Success comes from diligent arguments;
Minand of ancient Greece said:? Diligence can win everything. ? Victory and success are accompanied by diligent people. Numerous examples at all times, at home and abroad have confirmed this truth.
Factual argument
? Bizuka? The origin of
Huai Su, a calligrapher in the Tang Dynasty, was famous for his cursive script. Cao Sheng? . Is his cursive script bold and unconstrained? Showers and strong winds? Fashion.
He was a monk when he was a child, and more than 10 thousand plantains were planted near the temple. He picks banana leaves and practices calligraphy every day. After the banana leaves are used up, practice calligraphy with a light-colored lacquer plate and a square board. Write all the words, erase them and practice. After a long time, the paint tray and the board were worn through. The walls, furniture and even cloth made by monks of the temple are covered with words. He practices calligraphy diligently every day, uses a lot of bald brushes, piles them up and buries them at the foot of the mountain. Bizuka? .
Dong Lao's crutches
Old revolutionary Dong likes calligraphy. After busy work, he is diligent in practicing calligraphy. In his later years, he always went out on crutches. When you are tired from walking, when you sit down to rest, you can use your cane as a pen and practice writing on the ground. If you sit high, you can simply hold your cane like a pen and write in the air. When walking, use crutches to exercise the wrist strength of holding and lifting pens. Because of Dong Lao's efforts, his calligraphy is beautiful and straight. Dongti? .
Yan Xue drama.
Yan Ju Peng, the founder of Peking Opera School, is a Mongolian, and his ancestors were military attaché s of the Qing Dynasty for generations. When he was studying at the Royal Army Academy, he was particularly interested in the art of Peking Opera. After graduation, I found a small job in a Mongolian and Tibetan college, and my income was not high. My family of six lived a poor life. But he tried his best to save money for the opera. He especially likes watching the plays performed by Tan Xinpei, a famous old student. Whether it rains cats and dogs or it snows heavily, he always nails his shoes and holds an umbrella. He went to the theater to buy the cheapest ticket and watched Tan Xinpei's performance with rapt attention. For more than ten years, he has traveled all over Beijing's major cinemas without interruption.
He not only studied Tan Xinpei's performing arts assiduously, but also innovated constantly on the basis of learning from others, and finally formed his own unique style, which made him unique in Beijing Opera and became the founder of Yan School.
Menser? Terminal illness?
Aldev? Menser is a world-famous sketch master. /kloc-began to learn painting at the age of 0/3. He created more than15,000 sketches and more than 7,000 sketches in his life. These amazing works are the fruit of his hard work. No matter where he goes, he always carries painting tools with him, and he can see painting figures everywhere in the streets, rural fields and river tops. Some people say that he understands? Slow painter? He said happily. I hope this disease is terminal. ?
Draw eggs
Da? Finch was an outstanding Vietnamese painter in Italy during the European Renaissance. He loved painting since childhood, and his father sent him to Florence to study under the famous painter Buddha Rocchio. In the first class, the teacher taught him to draw eggs. He painted for more than ten days, but the teacher asked him to continue painting eggs. What's the point? In doubt, I asked the teacher: Why do I always draw eggs? The teacher told him that although an egg has no joint pain, there is nothing absolutely the same in the world. Even the same egg will emit different light at different angles. For example, if you look up or down, the oval outline of the egg will be different. Therefore, drawing eggs is a basic skill. Basic skills should be practiced with ease.
Da? Since then, Finch has practiced basic skills and painted eggs every day. One year, two years, three years? The draft he used to draw eggs has piled up. After a long and diligent artistic practice, he finally created many immortal famous paintings and became a great master.
Theoretical demonstration
1, swim against the current, hold on, and retreat to Chihiro in one breath. Dong wrote an inscription for middle school students.
2. Stupid birds fly first. Yuan? Guan Hanqing's Mu Chen Jiaozi
3, Shushan has a hard road, and learning the sea is endless. A collection of ancient and modern couplets Academic alliance
4, the industry is diligent, barren land; Everything I have done has been destroyed by thought. Don? Han Yu's "Understanding of Learning"
Hard work can bring good luck. Fuller's words of wisdom
6, as long as the kung fu is deep, the iron pestle is ground into a needle. Qing? Yu Yue's Tea Room Series
7, dedication and ambition, wide and diligent. "History? Zhou Shu? Zhouguan
8, no time, crowded; Can't learn, drill. Xie Juezai's Collection of Learning Languages
9. Treat inertia as the enemy. Cloud "To Zong Baihua"
10, people who want to pick fruits must climb trees. Fuller's words of wisdom
1 1. Song? Harmony between Ouyang Xiu and Yu Sheng
12, learning is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat; Like a plain horse, it's easy to let go but difficult to collect. A collection of ancient and modern couplets Academic alliance
13, get up at night, Pepsi will be prosperous.
14, perseverance, rotten wood can't be carved; Perseverance, the stone can be carved. Xunzi? Persuasive learning
15, the virtue lies in laziness, and the name lies in labor. Song? One Truth of Sima Guang
16, if you don't stop digging, the ditch will be deep, and if you don't stop the axe, you will get more wages. Han? Chong Wang, in general? Life record
17, success comes naturally. Ming? Journey to the West, Wu Cheng'en
18, only learning from inside and outside. South Liang Chao? Liu Xie's Wen Xin Diao Long? Things "
19, diligent people sweat more; Greedy people have more water.
20. An axe can be as sharp as a razor.
Success comes from confident arguments;
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1) Know yourself well:
Know your strengths:
It is very important to know yourself. The ruler is short and the inch is long. Everyone has his own shortcomings and advantages. If we are shorter than others because of our own strengths, we can find our confidence, strengths and advantages on the basis of objectively understanding our own weaknesses and weaknesses. You should always say to yourself:? Am I okay? , me? I can do it. . You should always trust your ability, your judgment and your vision. When you encounter any problems, don't be influenced by others. Only by solving them yourself can you become a confident person.
No one is perfect.
List all your interests, hobbies, abilities and specialties, even if they are very subtle. Then compare with other peers. Through a comprehensive and dialectical view of our own situation and the outside world, we realize that no mortal is perfect, and the value of human beings is mainly reflected in achieving the goals within our power through our own efforts. Take an objective and rational attitude towards your own failure, don't deceive yourself, don't be too serious, and deal with reality with a positive attitude. If you can fully understand yourself, you will not be easily influenced by other people's evaluation and judgment.
Evaluate your own strength honestly.
If you want to overcome your self-distrust, you should think that you have this ability. You should be honest with yourself and others, know what you can and can't do, and honestly evaluate your own strength, so as to face your own failure and not lack confidence. You should be honest with yourself, because honesty is the antidote to lack of confidence. The clearer a person is about his own strength, the less he will lack self-confidence and the more he likes himself now. On the contrary, people who don't know themselves well or have false expectations are more likely to lack self-confidence.
(2) reflect on the pain caused by lack of self-confidence:
You should reflect on the pain caused by your self-distrust. Think about it, what kind of pain will a person who is not confident enough have? For example: being looked down upon by others, often failing to do things, being miserable and unhappy inside, and so on. Think about your pain, and then tell yourself that you will not continue to cultivate negative feelings of inferiority, but will cultivate more positive emotions, such as compassion, self-confidence, honesty, and so on.
(3) divert attention:
A person can neither be perfect nor have nothing. Don't always stare at your shortcomings and failures, but pay more attention to your advantages. Turn your attention and energy to what you are most interested in and good at. The fun and sense of accomplishment you get from it will strengthen your self-confidence, dispel the shadow of your lack of self-confidence and relieve your psychological pressure and tension.
(4) Prove your ability and value with actions:
Whether a person is valuable or not can be judged by what he has done and what he can achieve is valuable. Therefore, you can choose something that you are more confident and meaningful to do first, such as writing beautifully, writing more, and then finding a goal. Only in this way can you reap the joy of success and move towards higher goals in the joy of success. Every success will strengthen your self-confidence and weaken your lack of self-confidence, while a series of successes will consolidate your self-confidence. When you really think you can do something, what reason do you have to doubt your ability?
(5) try to compensate yourself correctly:
Blind people are particularly smart, and blind people are particularly smart. This is physiological compensation, and people's psychology also has the ability to compensate. In order to overcome your self-distrust, you can make up diligently, know your own shortcomings in some aspects, and overcome them with the greatest determination and perseverance. This is a positive and effective compensation. The second is to foster strengths and avoid weaknesses, lose the eastern corner and harvest mulberries. Defects are not absolutely immutable. The key is whether you are willing to change. As long as you make up your mind, you can get rid of your self-distrust
(6) Other methods:
Confident people usually like to remind themselves with some negative words, such as: Do you get up in the morning and say to yourself in the mirror? The results are announced today, and I may fail? ,? Failure? This is a negative word. You should stop using these negative words and use some positive words, such as? I will succeed today! ? You can regain your confidence.
Because human beings are sensible, but not confident enough. If you are more sensible and know more than others, you will be full of confidence. When chatting with others, only say what you know. Don't talk too much about what you don't know. You will find yourself speaking with confidence. Knowledge is also a source of self-confidence. With the power of knowledge, you will be very confident.
The reason why many people are not confident is that they always like to compare the strengths of others. For example, if you compare with someone who is more handsome than you, you will definitely be less confident. Comparing with others is a bad habit, which can easily destroy your self-confidence. It is best not to compare. If you can't avoid not comparing, then you must compare your own advantages with others' shortcomings, so that your self-confidence will not be shaken passively. To evaluate yourself correctly, we should not only see our own shortcomings, but also our own strengths. We must not lose sight of our humanity and superiority because we are inferior to others in some aspects. This is the correct comparison with others.
Confident people are usually relatively independent people, because independent people are usually not helpless people, they will solve their own problems. Only people who are not independent enough will often feel helpless and often need help from others. If you want to be a confident person, you must learn to be an independent person.
We should consciously choose to associate with people who are cheerful, optimistic, enthusiastic, kind, respectful and caring. In the process of communication, your attention will be attracted by others, you will feel the joys and sorrows of others, jump out of the small circle of personal psychological activities, and your mood will become cheerful; At the same time, in communication, we can know others and ourselves in many ways, and through conscious comparison, we can correctly know ourselves, adjust our self-evaluation and improve our self-confidence.
Read more successful books of celebrities, especially stories of celebrities who have been troubled by inferiority complex, so as to gain experience in overcoming difficulties, and then encourage themselves to be firm and confident, give full play to their strengths, concentrate on their efforts and unswervingly achieve their goals.
Learn to think deeply. Hideo Kobayashi, director of the Japanese Psychotherapy Institute, believes that this method can be used to increase a person's self-confidence. The method is: with abdominal breathing, concentrate on your strengths, such as thinking about happy things in primary school and praise from others, you will be more confident. Don't be ashamed to admit your strengths, and constantly supplement them from scratch.
Sometimes confidence can come from a person's appearance. If you are not confident enough, you should dress yourself up to increase your confidence. It doesn't matter if you're not beautiful or handsome. Appearance is not the most important thing, but your dress is the most important thing. For example, girls usually feel more confident after wearing makeup, while boys usually wear ties and coats. These are all my own psychological effects. If I feel that I have a good appearance compared with others, I will have confidence.