The Thirty-Seven Law? The best way to get along is nothing more than this
The Thirty-Seven Law
There is a folk saying:
Make porridge It takes three parts rice and seven parts water; for health maintenance, it takes three parts cold and seven parts full; for reading, it takes three parts reading and seven parts savoring; for drinking, it takes three parts getting drunk and seven parts waking up.
The so-called "three The "Seven Laws" apply to most things, and the same applies to relationships and emotions.
For feelings, you can deliver, but you cannot pay in full. Loving too much may be a disaster.
You must know that when people get along, especially in In marriage, we need to pay more attention to methods and methods. In my opinion, the most comfortable relationship is nothing more than three-quarters explicitness and seven-cent tacit understanding; three-cent communication and seven-cent tolerance; three-cent joy and seven-cent cherishing.
Third points made clear, seven points tacit understanding
A comfortable relationship between people is three points made clear and seven points tacit understanding. I understand the meaning behind your words, I understand your hesitation in speaking, and I understand all the meanings of your sorrow, troubles, and happiness.
I can complement and help you, and I can also use your strengths and avoid weaknesses with you, and share all the pain in trivial, complicated, and depressing situations.
Such a tacit understanding is not something we are born with, but a true feeling that emanates from the inside out in the name of love and care, observing and paying attention with our hearts when we get along with each other every day.
Even just a glass of water, a look, or a hug can make you feel full of tenderness and solidity.
Three points of communication, seven points of tolerance
A sincere and lasting relationship requires communication, but also mutual tolerance,
I have always liked this sentence :
The most valuable love is always understanding and action. Maybe we have all had fantasies about a perfect relationship, but gradually we will understand that there are few matches made in heaven or divine friendships, and life has always had its difficulties.
There is never a unified standard for how two people get along. I understand your personality, so I won’t criticize you. You understand my needs, so you won’t give up on me. Understanding each other, meeting each other slowly, and loving each other for a long time are the best fulfillment.
Three points of joy, seven points of cherishment
How many feelings started from fate, combined with joy, but were destroyed by not cherishing them.
Every relationship in this world is hard-won, so it needs to be managed carefully. Any relationship can only last if you know how to cherish it. Only if you use your heart, can you have it. Only those who know how to cherish are worthy of being held in the palm of your hand and doted on. Only those who cherish others will be cherished and cared for by others.
We just met by chance, and then we formed a team to explore together. This beautiful world is not about being bound to each other, let alone sacrificing for it. When the two of us are together, our life will definitely be more interesting and meaningful than when I am alone, so that our love for each other is not in vain.