, and I feel inspirational and humorous. What I remember deeply now is the movie "Big Fish". Finally, the part where the man was carried into the water when he died will always be remembered.
What's your favorite proverb or motto?
A passage from Lin Qingxuan.
See the world with a pure heart, live with a happy heart, remove obstacles with a normal heart and a soft heart.
5. What are your first three memories?
*/kloc-after graduation at the age of 0/6, I saw my father working for me. When I got home, I looked tired and guilty.
* Climb mountains, take photos and have fun with a large group of friends after work.
* It's a Christmas gift for my daughter to go to kindergarten. I am satisfied to see his surprise and happiness.
In fact, I found five questions in my career amazing. In the process of answering these five questions, I combed myself.
The first question is, in the process of your growth, the qualities of the three people you admire most are actually what you always wanted to be. Find out the key words and you will find the direction of your efforts.
Second question, what are your favorite magazines, TV programs and online media? What do you like about them? This question can lead you to discover your interest and why you like it.
The third question, your favorite book or movie, tell one or three stories that impressed you the most. This question occupies the longest core: three things that can affect you the most.
The fourth question is the favorite proverb or motto.
This is what you want most. (I am anyway)
Fifth question, your first three memories.
This seems to be the most influential driving force for your behavior in the early days.