After watching the family style, I feel 1. If a family has its own family style, people in this family will get along harmoniously and happily. I once read a book by Wang Ru, Family Style, in which the story of three generations of the Wangs was written in the tone of a centenarian. This centenarian named Yang left a deep impression on me. He was "magnanimous and broad-minded" in dealing with people. Yang, a small-footed grandmother with a low educational level, keeps nearly 100 members of the Wang family in good order. The reason is that she has established family precepts and a whole family style. In this process, she has always insisted on caring for her family and taking kindness as her family style.
Li Mei, the granddaughter of the old man, was pregnant unexpectedly, but she didn't want a child, so she went to a small clinic to have it aborted. Unexpectedly, she was admitted to the hospital because of surgical bleeding. When Li Mei was disheartened, the old man called most of the Wangs to let Li Mei feel everyone's concern and love for her. Even though Li Mei has done a lot of wrong things, the concept of benevolence and righteousness of the elderly has always made her do something for Li Mei, making Li Mei feel warm when she was rejected by her biological mother and former mother-in-law. Yang Man Liu Sheng Sr is not only generous, but also broad-minded. When Li Yu and her brother Li Xue fought for family property, which led to leukemia induced by Li Yu's grandson, although she was chilling for their selfish behavior, she was always sincere, kind and kind inside. She took out 200,000 yuan from the encouragement fund to treat the child, hoping that the child would not suffer. This is her kindness. No matter how disappointed she is with the behavior of Yu Yu and Sydney, she will not take part in the children's affairs, and she will still try her best to help them save them. With a loving family style, the whole family prospers. After Li Mei was discharged from the hospital, she ran a small company and lived a colorful life. Li Yu no longer competes with Li Xue for property, and the child's illness has also been treated in time. I admire the kindness of old Yang Man Liu Sheng.
If everyone is as kind as she is, and everyone will pass on kindness as a family style, then the communication between people must be harmonious and happy. Yang's loving family style made people feel the warmth between people and won the praise of neighbors. Therefore, we should learn from Lao Yang, inherit her kind thoughts and be a "broad-minded" person. Come on, let's go!
After reading Family Style, I feel 2. When I opened the book Family Style, I was attracted by the brave soldier riding a war horse on the title page. At first, I read carefully with curiosity. Later, the more I read, the more interesting I felt, and the more I read, the more I respected it.
Family Style records the deeds of several generations of Ding and Zhao in Tumochuan in detail in the form of documentary, focusing on the little-known side of Ding, as a son, husband and father in family life, as well as their attitude towards career, money, family and children and the way of managing the family, so that readers can truly understand their understanding, honesty and trustworthiness, modesty and patience, filial piety and love for their parents.
Ding, Ding Xinmin's father, an old comrade who took part in the revolution in the early days of the Anti-Japanese War, gave up the safety of himself and even his wife and children for the revolutionary cause in his military career, and remained loyal to the party and the people for decades. At home, although the old people don't talk much, they are also very strict with their children. He works hard and exerts a subtle influence on the children's behavior. For example, when he happened to meet his former comrades in trouble, he did not hesitate to take out all his savings at home to help his comrades; Or he has a heart of stone all his life, standing in front of the grave where his comrades died, sobbing; Or send children to clean the room, unpack and wash clothes for single old workers, take old friends to their home for the New Year and accompany them to drink. In this way, children learn to care and help others from their fathers, and develop good qualities of filial piety, love for the elderly and kindness.
Zhao Shuzhen, the heroine of this book, is Ding Xinmin's mother, a typical China wife and mother. In my opinion, she is the soul of the Ding family. Born in the right family, I was a hardworking and kind boy since I was a child. After marrying Ding, she worked hard and was not disturbed by gossip. She silently supported her husband's revolutionary cause without complaint, and brought up her children through hardships and fatigue.
"In the traffic compound, other people's dolls are looking forward to eating well, and Ding Gu's children are afraid to eat well. As soon as I heard that I wanted to eat porridge, I was in a hurry. It's not that I don't like them, but I dare not give them to my neighbors in the yard. Er Qiao's phone is like this, especially after moving to the traffic compound. When eating jiaozi and fried cakes at home, Zhao Shuzhen always sends some dolls to the leaders in the yard, and only eats them when they finish eating. The bakery sent five pieces, and Jiaozi sent seven pieces. " In that poor age, there were not many things, but my mother had her own reasons for doing so. "First of all, these are rare things, and I can't eat them at ordinary times. Send them to at least solve the problem for the dolls; Secondly, neighbors live together, that is, you come and go, and exchange needed goods, which is very close. If there is something delicious, you can eat it behind closed doors. That's called eating alone. What's the difference between eating alone and stealing? " The mother's principle of being a man also sets an example for her children invisibly.
Ding Xinmin can be said to be the best inheritor and promoter of Ding Jia's family style. President Ding has told you many times that our business purpose is "people-oriented, * * * common prosperity" both now and in the future. He is firmly opposed to "eating alone". It is to share the money with everyone, with employees and with migrant workers. He wants to make the employees and migrant workers who work hard with him rich, and let the proletarians become the haves! Over the years, Mr. Ding did it! Build roads and bridges, pay taxes according to law, and drive workers and migrant workers onto the road to prosperity. Among the migrant workers, the migrant worker who initially followed Chairman Ding like this has now become the boss of the company. Every eighth festival, Mr. Ding always sends food, drinks and condolences to old comrades-in-arms or needy families in the work area. He turned the purpose and vision established at the beginning of his business into reality step by step. His enterprise has become a local leader; His employees have become high-income people envied by everyone; And his migrant workers' brothers have become the most dignified builders in this city! I think the success of Mr. Ding today is inseparable from the influence of his family style.
The cover of one issue of Oriental Pictorial is a photo of Mr. Ding, his wife and the chairman, which I still remember vividly. This is a special issue of "Oriental Mother's Day". In this festival, which belongs to the proudest and warmest of all oriental mothers, we can see and truly feel the incomparable happiness and satisfaction on the faces of mothers, which is also the greatest affirmation of the tradition of loyalty and filial piety in the East and Ding Jia! It is the Ding family that inherits and develops these simple and noble family styles, which makes employees and migrant families live a good life and a good life. Such a good "family style" will also become a traditional habit inherited and observed by the Ding Shi family, which will be passed down from generation to generation, benefiting future generations for life, and its value is inexhaustible.
On the way home from school that day, I said to my mother, "Mom, my classmates all say I have a gentle personality. Do you think this is good? " "Why do students evaluate you like this?" My mother looked at me with interest. "Even if a rude classmate scolds me for some trivial things, I never get angry and stop him with a nonchalant smile. At this time, the other party will often stare at me and end the scolding ... "I have gradually forgotten what my mother told me that day, but" tenderness "is like a label.
This summer vacation, I saw many stories about Jiang Wan's gentle treatment of subordinates, courtesy of a modest gentleman, gentle treatment of new people and accepting talents, as well as temper and jokes. I was shocked that I had the first excellent quality "gentleness". This discovery not only dispelled my original worries, but also made me steal things.
"Gentleness, courtesy and humility" are the five virtues: gentleness, kindness, respect, frugality and humility. As a pupil, "gentleness" and "humility" are the easiest things to show with classmates in daily life, and they are also worth promoting.
During the big break, your classmate accidentally knocked over your pencil case. You saw your beloved pencil roll all over the floor and the newly bought eraser was covered with dirt. On the physical education class, a basketball hit your light blue fashion shirt impartially, leaving a big black circle; In calligraphy class, you are sitting in a chair, holding up a brush and writing proudly, and a reckless classmate passing by touches your elbow; Do experiments in science class, and your new tower is torn apart by envious onlookers; In art class, students borrow markers from you, but you want to use them after painting the background color, and the markers are used up ... There are similar plots on campus every day, but you are not in a hurry, and you can reply "It doesn't matter" in a friendly way.
Students get along with you like spring breeze. "Gentle as jade" is the most appropriate way to describe you. Everyone likes to make friends with you like this ... but there are not only gentle you, me and him on campus, but also discordant notes.
Things that run counter to it, such as the school bullying incident, still happen from time to time. For example, students in Class A and Class B fight over trifles. For example, some students threaten each other to obey themselves with their fists. I still remember my mother once wrote an article because of my gentleness, "Every mother and son are friends of life and death. I want to accompany him to say no to school bullying! " Show me an article about the mother of a 10-year-old boy in Grade Two and Grade Four in Zhongguancun, Beijing. Her child was handcuffed by a classmate with a toilet garbage basket at school, which made this peer suffer from insomnia, weariness of learning, fear of going to school and other bad symptoms. To this end, Mr. Shi, the head teacher, also organized us to study the Guiding Opinions on Preventing Bullying and Violence among Primary and Secondary School Students issued by the Ministry of Education and other nine departments in the Young Pioneers Activity Class. She taught us to live in harmony and be modest.
We should learn from Jiang Wan's generosity, modesty and courtesy, and new gentleness and kindness ... "Be gentle, courteous and frugal, and inherit good moral character" is what we should do. From now on, we should look for our own shortcomings from those outstanding heroes, cultivate self-cultivation, be kind to others and strive to be good teenagers in the new era!
Reflections on reading Family Style 4. Zhejiang family style taught us how to be a well-educated and well-behaved person, leaving many celebrity stories.
Picking up this thin book makes people feel heavy, because it contains the family rules of our Chinese nation. Teach us how to be a man and how to be a polite person. It is not as frivolous as a comic book, nor as long as a novel. It has the love of the Chinese nation. On the yellow cover, several children water around a big flowerpot, from which a bright red love grows.
Open the book and find the catalogue, which is divided into study articles, self-cultivation articles, housekeeping articles, handling affairs articles and patriotism articles. The themes in these catalogues are divided into three ancient stories and one modern story. That short story reflects the culture and spirit of the Chinese nation. Qian Sanqiang found his own outlook on life from the book, loved the motherland and repaid it with his own strength. From then on, he had family instructions on money. In order to heal the wounded and rescue the dying, Zhuge Liang burned the fake medicine he bought with his hard-earned money, which shows that he would rather sacrifice his character for the sake of patients. Lu skillfully used his own method to educate the unfilial son. "Silence is better than sound, and no move will win." Holding up the book, a colorful picture flashed in front of my eyes, as if I saw the real scene inside.
There are no cars whizzing by in the book, and there is no hustle and bustle. I feel like I am in a bamboo forest. Only the evening breeze blowing through bamboo leaves makes a rustling sound, and I feel the coolness of the evening breeze carefully, and I also feel the happiness brought by books. Seeing that Gu Ganlin spent all his money to help poor students in order to fulfill his father's last wish, my heart was touched.
The book has its own golden house, and the book has its own Yan Ruyu. Touch the smooth cover with your hand and feel the vicissitudes of time. Perhaps one day such books will be replaced, but this heavy truth has left a deep imprint on everyone's heart. Put down the book, feel the long-standing culture of the Chinese nation with your heart, and feel every word in the book with your heart.
Reflections on Reading Family Style 5 China has had family style construction since ancient times. Since the establishment of "Zhou Li", the courtesy and shame of the monarch, the minister and the father have lasted for thousands of years. However, with the blending of modern world cultures, people's abandonment of tradition is getting more and more serious, moral construction is extremely scarce, and it is easier to forget family education. Don't China people need family style?
It can be seen that the Chinese nation has always attached importance to the family. Traditional family virtue is an important spiritual force that supports the Chinese nation to be passed down from generation to generation. Family style, family rules and family instructions inherit the traditional culture of China and are the crystallization of family education of ancient sages. From ancient times to the present, excellent family precepts, such as Zhuge Liang's admonition to the people, Yan's family precepts and Zhu Xi's family precepts, have been widely circulated, and famous sentences among them have also inspired young people from generation to generation. Duke Zhou's family precepts can be traced back to his nephew Zhou Chengwang's "Bird Commandments", which warned birds to keep the good virtue of modesty and prudence. Even if you are the son of heaven and rich in the world, you should take Jie and Zhou as a mirror without losing the virtue of modesty. Zhou Chengwang has also become a generation of wise monarchs who initiated the "rule of Cheng Kang", which is also closely related to his family education.
Excellent family style and family instructions are the foundation of a family and a family. Wang Langya, a member of the family known as "China's first hope", has a family motto that has been passed down for thousands of years. He said, "the husband's words and deeds can be reversed, and the letter is true; Pushing the United States to lead, Germany also; Famous relatives, filial piety; Brother Yi Yi, from Yan Xin, is very caring; There is no way to make money; These five are the foundation of the body. " Family precepts handed down from generation to generation have had a far-reaching impact on the stability and prosperity of the family, the moral education, ethical guidance and the formation of a good family style of the people, and their family talents have also benefited from it.
Excellent family style and family instructions also have a subtle and far-reaching influence on children. "With a good house, there will be Qing Yu; Poverty and weakness are disastrous. " The quality of your family style will inevitably affect future generations. In ancient times, there was a "Meng Mu San Yun", that is, Meng Mu wanted to give his children a good learning atmosphere. Mencius was honored as an "Asian saint" and learned well, which was inseparable from his mother's good intentions when she was young. However, some families, family style is not correct. Children lack a good family style and correct cultivation of three views from childhood, and are still running amok. Serve the motherland and revitalize China. What are we talking about?
From this point of view, the importance of family style and family training. Good family style and family precepts are the epitome of Chinese culture for 5,000 years and the most realistic inheritance of Chinese virtues. Everyone and every family should work together to build a good family style and go hand in hand!
After reading the family style, I feel that all six homes are warm and the only place that people want to stay. However, a home should look like a home. As the saying goes, there is no Fiona Fang without rules. Family instruction refers to the instruction of family or family ancestors to their descendants to live in the world and manage the family. Family precepts are a family rule.
As long as I can remember, my grandfather always told me stories about his childhood and lamented that he should know how to cherish happiness and give back to society. After attending elementary school, I heard my father say, "Your ancestral home is Wenzhou. When my father was a child, my grandfather's family was not as rich as it is now. After finishing primary school, my grandfather dropped out of school and went out to work. " With my chin in one hand, it must be hard to imagine grandma's frugal housekeeping! "Later, grandpa started his own leather factory and began to have money. He donated 50,000 yuan to build roads in the village. At that time, 50 thousand yuan was valuable! At that time, ten thousand households were rare. " My father told me the history of my grandfather. "Doesn't he feel bad about donating so much money?" I asked curiously, remembering that grandpa usually dresses so simply that he doesn't look like a rich man at first glance. He thinks it's expensive for me to buy a Lego toy. Grandpa can donate 50 thousand at once, which is a bit incomprehensible!
This small holiday, my father and I went back to our hometown, where there was the Wu ancestral hall donated by my grandfather. I found that my grandfather always pays attention to social news, and he will take the lead enthusiastically and help wherever he can.
This reminds me of a similar story I read in Zhejiang Good Family Style. There is a story of Chen in this book, which also tells that he is not addicted to luxury life, is charitable, often helps people with food, and takes the lead in donating money to encourage wealthy businessmen to donate together to do good deeds. I gradually understand.
From the first grade, my parents took me to organize a children's market, put out idle books and toys at home, and wholesale some bookmarks, electronic watches and other markets online. Sometimes, I also use ultra-light clay to make gadgets, such as pendants, pen holders and so on. It takes a lot of effort, but I'm still happy to sell them. In order to raise more money for children in disaster areas or students in poor schools, I will think of some sales methods and try my best to sell them: "Auntie, we are having a charity sale for the disaster areas. Look at this bookmark. Very cost-effective. You can also give love. Buy some! " Seeing more and more money in the love box, I feel full of sense of accomplishment. At the Natural History Museum and the West Lake Cultural Square, my classmates and I were left behind to participate in the charity sale.
In addition to the charity sale, I went to Xixi Wetland with my friends, picked up garbage in places where tourists gathered and gave them our own environmental protection bookmarks. One morning, like a detector, we kept looking for cigarette butts, napkins, discarded wrapping paper and other rubbish on the ground, and sometimes we used chopsticks to compete for the same rubbish.
Happiness comes from the satisfaction of life, and gratitude comes from the perception of happiness. As I grew older, I began to understand the meaning of the words "cherish happiness and give back to society". Although grandpa and dad have never written these eight words, they made me understand them with actions and made me bear them.
After reading Family Style, I have a feeling that there is a proverb in China called "Look at the old at three, look at the old at seven". Although it is a bit exaggerated, it does reflect the great influence of a family on the growth of children. We often say that "it is the father's fault to raise but not teach", and there is also an educational story of "Meng Mu moved three times" in history books, which shows the influence of family education on children.
This kind of influence is not caused by the wealth or personal power of parents and elders, but a personality quality cultivated in the subtle influence of parents and elders, that is, family style. Reading the book "Family Style in China" is like being with an elder and quietly listening to his touching story about family style. When I read "Father's Last Words", I understood that self-reliance and self-struggle are a family style; When I watched "Mom is Family Style", I understood that generosity is family style; After reading "There is a good wind at home", I realized that respecting the old and loving the young is also a family style. ......
I can't help thinking, what is my family style? I think of my grandparents. When I was a child, I always saw my grandfather reading carefully with reading glasses. Later, my grandfather couldn't read the words in the book clearly, so he would let me read them to him. Although my grandmother has no education, she has worked hard for her family all her life, and her diligence and kindness are vividly reflected in her. They passed on their love of reading and helpful spirit to my mother and then to me. I think this is our family style. In life, we often hear parents teach their children "don't take other people's things", "stand and sit well", "don't be picky when eating" and "be polite when meeting elders" .....
Come to think of it carefully, these popular sayings are also the transmission of family style. A word, a gesture, a little thing, a gesture, has been passed down from generation to generation and has formed a family inheritance. The starting point of a person's personality is precisely formed in the family inheritance. With these small inheritances, we can face the challenges in the ideological field and maintain inner peace and purity in today's rich material life and rapid integration and spread of different cultures. In fact, in our traditional culture, family style has always been highly valued, with national prestige and family style. Family style will affect social atmosphere. If the family style is positive, the social atmosphere will naturally be positive. Conversely, national customs will also affect family customs. Good national atmosphere and clear social atmosphere can infect individuals in society and then affect their family atmosphere. "China Family Style Miscellaneous Notes" mentioned that "as a small cell of the big society, family style and family precepts are the basis of family inheritance and incense continuation, while the big one is the rise and fall of the country and the nation."
It can be seen that the significance of family style is not only related to individuals and families, but also the key to whether an ancient nation can continue its glory. Sneak into the night with the wind, moisten things silently. Under the influence of good family style, let's "be a noble person, a pure person, a moral person, a person who is free from low tastes and beneficial to the people".