Recommendation of psychology books on marriage
Recommendation of books on marriage psychology Marriage is when two adults decide to live together and share their lives. What books are there about it? What about marital psychology? This article is a book recommendation on marital psychology that I have collected for everyone. You are welcome to refer to it.
Books on the Psychology of Marriage Part 1
"Troubles in Marriage: Li Zixun Interprets the Psychological Code of Marriage"
The letter materials in the book and the precise words in one sentence The questions are all from the Shenzhen version of "Girlfriend". The column originally published was "The Blue Couple". When the book was written, in order to respect the work of the magazine, the original story was greatly rewritten and turned into a more readable and popular one. Prose poetry style. The original editor-in-chief of the magazine, Yi Hong, has been a friend of mine for many years. Our cooperation started in 1995 and continues to this day. Here I would like to express my gratitude to her and to "Girlfriend" magazine!
"Marriage Commitment from a Psychological Perspective"
This book first introduces the theory and theory of marital commitment. model, summarizes and reviews the evolution process and characteristics of my country's marital relationships; secondly, by measuring the "Marriage Commitment Dimension Scale", summarizes the characteristics of the marital commitment of married people in my country; finally, explores the relationship between marital commitment and individual attachment, personality , self-esteem and trust, and finally reached a series of quite innovative conclusions. These provide a strong theoretical basis for maintaining and improving individual marital relationships, and provide scientific theoretical guidance for marital psychological counseling.
This book is suitable for scholars engaged in marriage research, as well as for people from all walks of life who are concerned about the quality of life and desire professional marriage guidance.
"The Five Love Languages"
Do you want a marriage that will not disappoint you? Do you want a marriage that can truly "live together and stay in love forever"? This book It is worth reading for both men and women who are in love before marriage, and it is even more worth reading for married couples. Today, when the divorce rate is soaring, this book is really priceless. This book has appeared on the bestseller list of Publishers Weekly for 50 consecutive weeks. It has been translated into 20 languages ??and distributed around the world. Its sales exceeded 1 million copies in ten years.
If love is a myth, then this book can make dreams come true; if love is honey, then this book will teach you how to prevent moisture and corrosion, so that love will never fade when it enters your marriage. , always as new as possible. Book on the Psychology of Marriage Part 2
"Seven Rules for a Happy Marriage"
The theories and techniques proposed by the author of this book are based on a large number of scientific observations and data analysis. Therefore, it is credible; a large number of vividly described cases make it easy to understand; and those scientific, simple, and effective training make the technology easy to master.
"7 Rules for a Happy Marriage"
Marriage is one of the most important relationships in a person's life. How to have a happy marriage is what everyone wants and needs to know. of. "7 Rules for a Happy Marriage" provides readers with 7 rules for a happy marriage to help everyone build a happy married life. "7 Rules for a Happy Marriage" is a book about gender and marriage.
"The Secret of Emotions: How to Manage Love and Marriage"
There are two most important things in a person's life, one is the development of career, and the other is the happiness of family, marriage and relationship. , an excellent life is a life in which career, marriage and family are both successful. Marriage and family should be managed as well as business. The love strategies, marriage views and family concepts proposed in this book can all provide useful guidance for young friends who are at the starting point of career and marriage. Book on the Psychology of Marriage Part 3
"Don't Control Me with Love" Patrice Evans
There are many super controllers, both men and women. This book explores in detail how one partner controls the other in an intimate relationship, especially how men control women.
Everyone hopes that others will agree with their opinions, and everyone may involuntarily point fingers and evaluate others at will. Some people know how to correct their behavior and control it appropriately, so they can advance and retreat freely. Some people do not understand the pain this behavior brings to others, resulting in failed marriages and tense interpersonal relationships.
If someone often forces you to do this or that, without caring about your thoughts. Or if you're wondering if you have a tendency to control others so as not to hurt them, this book can help you navigate these difficult issues.
"A Change of Thought" Byron Katie
The famous spiritual teacher Byron Katie has suffered from anxiety disorder for more than ten years, ranging from depression, anger, and despair. Finally fell into suicidal tendencies. One morning, she suddenly woke up from a state of ecstasy and understood "how" her suffering ended. Since then, she has lived in the freedom of realization. Her self-created "Thought Changing Work" is hailed as a simple and effective way to get rid of the ego. It can help people examine the problem of knotted minds, further change their beliefs, and help us get rid of tension, anxiety, restlessness, jealousy, and pain. Get relief from it and make your life relaxed and more energetic in the moment.
The "Changing Thoughts Assignment" has only four questions. It teaches people to look at all troubled problems in a new light. Katie often says, "It's not the problems themselves that cause us pain, but the thoughts we think about them."
People keep trying to let go of painful thoughts, but it never works. The "thought-changing task" does the opposite. It allows people to automatically let go of painful thoughts.
The cases recorded in this book cover almost all topics that people are concerned about, from a wife who cannot cope with her husband’s sexual needs, to the fear of survivors of the September 11 catastrophe, to the loss of loved ones... ..."Changing Thoughts Homework" not only helps them get out of the haze of problems, but also helps them resolve anxiety, rekindle their vitality, and bravely create a new life.
"How to Practice in Love" Barbara Angelis
Everyone who is in love desperately finds himself trapped in a puzzle: no matter how much in love, There is no avoiding pain, anger, fear and disappointment. No matter how hard you try, you can't take the initiative in love.
This book points out some basic mistakes that people often make in love: not expressing feelings (fear of being hurt or afraid of losing), not expressing needs (feeling embarrassed to express their needs, and I hope that the other party can "guess" my thoughts), which often results in double the harm and misunderstanding.
The purpose of this book is to teach us how to use love to improve ourselves and become better people, thereby improving our ability to control love.
"Love is the Barefoot Philosophy" David O'Connor
Phaedrus proposed a positive connection between love and death: Who will die for you? ?
The person who loves you.
But Shakespeare explores a darker possibility, a question that can be answered with the same answer: Who would kill you?
The person who loves you.
Our own pain and joy, as well as the pain and joy of our loved ones, are sometimes too close and cannot be seen carefully and clearly, just like a book is too close to the eyes and the words cannot be read clearly. In our time, books, movies, TV, and operas tell too many stories. They are like teachers, helping us see ourselves better.
Join great characters, sad or happy, the ideas and stories written by Plato and Shakespeare continue to shape the way we understand love. They give us a very beautiful gift: the pure joy and joy that comes from understanding life in a richer, deeper way. At the same time, they also give us things that are very effective in our daily lives. In the face of the challenges of modern love, the ancient wisdom left by great writers plays the role of advisor and has strong support. Every story is a mirror, which is much better than eager, boring self-reflection.
"Broad Marriage" by Donald Walters
People often regard marriage as the natural way to pursue happiness, but they forget that marriage is an artificial state. How much you bring in, How much it gives back to you. Marriage should not be a beautiful but static picture, but an opportunity for continued growth and development. Marriage may not fulfill the romantic dreams of grandeur, but it can provide a deep level of satisfaction.
This book is a guide to marriage written by spiritual mentor Walters for readers. He regards marriage as a path to personal growth and points out the "broadness" needs of marriage, from the perspective of differences in thinking between the sexes, sex, and communication. , parenting and other aspects of married life illustrate how to achieve an open marriage.
What he teaches people is a method, not a model system that has been established. As he often said: It is better to teach a man to fish than to teach him to fish. Books on the Psychology of Marriage Part 4
1 "The Road Less Traveled" by Scott Pike
One of the masterpieces that many people worship! Some words in Wen Mang's article come from this book. Life is full of hardships, and this book reveals the meaning of communication and understanding everywhere. It transcends the limitations of the times, helps us explore the essence of love, and guides us to live a new, quiet and rich life; it helps us learn to love and learn to be independent; It teaches us to be better, more understanding parents. Ultimately, it tells us how to find our true selves.
Quotes from the book:
If you can’t solve the problem, you will become the problem.
In essence, tolerance is a very selfish behavior, because its greatest value lies in its ability to heal one's own inner wounds. Therefore, the first beneficiary of tolerance is the tolerant himself, not the object of tolerance.
Bearing pain is the only way to maturity, and no one can avoid it.
Self-discipline is a process of self-improvement, in which one must experience the pain of giving up, which is as severe as facing death. But, as is the nature of death, the old disappears so that the new can be born.
2. Zhixinshu Series
"Zhixinshu" is a set of psychological general books with standard, content and quality that Sanlian Life Bookstore spent two years carefully editing and publishing. , aims to help those who are sensitive, courageous in introspection and striving to save themselves, learn how to observe their own emotions and inner feelings by reading this set of self-help books written by professional psychologists, and help themselves face and get out of psychological difficulties
The authors of the four books are all French professional psychiatrists and psychologists. Their rich clinical experience and solid psychological literacy ensure the scientific and professional nature of the book content. The book is divided into four volumes: " "Appropriate self-esteem", "The seven emotions we are born with", "Pervasive personality", "Too smart to be unhappy"
Good books are like spreading out frames in front of people's eyes. The pictures allow people to see their own reflections in the book, and then use empathetic writing to help people understand how to get along with others and the world.
3 "Inferiority and Transcendence" Alfred. Adler
Alfred Adler (1870-1937) was an Austrian psychologist and the founder of individual psychology. "Inferiority and Transcendence" is one of Adler's best-selling works. First, Adler is a psychology master as famous as Freud. However, because the era he lived in was earlier than now, it is undeniable that there are many debatable aspects in his book. However, many of the views in this book were unconventional at the time. It is groundbreaking and worth learning. This book explores the experience and meaning of human life, and many of its views are very enlightening:
Being a person. When people encounter problems that cannot be solved but firmly believe that they can solve them, they will show inferiority complex.
Each of us has varying degrees of inferiority complex, because we all want to make ourselves better and let ourselves live. A better life.
The uncertainty of life is the source of our hope.
We can understand a person by paying attention to his behavior. Behavior is always affected. Constrained by the meaning of life;