Speaking of hobbies, I especially want to talk about my husband's hobbies. Compared with me, his hobbies are absolutely extensive-photography, keeping dogs, playing bracelets, calligraphy, seal cutting, stones, fishing, carpentry, listening to cross talk and reading history ... This is an existing and ongoing hobby, and it is not excluded that one will be added one day.
Let's talk about some of his long-standing hobbies. For example, if you have a dog, your husband has Corgi, Labrador, Samoyed, Golden Retriever, Cocker and Shiba Inu. This is just the variety mentioned. If you say quantity, it is even more speechless. Let's just say that my mother-in-law was so anxious that she ordered her to leave home-if my husband bought a dog again, he wouldn't go home. Although the words are angry, an old lady who also loves dogs can be angry. The main reason is that my husband loves to buy dogs too much, keeps too many dogs, and especially prefers large dogs. No wonder the old man is in a hurry. But even if the old lady did, she still couldn't restrain his enthusiasm for continuing to buy dogs and keep dogs. Every time he comes home, the first thing he usually does is to walk the dog. I once wrote about Ning Bao's jealousy of dogs. At that time, I wanted to record a cute little video of the dog, but I accidentally caught the heartbreaking sound of Ningbao next to me-I played with it as soon as I came back, and it didn't like me. Well, he only likes dogs, not me. Well, I have no doubt about my husband's love for dogs. I remember when we first got married, we once took a walk in the street. He excitedly pointed to a little teddy sitting far away in the car across a wide road, and a lovely child at his feet was almost knocked down by others without being seen. Listen, this obsessive hobby is unacceptable.
Let's talk about his other enduring hobby-fishing. Speaking of fishing, let's talk about his fishing equipment, which is quite complete and professional. Said he spent money easily. What annoys me most is that he likes to go fishing with Ningbao. Ning Bao is influenced by his father and is also a fish fan. He is very busy every time he plays with the small fishing rod that his husband bought him. When we are near the water, we are often unhappy. I'm really worried about the safety of our children, which makes me or my mother who takes care of children bear great pressure and pain. The key is fishing. Fishing people enjoy it. As a bystander, besides taking care of the children, sunbathing is more annoying to me than boredom. However, fishing can really calm people down and relieve stress. I'm glad that people who are under great pressure at work can have this hobby. Although I often choose to refuse to follow, I still support his hobby.
After talking about his two hobbies that he has persisted for a long time, I really want to talk about his so-called three-point hobby-woodworking. When I first fell in love with carpentry, I received one courier after another at home. In just one month, people had a full set of works needed by professional carpenters, and even prepared a carpenter's room for him at home. Watching him watch videos, read books and study, even I was infected and moved by that kind of enthusiasm. But up to now, there is no news about the chair that Mr. Tong asked him to "operate", so we don't rush it. Let's see when the carpentry of the old man will start business. ...
Look, hobbies are easy to fall in love with, but hard to stick to. Although my hobbies are not so extensive, there are still some. Come to think of it, my hobby is rare, not because I lack curiosity, but because I insist! Persistence is the main reason, and these are the results of persistence.
With Ningbao, I don't want my son to have few hobbies because of lack of persistence like me, and I don't want him to dabble in too many fields like my husband. I hope he can have one or two hobbies and stick to it!
Fortunately, influenced by his mother's love for painting since childhood, his love for painting has always been warm and lasting. He is very eager to be a painter when he grows up. He can hold exhibitions all over the world. In order to realize his great dream, the little guy repeatedly urged us to help him find a teacher to teach painting. Finally, after I invited a friend with high attainments to take him out of kindness, Ningbao was particularly happy. Every time he attends class, he is particularly active and cherishes it. On the way home, I always report my harvest endlessly, and I always sigh at the high level of the teacher. In his appreciative words, I don't know. When I saw the teacher's painting, I was shocked. I knew I had to work harder ... "
Every time I see Ning Bao's expression when he talks about his favorite paintings, I can see the light in his eyes, the light full of hope for the future, and the light that is gentle and touching. From time to time, I have strengthened our original intention to give Ningbao-choose a hobby and stick to it.
Choose a hobby and stick to it! It is expectation, it is hope.