In the past few days, the college entrance examination scores have come out, and various top academics have emerged, setting off a round of heated discussions.
Wu Yishu, the overall champion of the second CCTV "Chinese Poetry Conference", scored 613 points in the college entrance examination (the full score in the Shanghai College Entrance Examination is 660 points) and will be admitted to Xinya Academy of Tsinghua University.
In fact, she has already participated in Tsinghua University's "National Leading Talent Selection Program". As long as she passes the key points, she can go to Tsinghua University, not to mention the high score of "47 points short of the full score"!
This girl really lives up to her name, and is good at both arts and sciences. I was attracted by her temperament when I saw a poetry conference.
In the show, she handled it calmly from beginning to end, exuding an atmosphere beyond her years with her calm and calm posture and elegant conversation.
She has delicate features and beautiful eyes, like a woman who stepped out of an ancient painting. She can be described as "poetry and calligraphy in her belly".
After becoming famous overnight, she refused all media interviews and program invitations and returned to school to study peacefully.
It is said on the Internet that her father is a lawyer and his family owns a Chinese Academy of Chinese Studies. Her father does not use his mobile phone after 4:30 pm and concentrates on spending time with his two children.
Yang Chenyu, the top scorer in science in Guangxi, scored 730 points in the college entrance examination, including 140 points in Chinese, 150 points in mathematics, 150 points in English, and 290 points in comprehensive science. He set a record for the highest total score in science in Guangxi since the resumption of the college entrance examination.
This guy not only studies well and is handsome, but also gets along well with his teachers and classmates. He also has a wide range of hobbies, including badminton, football, calligraphy, and painting. He has strong interests in badminton, football, calligraphy, and painting. He is what people often call other people's outstanding children.
Her mother also said this:
Although these two successful cases of college entrance examination are not statistically significant, but the parents’ work style, self-discipline and companionship as well as good family education Subtly, it will affect the child's personality and habits.
In the 007 writing group, a mother raised her problem and asked her comrades for help:
Some comrades suggested that they find part-time workers to outsource housework or find nannies to look after their children. To gain time for yourself, some people suggest that you try to spend time with your children, use household appliances to improve housework efficiency, and manage your time well to improve yourself.
Most parents have this problem. It is difficult to find a balance between spending time with their children and personal space. Every family situation is different. Parents can share their experiences and choose a method that suits them.
I support temporarily sacrificing personal time to spend more time with children and develop good habits for them, which will benefit the children throughout their lives.
Children grow up quickly and will miss this time in the future. After the empty nest, they will have more time to control.
Although you have less time to accompany your children with high quality, it does not mean that you lose your own growth, but it will also bring many learning opportunities.
Many people have a wrong understanding of "spending time with children".
Nowadays, many parents are keen to enroll their children in various interest classes, but after sending their children to education and training institutions, they are basically out of charge.
Most of the current school courses require parents to participate. How many parents can learn and grow together?
Most of them use the excuse that they are too busy at work and their memory is declining as they get older, so they may waste time scrolling through their mobile phones.
When we forwarded the joke about "tutoring children to do homework" in WeChat Moments, some parents had already turned off their mobile phones and devoted themselves to accompany their children to study.
I have had similar problems before, always torn between working hard and spending time with my children.
After we immigrated to the United States five years ago, I became a stay-at-home mother raising three daughters. Before going abroad, I worked as a senior manager in a foreign company. Many of my friends, classmates and colleagues felt sorry for me.
After so many years of schooling and a good career, why did she become a stay-at-home mother?
Because I was under a lot of pressure at work and had many minor health problems, I wanted to take this opportunity to take a two-year break to spend time with my children and make up for the missing family time. I didn’t expect that five years would pass in a flash. .
Sometimes I have been shaken or even regretted, and I feel that these five years have been wasted. Every day I just served as a driver to pick up and drop off, and the cook worked around the pot, and there were so many trivial matters.
No matter how boring work is, there is always time to take a break after get off work, but stay-at-home mothers are working endlessly 24/7.
We also encounter many problems in the process of educating our children. Like most parents, we are willing to pay for our children and are willing to give them the healthiest organic food, the most expensive clothes and toys. , create the best learning conditions.
But in the eyes of children, their parents' selfless contributions seem to be taken for granted, and they can enjoy everything done for them with peace of mind.
My academic performance was also unsatisfactory. I realized that simply taking care of and giving would be of no benefit.
Instead of expecting your son to become a dragon and your daughter to become a phoenix, it is better to improve yourself and grow up with them.
Since you have chosen to be a full-time mother to accompany your children to grow up, you should take it seriously as a job, and you should also work hard to improve yourself and become a role model for your children.
By chance, I became a product distributor for a listed company in the United States and started my own business. I had the flexibility to control my own time and run my business while taking care of my children.
Regularly participate in company training to maintain business sensitivity, wear professional attire to communicate with customers, and receive company awards. Wear beautiful dresses and take them to receive awards together, so that they can see their mother’s efforts and appreciation. career pursuit.
As a class mom (parent committee), I actively participate in the activities of my child’s school to understand the child’s learning situation at school and make the child feel proud of my mother’s participation.
When the eldest was in sixth grade, she studied "Silk Road" in social study at school. She collected a lot of information and made it into PPT. She also acted in a play as a businessman recreating the commodity transactions on the Silk Road. I was with her. Discuss learning about how America learned this history.
My second child has recently become interested in the Rubik's Cube. I couldn't find the trick at first. I couldn't understand the online guide and was annoyed. I looked anxious, so I had to go to the battle and teach her the 3x3. Then she quickly developed the ability to memorize formulas and complete them without looking at the guide, and then began to practice speed.
She learned 2x2 by herself again, but I couldn’t help her any more, so she asked to become an apprentice and learn from a master. After forgetting about food and sleep every day, I finally learned the Rubik's Cube again.
I am also really happy to see her so focused on something she is interested in.
My third child listens to bedtime stories every day, so I borrowed a lot of picture books and story books from the library. While telling her stories, I also practiced my English.
American schools and society attach great importance to cultivating reading and writing. Whether schools or libraries are rich in resources, there are also various colorful activities to cultivate and encourage children to read.
In order to cooperate with the school to encourage children to read and write, I joined the 007 "Write or you will be eliminated" community. I wrote an article every 7 days for 7 consecutive years and then went to Antarctica. I used output to force input and read every day. , write every week, and encourage the children to write with me. They are very interested and actively participate. We have made an appointment to go to a place we both long for after 7 years.
In order to cultivate my children's love for sports, I have been running for five years. I have at least one marathon and various running activities every year, and I go to the gym and swim at least three times a week.
While raising three children, I can still maintain strong energy and a fit body. I also encourage them to continue to exercise, and their physical fitness is very good.
In the process of accompanying my children to grow up, I am also making progress and growing unconsciously.
The most beautiful relationship is when you grow up and I grow up too.
Parents and children are independent individuals and should grow up to be beautiful.
The positive and hard work that parents do towards themselves, work, and life is the best "teaching by words and deeds" to their children.
While accompanying my children to learn a lot of knowledge, I also realized that there is no end to learning, and learning must be a lifelong process, so I am constantly sorting out my thoughts on how to plan my future life through learning. .
In fact, the process of accompanying children is also the process of cultivating a better self.
The best companionship is to grow up with your children!