All this is because, in the beautiful years of chasing dreams, you chose to let nature take its course for your colorful life with so-called certainty and secular stability.
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A few days ago, a classmate asked me on WeChat what I was busy with recently. I said I would go to work, have tea, look out the window occasionally and enjoy the warm sunshine. The wind blew, the clouds floated ... she said, it was really enjoyable. I replied to her: your so-called comfort is just that I am wasting my time!
Xiaodong is my classmate. He has been a teacher since graduation. Although he doesn't often contact, he also knows that he must be busy with other people's children and his own children every day, either giving lectures in class or taking his children to school. Because, I have been a teacher for ten years, and I have to work endlessly day after day, year after year. I can't help it This is the work of bringing home the bacon, and it must be finished. In addition, there is something called conscience, which works in the mind from time to time. It can't keep you awake at night, so you can only engage in the greatest education in the world.
Recently, Xiao Dong asked me to help set the name and seal of a client, saying that he wanted to write some calligraphy works. At this time, I realized that Xiao Dong never gave up the calligraphy we learned in the normal school. I feel very embarrassed, because after graduation, my calligraphy, painting and seal cutting are almost abandoned, and then I watched Xiao Dong persist for more than ten years.
Where is this gap? That is, when I am climbing mountains, taking pictures and playing, people are practicing calligraphy; When I pushed a cup on the wine table for a change, people were practicing calligraphy; When I water flowers, drink tea and read newspapers at my desk, people are still practicing calligraphy ... When I think of what I should do, people have been insisting for nearly twenty years, and what have I done in these twenty years? What is worth mentioning? No, nothing except hypertension, hyperlipidemia, hyperglycemia and greasy social habits.
In fact, I thought about practicing writing, writing and reading before, but I didn't stick to it. Really have no time? Then how do you have time to drink? How do you have time to play games? How do you have time to watch soap operas and brush your circle of friends? And every time I think about doing something, it's either this reason or that reason. Anyway, there are excuses. For example: I just turned on the computer and collected some data. When the power went out, I told myself to wait for the call! Just quiet down, pick up the brush, want to submit two copybooks, the child asked you to help solve, you think, the child's business is important, practice writing first. On weekends, my mind is seldom at leisure. I'm just about to read for a while. When a friend wants a drink, I tell myself to watch it after drinking it. The friend also said: Is it that short? You can watch it whenever you want. Think about it, too. In this way, until now. You will accomplish nothing!
Therefore, you don't need to envy others' success, and you don't need to be depressed about your present situation.
What you give is always in direct proportion to what you get. Everything you have now is the best reward you deserve.
There is sunshine and rain on the road of life; There are rainbows and thorns; There are flowers and leaves Since I chose to enjoy the years, I was doomed to be unable to appreciate the scenery on the top of the mountain.
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In life, many people are content with the status quo and enjoy a dull life. Because after all, as an ordinary person's ability is limited.
Some people can afford a villa of 200 square meters, and you can only buy a second-hand building of 80 square meters; Others can buy 1 10,000 BMW X5, and you can only buy 50,000 Changan V3. Others can travel around the world on vacation when they are free, and you can only experience the pastoral scenery in the surrounding countryside. This is a reality and a gap.
There is a good saying: since you can't change the world, you can only change yourself. Although you are too far from success, you must never give up what you can win with your own efforts. Those desires and beauty in life may be just a step away, or a few meters away.
Xiaoqing is a reporter of a newspaper. Although on-the-job, the salary is about 4K, and there are five insurances and one gold. For a girl, it can completely solve the problem of food and clothing. Xiaoqing, in particular, seldom goes shopping, reads books every day, stays at home with her parents, never spends a penny indiscriminately, and most of her salary is given to her parents. She is definitely a rare obedient girl.
The work is ok, not too tight or too loose. Follow up the news every day, report in real time, write some plans, take some photos, and enjoy the weekend leisure without wind or sunshine.
There are six girls admitted to the unit with Xiaoqing, all of whom have just graduated from college and are basically in their mid-twenties. Because they are all on-the-job, they are trying to pass the civil service examination and enter the system, without worrying about the danger of being dismissed at any time. As the old saying goes: having a formal establishment is equivalent to having an iron rice bowl, and retirement is guaranteed and practical.
But four or five years later, some of them were admitted to civil servants and went to other units, while others got married and went to the city where their boyfriends lived. Only Xiaoqing continued to struggle for youth in the original unit. Although she also takes various exams every year, her grades are not ideal. Many people in the company are worried about her. After all, she is in grade three. Even if her job is unstable now, she should at least find a boyfriend, but she always smiles indifferently.
Whenever I talk to her about the exam, she always looks as if she has tried her best, but if she fails, she will buy a road. Then continue to do your own work.
This is by no means the attitude that young people should have, nor should it be the life that young people really want. Maybe, as she said, she tried her best, so why didn't she get in? Because everyone else is pushing themselves to do their best.
Therefore, when everyone is at a starting line, some people think that participation is an experience and ranking is secondary; Some people think that if I can stick to the finish line, it will be victory, friendship first and competition second; Some people may need this bonus to treat their loved ones, so they can't wait to make full use of it. Different purposes will lead to different results, so the efforts will be different, and the achievements will certainly be different.
Everyone wants to live a high-quality life, so countless material and spiritual needs make you have to rise up and move forward.
Maybe we can't do our best, but we must have the belief to do better.
You can choose peace and tranquility, or you can choose the Golden Goma Iron in the Jianghu. In a word, you can't leave regrets in life, and you can't wait until you stumble to find that the moonlight is fading.