The poet Ji Bolun said: "Fun is the highest state of human nature. It is not difficult to be an interesting person. The first thing is to find the world interesting first. Enthusiasm is an attitude towards life. Interesting people are generally smart, optimistic, humorous and emotional. An interesting person is one who knows the true meaning of life. They are also people who know how to enjoy life. "
Interest is a scarce resource in this world. Yu Guangzhong, a famous poet in Taiwan Province, divided people into four categories in Four Kinds of Friends: the first category, advanced and interesting; Type 2, advanced boring; The third type is low-level fun; Fourth, deep and boring.
I am lucky because I have such a rare good buddy-advanced and interesting!
My good friend Chen Fu works in Liaoning Provincial Library. One of his specialties is restoring ancient calligraphy and painting. What level has he reached? The relevant departments in the province recommended him as the inheritor of intangible cultural heritage, and some units in Beijing and Shanghai have always wanted to dig him up with high salary.
He has sent his son to Germany to study piano since junior high school, and now he is studying for a doctorate. Recently, he was awarded a title that I can't remember, which is equivalent to the title of musician. In order to pay for his son's high tuition, Chen Fu has been teaching calligraphy in his spare time for nearly ten years, which is very hard.
Today, I won't talk about his dedication and his father's responsibility, only about his "fun"!
He has many hobbies, and he can take this love to the extreme.
He studied calligraphy in primary school and was a close disciple of Shen, a famous calligrapher in China.
Nowadays, the title of "calligrapher" is too rampant, and you can't fake any award certificate or competition. However, I think Chen Fu is definitely a calligrapher worthy of the name.
There are two facts:
First, he was hired as the executive editor of calligraphy textbooks for primary and middle school students in Liaoning Province. He finished the whole style design and copywriting by himself, and the copybooks in the textbooks were written by himself. At first, the publishing house found many so-called "calligraphers" to write, but it was absolutely "hard work" to find him again after failure.
Secondly, Liaoning cultural circles visited Russia the year before last. As a "cultural ambassador", Chen Fu is the protagonist of the delegation, who has given two important speeches, The Historical Origin and Evolution of Chinese Characters in China and Calligraphy Art in China, and performed live calligraphy performances.
Different from other calligraphers, he not only writes well, but also thoroughly studies the evolution and writing history of Chinese characters, thus gaining strong support from the cultural background.
He likes making wine, which has a history of more than ten years.
Oak barrels, corks, special wine bottles and wine cellars are all available. Not only wine, but all kinds of fruits have been tried. The wine he brewed was not for sale, but for friends. His lover laughed at him and paid for his friends.
Whenever there is a banquet, this old wine is of course essential. As soon as he mentioned the topic of brewing, he was very happy and said, "Why do French girls dance on grapes?" "What color is the high-quality wine preserved for ten years" and so on, let us open our eyes.
He likes farming, and the land is more authentic than farmers.
The year before last, a large piece of land near his unit was a "wasteland", so he advanced into "Nanniwan" and reclaimed a large piece. Every day when others take a lunch break, he goes to Nanniwan to practice. The sun is cold and sweaty, but he enjoys himself. During the harvest season, he drove us friends to his garden to pick them. What a living Lei Feng!
This year, the land began to work. Without the guts, he volunteered to run to the open space in front of his friends to be a "migrant worker".
He likes singing and dancing, which is very attractive.
Every party, as long as he is there, the atmosphere can be high. Sometimes at cocktail parties, even if there is no sound equipment, he will sing a cantata when he is drunk. The sound and typhoon make friends in the music class admire three points.
He studied martial arts since childhood.
According to himself, even now, several young people can't get close to him. We haven't verified this with our own eyes, but we can see it from his vigorous dancing.
He likes playing table tennis.
His table tennis level can be ranked in the provincial cultural system competition. Best of all, as a table tennis coach, he can see your problems at a glance and feed you the ball for special training, which will make you make rapid progress.
As for his other hobbies and specialties, such as sculpture, painting and photography, they are not ordinary, so I won't introduce them in detail.
What makes him interesting is that he has no fetters in his heart, and he speaks directly and is the most affectionate.
My brother Chen Fu is a man of absolute temperament.
He writes calligraphy, and it snows heavily outside. He will roll in the snow and write when he comes back. This is entirely out of his inner love for nature, not for show.
He and the old man can become friends because he is sincere, humble and filial.
Only after we became friends did we know that he was very close to my late father-in-law (a colleague in the library). Li Jingtao, a famous educator in Shenyang who was originally divorced from him, turned out to be his "michel platini"; The old president of the publishing house was alone at home, so he took him home for the New Year.
He can play with children because he is more childlike than children.
When we go out together, whoever takes care of the children will soon become a "king of the children", and he can really play with a variety of tricks, hehe ~
As long as there is a crowd, he is everyone's "pistachio"!
On the tour bus, he won't make everyone lonely, and he played Zhao Benshan perfectly. Now he will make you laugh.
One year, I organized a friend to go rafting in red river valley. He is a militant. When he first started drifting, he was provocative everywhere. As a result, many people on our kayak were attacked by water bombs. However, at the end of drifting, he was naked and began to sing. At this time, our ship became a temporary stage again, which attracted a lot of onlookers and cheers. It is estimated that red river valley has never been so busy.
Originally, he had many stories, so I'll stop here today and share them with you another day.
Interesting people are "happy engines" in the crowd. When you get along with interesting people, you will feel that the world has become interesting, life has become interesting, and you seem to have become interesting yourself.
I am very happy because I have an interesting partner!