A letter that touched the children most.
Stars:
Congratulations on your successful entrance examination, and face the beautiful process of life calmly. When I saw this letter, it was already after the senior high school entrance examination. Please listen carefully to our written conversation with you after you relax. This is what your parents said, hoping to arouse your * * *.
Children, the senior high school entrance examination is actually an exam, which tests the mentality and normality, although it is so important by secular definition. The key is to pass the senior high school entrance examination. What have you gained? Is it a score? Is the nine-year study over? Did you come to a good school? Is it a reward for parents? Or confidence in your life and study? Or the joy under pressure and after exercise? I think you can ask yourself. What did I get?
Your grades are important, but what is more important to us is your mental maturity. In the second and third grades, with the aggravation of your studies, the so-called pressure and the impulse of adolescence, your performance is puzzling. You are confused, conceited, fragile and irritable. As parents, we are very entangled and worried. Once, we thought you couldn't get through this period, and we were afraid that you would go all the way and become an inactive, irresponsible and unloving child. Fortunately, we are changing, and so are you. From the second half of the third semester, your adjustment is very big, and your mentality is gradually improving. You can put yourself in others' shoes and take responsibility for yourself. In this regard, we see it in our eyes and enjoy it in our hearts. I hope you will get better and better. My child, please let me call you a man through this competition!
Since the third grade, we have gradually respected your choice. When you chose not to report to Haining No.1 Middle School and decided to take the Gaohai exam, we were actually very worried, but we finally respected your choice. After all, this is your own life. We believe that you have understood the truth of life. After all, you are a boy of 17 years old. However, it is normal to be confused if you can't persist in concrete practice, but the burden of responsibility can't be put down all the time. Choice also means responsibility. Since you have chosen a distant place, you only care about the hardships? .
After the senior high school entrance examination, your colorful youth will undoubtedly be placed in high school. In this critical period, parents always want to tell you that there are several things to do besides enjoying the happiness after relaxation. Although these things are small, they are of great significance, that is:
First, be grateful. This is not asking you to be grateful to us, but a kind of righteousness and feedback to the world. Grateful teachers, they pay far more than you think while doing their duty. While imparting knowledge, teach you to be a man and arrange a time to visit them at school. Grateful classmates, classmates are study companions, playmates, indispensable friends in future life and wealth in life memory. Arrange a time to go to a good classmate's house; Thank the old people, grandparents and do something for them. Your visit is another kind of love and care that we can't replace. They care about you all the time.
Second, exercise. Take a good exercise and don't live up to the great spring scenery. You and I both know the joy of sports. Play basketball, table tennis, tennis and take a walk. If you like, we can spend our limited energy on you, or let your classmates exercise together, instead of spending a lot of time at home, watching TV and playing computer. Let your body move after studying. This is youth.
Third, practice calligraphy. Practicing calligraphy for half an hour every day, your mental outlook and what you get are far more than beautiful calligraphy. Last semester, your handwriting was gradually corrected, and you gained something. It is a pleasure to make progress in calligraphy. We can practice with you if you like.
Fourth, housework. It is your responsibility to undertake the necessary housework, and you may have to go to school and stay in high school, so the necessary washing ability and hygiene ability are indispensable. Therefore, you need to undertake housework as much as possible. You can clean the room, fold the bedding, start washing shoes, wash clothes and cook two dishes yourself every day. You know all this, don't you?
Fifth, communication. Communication is very important. Parents are willing to communicate with you. First, they will express their opinions on the basis of listening to our opinions clearly. So do we. Listening is very important. As long as it is reasonable, as long as there are rules and respect, we will respect your opinion. Similarly, it is best to agree and act according to our opinions and requirements at the first time. There should be no second, third or even countless urging between us, which will consume our trust and patience and produce unnecessary negative emotions, don't you think?
These are our hopes, please consider them. The most important thing is to put them into practice and make a plan. This requires your self-discipline. As for our supervision, you know it. I hope you can understand our profound meaning, treat these demands and hopes with a positive and open mind, and have a happy and meaningful holiday.
On the first day of the exam, parents were calm. Careful observation, there is a faint sadness. Sadly, the child grows up day by day, he wings to fly, we grow old day by day, his youth reflects our white hair all the time, and the baby will gradually leave our arms. Are we ready? Is he ready? We have never let go of this uneasy heart. Please understand, I hope you will wake up and cherish your future.
XXX
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The most touching letter to children (2)
Dear son:
It will be your twelfth birthday in a few days.
Dad will never forget 1997, the unforgettable autumn. Our son will be born. At that time, my father had just returned from the army and his family was penniless. Grandparents have not created any wealth for us, and even the problem of food and clothing has just been solved.
At that time, in order to get married, we were already heavily in debt. In order to save money, in August of that year, your elderly grandparents moved into our house in advance, waiting to deliver the baby to your mother. But your mother is almost half a month away from the due date, and you haven't been born yet. Dad is in a hurry, and so is mom. We took a patchwork of travel expenses and went to the county hospital for examination. The doctor suggested immediate hospitalization. In the hospital. Oh, my God, where is the money? In desperation, dad went to the rural credit cooperative and borrowed 1000 yuan. I don't know if you can feel what dad felt at that time.
Good son, since you have grown up, you should learn to be grateful to everyone. Do you know why dad didn't decorate the house first and lend money to our relatives? Because, in our most difficult time, they have been silently helping us. While you were in hospital in the city, your aunt and aunt tried their best to send us money. At that time, your grandmother had been paralyzed in bed for 22 years, and someone gave her 600 yuan to send your uncle to the city. When you came back from the city, the grandparents of Wangjiazhuang were almost eighty years old at that time, and they waited on your mother like an old nanny every day, with no regrets.
Because of poverty, dad learned to be strong, because of suffering, dad must struggle. Your uncle came back from Luoyang the night before your full moon. In order to make a living, he went to a construction site in Luoyang to do odd jobs for others. He works 14 hours a day and earns 15 yuan a day. He usually gets up at 4: 30 in the morning. After working there for nearly a month, he went home for the first time. He was so thin that his boss gave him 260 yuan money and he left 220 yuan to go home. The night after the guest left, he left in the dark again? In order to pay off your debts, dad packed his bags and left home before the full moon.
Son, what is a birthday? Birthday is actually a day when mother suffers, and it is a day when we should thank mother and relatives and friends. Birthday is another important milestone in our life, which indicates that we have grown up. Do you know why dad wants you to live up to expectations? Because we have no choice but to struggle. Through struggle, my father has his own house and career in the city. In the near future, the city will no longer be a hasty post station for us, but we will be the real masters of the city.
Children, suffering is a valuable asset to the strong and a stumbling block to the weak. Today, your generation? Suffering? I am getting farther and farther away from you. Dad has been thinking about why modern life is getting closer and closer to us, while my children's ideas are getting farther and farther away from our original intention. Why do you sometimes blush when you compete with adults for channels to watch TV? Why do you sometimes hang on your face for a long time because of a little injustice? Why do you sometimes talk to your parents in such a rebellious tone? Are we doing something wrong, or do we not understand the inner world of this generation?
Son, mom and dad are proud of you. Because our son is very competitive and his homework is excellent. Dad is trying to build one by one? Thirty years in Hedong, thirty years in Hexi? Family story. I don't know if my son can inherit the wealth that your once humiliated and stupid grandparents passed on to us.
When you are twelve years old, how many twelve years can you have in your life, and how many years will determine the fate of your life? Therefore, I hope my son will have a great dream and a grand goal from junior high school to senior high school. Napoleon said: A soldier who doesn't want to be a general is not a good soldier. ? I believe my son. From now on, we will try our best to become a member? General? .
Good son, we should not only have good academic performance, healthy body, but also have good psychological quality. The employment pressure will be greater and greater in the future. We should cultivate a lively and cheerful personality. The more frustrated we are, the braver we are.
Finally, may my son be promoted step by step? Win? !
XXX
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The most touching letter to children
Hello, son:
How old is the baby 10? Children's Day? At that time. Mom struggled for a long time and didn't know what gift to prepare for you. Mom and dad will prepare gifts for you from the moment you know you have a holiday. Mom doesn't want to buy you any presents this year. Son, as you grow up day by day, your knowledge is accumulating day by day, and you know more and more ... So mom decided to write you a letter as a gift. Let you know mom and dad. We hope you like mom's gift.
Son; Mom and dad will do their best to raise you and educate you with their greatest wisdom and energy. The purpose is to hope that you can grow up healthily and happily. I can study hard and lay a good foundation for my future. I hope you can understand the bitter conscience of mom and dad.
Children; In the process of educating you, my mother once hit you hard, scolded you hard and lost her temper with you. These rude behaviors hurt your feelings and seriously hurt your body. It's all mom's fault. Here, mom apologizes to you. Please forgive her. Mother tried to correct it. I also hope that you will supervise your mother and let us grow together!
Son; Mom wants to put forward some learning requirements for you: planning, diligence, reciting and reading. Plan: Make a practical plan by yourself. Be strict with yourself every day and finish what you learn every day according to the plan. Diligence: study hard, study hard, don't be lazy, don't forget things, and don't understand the things of the day. Don't put off till tomorrow what you can do today. Reciting books: the exam is actually not difficult. It is nothing more than writing the knowledge in the books you usually recite and read on paper with a pen. Therefore, reciting and reading books at ordinary times are important sources for you to accumulate knowledge. Only in this way will your grades get better and better and you will study happily. You should learn to ask yourself every day: Did I recite it today? What did you recite? Have I ever read a book? Do you understand everything? Do I understand the articles in the books I recite and read?
Son: In two or three months, you will be ten years old. In this period, you will bloom in the morning sun, with unlimited sunshine and unlimited future. You are in the transitional period from intermediate to advanced, just like the transitional sentence of an article, which plays a connecting role. Last semester, next semester, you are about to enter the sprint stage of grade three. Just like running 5000 meters, you have reached the sprint 100 meter stage, which is the stage of physical fatigue and mental tension, but it is also the stage that needs persistence and hard work most. Only persistence will win.
Child: I believe you are the best! Good health is the capital of learning. Without a healthy body, there will be no progress in learning. Therefore, mom and dad also hope that you can do more exercise after finishing your studies. I hope you don't be picky eaters, partial eclipse or eat by mistake in your daily diet. Eat more fruits and vegetables.
My child: We are very grateful that you were born in our family. Live, study and grow with us. Thank you for bringing us happiness, laughter, hope and pride. Because of you, our home is warmer and fuller.
Our good son! Mom and dad are getting old day by day and will leave you one day. You are getting bigger every day. There is a long and difficult road ahead of you. I hope you know how to cherish time. You should learn to race against time, so that you will succeed. Mom and dad don't ask you to be the first in everything, but they always want you to learn to surpass others and beat yourself in study, life and body.
My child, parents believe that you are the best! I believe you will establish self-confidence, overcome inferiority, establish a diligent attitude, overcome lazy attitude, establish careful thinking and overcome careless thinking. We watch you, come on. ........
My son: Mom said so much, maybe you are unhappy, maybe there are some things you don't understand, maybe there are some inappropriate and wrong places in this letter from mom. Here, my mother apologizes to you first, and asks you to make valuable suggestions and opinions. We will accept it humbly and make corrections sincerely. Let mom and dad grow up with you! Make progress together!
Finally, I wish you a happy holiday! Have fun! Sing, sing and jump! Wish you success in your studies in the future! Physical and mental health! Happy every day!
XXX
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The most touching letter to children
Yuan Yuan
My dear daughter:
Dad has a lot to say, and he wants to wait until after the college entrance examination to communicate with you, but in the face of your current mood, I still want to say a few words briefly today.
How should we adjust ourselves in the face of the college entrance examination? I'm afraid everyone will come up with some suggestions to comfort themselves and others. But most of these are just word of mouth. How to be specific to the event and how to go deep into the mind, even those who have no experience and experience are just guesses. You have to face it yourself and try to do it well.
There is nothing universally applicable in the world. It depends on your own consciousness and wisdom. Yesterday, your mother said that success is not at the starting point, but at the turning point. As far as dad's cognition of society in recent years is concerned, many people include you. The best turning point is four years of college. Imagine how many people are excellent learners, top of the college entrance examination, and all fall behind in the end. Because too many people are running for the goal of the college entrance examination on this track, this is a goal, but it is not the highest value of your life! After the college entrance examination, most college students relaxed their journey forward. At this time, as long as you have a forward heart, are you still afraid of not going far?
The concept that pervades most parents and children now is that we need a good school, a good job and an income to buy a house and a car, but have you ever thought that we will do the same in the future? Be needed? People in need of society! What the human world needs!
Only when you are needed, you are happy and valuable, and slowly taste the taste of happiness in the process of being needed. You are needed by your relatives and parents now. At this stage, you are happy, but this happiness is not enough to support your life. When you become a person recognized by society and people around you, your value comes into being. If it's valuable, I'm afraid it's not valuable?
Last night, my father and your mother talked about self-confidence. Your mother and I didn't blindly confirm that our children must be excellent. We have our own understanding of you. You have the motivation to establish your own growth, and in the process of learning from my mother, I have also strengthened my understanding of many correct concepts. Getting out of the height is only a process of time and experience.
Will you ask dad? You said I had something to make you confident,
Why didn't I find it? Why don't I know?
Dad, let's talk about it now. You have stepped out of the first height of your life three years ago. Do you agree to lower this height first? But you can feel how many people around you recognize it and applaud it! Human nature likes the strong, because you have done something that others can't, so you have met a need. This is your value, and its price is to establish your confidence at one stage! I'm sure you can understand what I mean.
How can we copy ourselves and enlarge what was meaningful into motivation, such as the execution after the choice, the flexibility when something goes wrong, and the face? Under heavy rain? The ability to think calmly! You used to be calm in the rain, so that dad will always remember! !
Words grow. Suppose you have the ability to earn1million a year, and someone tells you not to do anything. I'll give you1000000 a year. Do you accept it? I believe you won't, because what you need is not money, but freedom, freedom and the pleasure of self-behavior. Now take you out to play. In today's era, you don't lack beautiful scenery, and you don't lack food and clothing. I believe what you want to pursue is a kind of spiritual growth, a kind of shock of personality charm.