"In addition to firecrackers at the age of one, the spring breeze warmed Tu Su. Thousands of families always change new peaches for old ones every day. " Sticking Spring Festival couplets is a tradition in China. It is a custom in my hometown to put up new couplets on the door of every household. At this time, people usually ask gentlemen who can write calligraphy to write couplets. After I went to junior high school, this glorious task of my family fell on my immature shoulders, and my family never abandoned me because my handwriting was ugly and ugly. Every year, my calligraphy works can be published on the ear door of my main entrance. When these doors were completed, my family invited me to write a work for two "pens"-pigsty and cowshed, usually a couplet, which read "Five crops are abundant and six livestock are prosperous".
At that time, I didn't know how to write calligraphy, let alone how to use a pen, how to write good strokes, how to arrange structures and so on. I just wrote it according to my own ideas. This way of writing brought me a bad "problem" several years later. Every time I go out, I see couplets, plaques and billboards. I will read carefully how the words are written on it. When I see other people's handwriting, I will study it carefully in order to achieve the same effect. Later, I learned that this is actually "copying", just the words of modern people. Slowly, this habit evolved into obsessive-compulsive disorder. I have been thinking about how to write my own pen and calligraphy well, and I have been practicing hard against the copybook. Although I didn't make much progress, I won the second prize in the school calligraphy competition at my level.
Looking back now, I think that I am so interested in writing good handwriting today, that is, when I was a child, my parents inadvertently planted a seed yearning for beautiful calligraphy. Now I really want to thank them for planting such a beautiful seed for me.
If you plant a bad seed in someone else's heart, at a certain time, he will surely take root and sprout, even flourish.
Once, a boss friend wanted to recruit a senior talent from a rival company and contacted the other party to express his wishes. The other party resolutely refused to come. It doesn't matter if the boss can't come. I didn't say "poaching" when I invited you to dinner, so in less than six meals, senior management finally jumped ship to this company.
I was puzzled and asked my friend: why did you eat and eat, and didn't talk about job-hopping, and the other party actually quit? My friend answered me like this: Sometimes you just plant a seed in the other person's heart that you can leave the company, and maybe one day you will really leave because of something.
This reminds me of an agreement between many couples: no matter how fierce the quarrel is, neither party is allowed to say the word "divorce". It turns out that this agreement originated here, because when a husband and wife quarrel, once the word "divorce" is mentioned, an evil seed will be planted in the hearts of both parties. With the passage of time, this seed will gradually expand, making people pay attention to all kinds of bad aspects of marriage, thus ignoring the good side and eventually leading to the breakdown of marriage.
Never plant even an evil seed in the hearts of yourself, your family and your children. You must plant more beautiful seeds, and the more the better. You don't think planting it today will have any effect. Maybe a seed will grow into a towering tree in the future. At that time, you will sigh his strength and finally know the strength of a seed.