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There is a story. A seriously ill girl was lying on the hospital bed looking at the trees outside the window, thinking that she was just like the leaves. In autumn, when the leaves had fallen off, she He is about to pass away from this world.
After learning about it, a painter next door painted a leaf with paint and secretly stuck it on the tree within sight of the girl.
The girl kept waiting for the last leaf to fall, but after autumn and winter came, it did not fall until the next spring. The girl also miraculously recovered from the illness while persisting.
The painter's kindness was silent, like the spring breeze turning into rain, nourishing the life that was about to end.
Although it is not material charity, it is spiritual comfort, and it is a kind of compassion that extends to oneself and others, without being alarmed or disturbing, and shining brightly.
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I have a sister who works in the field of jewelry. During the time I have known her, she is almost always covered in jewels, and she exudes the charm of a successful woman. She looks great wherever she goes. It's dazzling.
Once, I wanted to travel. When she asked me, the destination happened to be in her hometown, so she volunteered to be my tour guide because she hadn’t been with some of her sisters for a long time. .
As soon as we met at the airport, the scene when I saw her was completely different from what I usually see her. All the jewelry on her body was taken off and she was dressed very casually. I was confused at the time. , jokingly said: Sister, why did you suddenly change your style?
She said with a smile: This time I went home to meet some sisters, not business guests. I am more casual. My good sisters currently live an ordinary life.
Immediately, I understood that she was not public in order to take care of the dignity of her sisters and not let them feel the psychological burden of seeing her succeed.
As writer Leng Ying said:
Not embarrassing others is actually making yourself comfortable. This kind of kindness is silent but warms the heart. And people who show this kind of kindness often know how to protect the self-esteem of others.
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The weather was hot and the train was speeding along. The food cart on the train came over. An uncle bought a bottle of soda, but the uncle never drank it. He just took it. While holding the soda, I kept flipping through it, looking at the front and back, but I didn't open it, and there was a wave of anxiety on my face.
After seeing this, a mother sitting next to her asked for a bottle from the returning cart, then slowly opened the soda bottle with her hands, took a sip and put it on the table.
The uncle immediately opened the button and started drinking loudly.
In fact, the mother did not want to drink soda. She just wanted to tell the uncle how to open the soda, and she gently took care of the uncle's face.
The warmth and beauty in this world are made up of these moments of goodwill. There are thousands of worlds, and everyone has their own journey. You can still see others while rushing forward. If you are willing to reach out to help someone face difficulties, your silent kindness will definitely be treated gently and kindly by the world.
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Before Wang Baoqiang became popular after playing the role in "A World Without Thieves", he was just an unknown person who played a part-time role.
Once, he went to the toilet backstage. Since he had never seen much of the world, Wang Baoqiang did not know how to turn on the voice-activated faucet. He pressed there as hard as he could, but no water came out of the faucet. Not to mention how embarrassing that scene was.
This scene happened to be seen by Andy Lau. Andy Lau didn't say anything. He had obviously washed his hands, but he pretended that they were not washed and turned back and put his hands under the faucet. Three seconds later, water flowed out. Wang Baoqiang next to him understood it at a glance.
Wang Baoqiang said: "At that time, Andy Lau didn't even know my name."
What is the best kindness?
The best kindness is to provide kindness without exposing others to embarrassment.
Kindness is the background of life, the original appearance of life, and the most beautiful flower blooming in the heart.
The best is like water, and virtue carries everything. The right kind of kindness is like water, silent and uncontested, but it nourishes and benefits all things.
Quiet kindness, unobtrusive, asking for nothing in return, quietly expressed, the most sincere!