"It will be boring to stay alone for a long time, so I can go out by bike. Cycling is to give yourself a time to think, and you must face that journey alone. " He pointed to the three rounds and raised his hand and wiped his sweat with a small towel.
"Loneliness is not loneliness." The big boy with slightly inclined shoulders said with a smile.
The calligraphy hanging on the wall of his dormitory is quite unique: "What's the panic?" . This is what Zhang Dakui heard on TV. Please write for him. "I always feel flustered. I used to feel inferior, but now my mentality is much better. "
"In fact, I'm not as powerful as you think. More often, life pushes me to a dead end step by step, and I can only do what I should and can do. When it passed, those who praised me only saw the results, and the helplessness of the process was only known to me. " He said frankly. He concluded: "Do things well when the mood is high, and do people well when the tide is low."
He liked Jobs's speech at Stanford University: "You can't connect the dots in the future in advance; Only when you have experienced it can you understand how those dots are strung together. So you have to believe that all the experiences in front of you will be connected to your future. "
"No one can guarantee your future, but what you do now will definitely constitute your future. If you want to change the future, please start now. Anxiety does not help, and action can change the status quo. " Zhang Dakui said.
"To be honest, as a disabled child, it is hard to say that I feel inferior in my heart." Zhang Dakui admits that what he fears most is the curious eyes of others. He has been able to confidently say the following passage:
"I was born different. I walk special, talk special and write special. This is my Zhang Dakui style. I should be seen and heard. I came to this world just to bring some difference to this world. I want to tell people that people can still live so humbly in such a living state; It turns out that a life can touch the vision and hearing of the world in such a unique way. "
Zhang Dakui said that although he doesn't have a good job, a house or a lover now, "I have one thing that I value very much, and that is the opportunity for growth. I can't imagine how sad it will be if I have no room to grow up one day. I have beautiful dreams, including career, love and family. "
Zhang Dakui said that life has taught him a truth: the ideals spoken are the most unreliable. "Wait until one day you realize the ideal that you have secretly nourished for a long time, and then tell others that you once had that ideal. Otherwise the ideal is empty talk. "
"Another reason why I feel jealous when others praise me is that I'm not as good as you think. More often, life pushes me to a dead end step by step, and I can only do what I should and can do. When I passed, when someone praised me, I only saw the result, and only I knew it. In fact, the process is more helpless. In those years, when life was hard, our brother and sister got together and asked each other the most:' Will a good life really come?' "
"Over the years, I have learned that no matter what I experience, I regard it as an opportunity for God to help me grow. We must not only survive from the cracks of suffering, but also strive to get the greatest harvest from it; Keep a good feeling for the future, adhere to the inner truth, goodness and beauty, and fear the minimum morality, because this persistence will always bring hope, touch and strength to people, and will eventually turn everything into happiness and beauty! Therefore, no matter what kind of situation and suffering you encounter, please believe in the power of faith. "