Don't rely on your family or anyone! I think "standing at the age of 30" is misleading to life.
If a person doesn't work hard and make progress, he can't stand not only at thirty, but also at sixty.
So "standing at thirty" means "standing at three".
What are the three senses? Knowledge, insight and courage.
What is knowledge? There is a specialization in the industry, saying that the profession is very proficient. Besides majors, what are the standards for knowing calligraphy, tea ceremony, astronomy, geography, customs, music, singing and dancing? I think there can be two criteria: one is to understand the basic knowledge and have your own unique opinions; Second, you can make professionals willing to talk to you 1 hour without getting tired. Knowledge is definitely not just what you learn from textbooks in school. In fact, knowledge is rarely obtained from schools and textbooks.
How can there be knowledge? First, we should have a knowledgeable attitude; The second is to have the understanding of learning from life and practice.
What benefits can knowledge bring? Enhance personal charm, win respect and recognition, and expand social circle.
What is knowledge? Not confused by people, not fascinated by things. It is to know the hole at first sight and the essence at first sight.
How to be knowledgeable? First, do more work, do more challenging work, and try your best to complete difficult work; The second is to think carefully and distinguish. When you get the most difficult customer, get the unlikely order, go up to the mountain and go to sea after arduous negotiations, enjoy the blessing, suffer, get used to the big shots, and get familiar with pimps and pawn, you will constantly strengthen your thinking and summary in this process, and gradually realize.
A knowledgeable person is willing to tell you difficult things. If they want to listen to your opinion, they will gradually become opinion leaders and get recognition from insiders, with many opportunities.
Dare to do, dare to judge, dare to make decisions, and dare to do. This is courage. It's called doing it.
If you always try to do seemingly impossible work and succeed, you will gradually accumulate courage and become courageous. Courage is the highest level of self-confidence, and it can also enhance personality charm. Li Yunlong in The Bright Sword is a brave man.
In the dream combination of "conspirators breaking" in history, Fang can only be considered knowledgeable, and Du Ruhui should be considered courageous. Why didn't Fang have the courage? Apart from personality factors, he didn't dare to do it and didn't take this difficult step. Because breaking is more stressful and risky than seeking.
If you don't know the reason, you can't do it. It is impossible to succeed just by wanting to do it or not wanting to do it. It takes courage to be a man.
If a person has knowledge, insight and courage, he will also define his outlook on life and values at the same time. Not only do you not have to worry about your career, but you can see through, think clearly and do the right thing. If you see through it, you will not be rash. If you think clearly, you will not be rash, behave yourself and be fearless. By this time, you can "stand".
Therefore, people should pursue "three senses" instead of waiting for "thirty".