"Love stops at ceremony", also known as "Love stops at ceremony", is an ancient description of the relationship between men and women. Affection, that is, human emotions are generated between men and women; It is bound by etiquette to stop at the ceremony. From Preface to the Book of Songs and Mao Shi. The original text is as follows: Therefore, the wind becomes sentimental and ends with ceremony. It is human nature to express feelings; Stop at courtesy and righteousness, and the first king's ze is also.
Analysis: "Show love, stop at ceremony" is the idea of Confucius. It is ok to fall in love, but you can't go beyond the boundaries of etiquette, that is, you can't have sex. The word "stop" here does not mean to stop feelings, but means to stop within the scope permitted by etiquette, and not to do anything beyond etiquette because of love.