Letter to my 15-year-old daughter Fan Wenyi
Dear slowly:
At this moment, I always see you walking in front of me with cheerful steps and trotting to kindergarten, but time flies. The little angel I once put in the bicycle basket has grown into a slim girl, like a little lotus with sharp corners.
First of all, I want to thank you for your fifteen years' company. Because of you, we have a happy and complete family. Do you still remember when our three went out for a walk in your childhood? I always let you walk in the middle and say:? We are happy Dolemi! ? Your laughter brings endless joy to mom and dad and gives us endless strength, because only when we become strong can we protect our baby and prevent her from being hurt at all. Once, I was afraid of the dark, dogs, bugs and all terrible things, but for you, I must learn to be strong and face it. Even if I fall, I will protect you and shelter you from the wind and rain.
Secondly, I want to tell you to cherish the wonderful youth time, knowing that life is actually very short, especially youth is a flash in the pan, so you must cherish time, put your mind where it belongs, arrange your time reasonably, be an orderly student, meet the entrance examination with confidence, and don't hate it when you use your books. You know, growing up means shouldering responsibilities, bearing the hopes of your family and teachers. An irresponsible person will not cherish time but will only waste his life.
Thirdly, learn to be grateful. I remember that one day you asked me to sign my exercise book, which said thank you for everything my mother has done for you. The first sentence reads:? Mom, you have lost weight. I will take good care of you in the future. ? Moved to tears? The so-called touching is not for the bouquet of flowers that I received when I was proud, but for the comfort that I heard when I was down and out. There is no shortage of warmth in life, but a heart that doesn't know how to feel warmth. Mom and dad don't expect anything in return from you. They just want you to think about the people closest to you. Your success in learning is the best reward for us.
Finally, and most importantly, we hope that you will grow up healthily and happily. A strong body can make you bear heavy studies, and a good attitude can make you face setbacks bravely. The senior high school entrance examination is an important turning point in your life, so you must treat it correctly. Seeing that you are so busy that Lian Xiao has no time to laugh, mom and dad feel extremely sad and know that learning is hard and difficult, but mom and dad will always be with you and cheer for you!
Spring is warm every year, and flowers bloom every year. How can there be a beautiful rainbow without experiencing wind and rain? May you leave a bright future on the road of life!
mom and dad who love you the most
June 2, 212
Letter to my fifteen-year-old daughter
My dear daughter:
Mom hasn't chatted with you like this for a long time.
your situation has been worrying for some time. You lose your temper almost every day for no reason, angry with your father and me. We can understand this. We know that you have a lot of homework now, and you are really tired. We love you and love you, but that doesn't mean we can indulge you. I will never allow you to do this often. If you indulge in this way, it will only increase your resentment and reduce your tolerance.
Daughter, tomorrow is your 15th birthday. Let's wish you a happy birthday first. As a child, you have grown up and matured day by day, and your head has surpassed that of your mother. We both go out hand in hand, which is envied by everyone. When listening to others praise you, your mother's heart feels really sweeter than honey. Because they are right, my daughter is really excellent in all aspects, and your father and I are really proud of you.
Being excellent doesn't mean you don't have shortcomings. Recently, I feel that you are changing, becoming more and more indifferent and irritable, and making me feel that my daughter is moving away from us step by step. I know that you are annoyed by too much homework, sometimes by difficult problems, and sometimes by educating you. In short, you are always annoyed for no reason, even yelling at your parents loudly, and even throwing things at the worst. What you did really made mom sad. We understand that this is a rebellious and restless period of youth, and we can forgive you sometimes, but you can't always do this. Adolescence is the most beautiful stage of life. Now you are like a flower to be released. You should enjoy and show your beauty to the fullest. But if you spend every day of your youth in this mood, you will regret why you didn't cherish this wonderful time. Flowers will not be red for two days, and there will be no second youth in life. Your current troubles are due to your own personality and emotions, which can be changed. You should spend the most beautiful day with a good mood. So that you won't regret it when you recall this time in the future. We have been there before, and we have walked here before. At that time, we were like you now, but we were just not as lucky as you. At that time, no one accompanied us to go shopping, no one chatted with us, no one understood the hearts of teenagers at that time, no one prepared food and clothing for us all the time, and no one paid attention to whether we were happy or not every day. Some just beat and scold when we were bored. But we understand that it is not easy for our parents. They can wear warm clothes and work day and night to make a living for their families. Now they are old, and some even leave us. What we hate and regret is that we gave them too little, even if we could give them enough happiness at that time. There is no regret medicine in the world. What we can do now is to be kind to the elderly, treat the children well, pay back what we owe to the elderly as much as possible, and let the children enjoy what they don't enjoy. As long as you are happy, we will be happy.
daughter, do you know what we pay most attention to? Are you really happy and healthy every day? When you are unhappy, your parents won't be happy. When you are unwell, your mother is even more worried. I will do everything I can to make you better as soon as possible. I will tell you every day in your fidgety voice, do this and that for you, and even put up with your temper with me and look at your pouting and gloomy face. Mom will be anxious and angry for your disobedience. I hope you can understand. Sometimes I really want to suffer for you, and even think that I will become a fairy and make you better. But sometimes no matter what I say, you'd rather suffer than do what I say, which really hurts my brain.
Daughter, do you know how to live a meaningful life? Do you know what the purpose of study is? I've taught you since I was a child that people should be happy every day they live, and create happiness if they are unhappy. People are very tired when they are alive, but they should learn to find happiness in fatigue. Learning is to lay the foundation for going to society in the future. Knowledge is the foundation of all talents. Study is to enable you to be a better person. It is true that studying as a student is the primary task, but you can't do nothing, don't want to do anything, or even worry about it just for the sake of studying, which has violated the original intention of learning. Happy and learning, applying and learning, this is the right way to learn. What are you told to do now? You always use learning as an excuse to escape everything. It's not that we can't do these things. We just want to exercise your ability to deal with and solve problems and enhance your sense of responsibility. You have to understand this. If you go on like this, human feelings will be indifferent, emotional intelligence will be low, self-motivation will be lost, ability will be reduced, and the bad habit of shirking will be developed. What's the use of learning this way? It's really not as good as stepping into the society early, at least it also exercises your adaptability. Daughter, you must understand that as long as people are alive, they must learn to take responsibility and fulfill their obligations. Learning is your most important obligation now, but other responsibilities you should bear do not mean that others should bear it for you. On the contrary, the mother thinks that a child who can bravely take responsibility and fulfill his obligations will have a bright future in the future. Because he is brave and enterprising. Otherwise, blindly avoiding it can only condone your cowardice and cover up your incompetence. Children should not find any excuses to shirk their responsibilities. Dare to take on, dare to face, and experience, even if it is suffering or even failure, this is all wonderful in your life. Only in this way can you step into the society smoothly and calmly, adapt to the society and bear the pressure and test from all aspects of society, and then you will become more mature and confident. If everything is replaced by us now, you will become inferior, timid and hesitant in the future, and you will accomplish nothing, and all your previous efforts will be wasted.
Daughter, now you are replaced by your parents, who take care of you too much. In fact, this is not a good thing, which at least inhibits your ability to play, and in some cases inhibits the improvement of imagination and creativity. If you are open-minded, you will take the initiative and do something within your power. Now that we think about it, we are really grateful to our parents for giving us so much free room to grow up. Freedom is really good. It is the eagle that will fly into the blue sky and fight the sky sooner or later, which requires you to spread your tender wings, leave the warm embrace of your parents and let yourself take off slowly. The world is as big as your heart, and you can fly as far as your heart is. Small goals have been achieved, can big goals be far behind? Children, let your heart fly, don't be afraid of wind and rain, don't be afraid of stormy waves, and you can feel the happiness of success in fighting.
Daughter, parents are capable, but the biggest shortcoming is that they are too careful, worry too much about anything and have low self-confidence. This will often make us lose many opportunities. Mom just wants to tell you in this respect that it is right to be careful, but when you weigh the pros and cons, as long as the advantages outweigh the disadvantages, you should make a quick decision and seize the best opportunity. As long as the judgment is correct, don't regret what you have done. Success is often accompanied by failure. You should learn to afford to lose, so there is no shame in losing, and you should learn to treat every failure. If you fail, find out the reason and start all over again, but you must never fail again and again for one reason. Daughter, today's society is complicated because of the complexity of people's hearts. Learning to deal with interpersonal relationships is the key to success. You should learn to make friends now, and treat them sincerely as long as you think you can make friends. Learn from your friends to fill your own shortcomings. Friends: You can communicate with each other, help each other and make progress, but there is one thing that is a good friend, as long as it is against the principle, you can never do it, and you can't wronged yourself for your friends. Use your friend boldly when he should be used. Don't be shy, because these are mutual, and when he is also useful to you, this is interpersonal relationship. This is very important. You must understand that if you learn this course well, it will be much more useful than studying books for three years. But this doesn't mean that you should concentrate here. Mom just wants you to learn to be honest with others and communicate more with your classmates from now on.
Having said that, we should stick to good learning attitude and habits. Learning knowledge is used to arm the mind and create wealth with knowledge, not to stifle ability with knowledge. Only when a person really understands the purpose of learning can he have motivation to learn, so that he won't feel tired and bored. If he studies just for the sake of learning blindly, all he remembers is something dead, which becomes a burden. Mom wants you to be a wealth creator of learning, and she doesn't want you to be a simple learning machine, and she doesn't want learning to be your burden.
Daughter, tomorrow you will be 15 years old and become a big girl. Mother has another requirement, that is, pay attention to her image. This image is not just a beautiful appearance, but a comprehensive embodiment from the inside out. A good image can cheer people up and improve their self-confidence. Imagine a person who doesn't even pay attention to his own image, he won't cherish himself, let alone pay attention to others. A good image will bring you good opportunities, a good mood and more assurance of winning than others. These words are not completely right, but there is some truth, but you have to understand that a good image does not mean that you deliberately dress yourself up, as long as you dress neatly, decently, make people look comfortable and feel pleasing to the eye. The key to a good image lies in self-cultivation, temperament, self-restraint, self-reliance, self-improvement, love, love for oneself, love for parents, love for relatives and love for friends. Only a person with great love in his heart, coupled with his own wisdom and talent, will be steadily in society. Daughter, we believe you can do it.
Daughter, your birthday is coming. We are looking forward to it, and I believe you are the same. Mom has no gift for you, only this heart that loves you and these heartfelt words are given to you. This is the most simple and broad love we give you. I hope you can accept and understand. Happy birthday, daughter. We hope that you will be happy and healthy every day. We hope that a fully grown daughter will appear in front of us, and then we will be really relieved. Daughter, be considerate of your parents' hearts and don't easily ignore your mother's heart. This is your minimum filial piety to us and the best feedback to us. This is more responsible for yourself. Daughter, we don't ask you to do anything for us, just ask you to grow up happily and healthily.
XXX
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Letter to a 15-year-old daughter Fan Wensan
Dear baby Cao Yuan:
Baby, you have fallen asleep at the moment. I know you are in a happy and happy mood. Before going to bed, you kissed your mother and said goodbye to her as usual? have a good dream! ? Looking at your sweet smile in your sleep, my mother was filled with emotion: Baby, congratulations on your 15th birthday, congratulations on your growing up for another year!
Baby, although I bought you a beautiful birthday present, my parents are busy with work all day and don't have much time to spend with you. My parents still have many words to say to you on this special day. I hope these words are special birthday gifts for you:
Baby, let's start with your name. Your name-Cao Yuan, this name has given my parents infinite ardent hopes for you:
Baby, you are 15 years old today! After this summer vacation, you will leave the small family you spend every day with and enter the ideal high school to start your collective life on campus. High school is a crucial period for the formation of a person's outlook on life, values and world outlook. At this stage, the ideas, concepts and knowledge you accept, the friends you associate with and your own attitude towards life, life and study will have a great and far-reaching impact on your life, which will directly affect your growth and your future.
the most important thing for a person's growth is physical health and mental health. First of all, good health. I hope you, baby, can pay more attention to your health and take various physical exercises actively for your future. I hope my baby can be here