One reading experience of "Jane Eyre":
Jane Eyre lived in an environment where her parents had died and she was dependent on others. She had been treated differently from her peers since she was a child, and was disliked by her aunt. , cousin's contempt, cousin's insult and beating. This is a ruthless trampling on a child's dignity, but perhaps it is precisely because of all this that Jane Eyre's infinite confidence and strong and unyielding spirit, an invincible inner strength of character.
In front of Rochester, she never felt inferior because she was a lowly tutor. Instead, she believed that they were equal. She should not be respected by others because she was a servant.
It is precisely because of her integrity, nobility, purity, and her soul that is not polluted by the secular society that Rochester is shocked and sees her as a person with whom he can talk on an equal spiritual level. And slowly fell deeply in love with her.
On the wedding day, when Jane Eyre knew that Rochester had a wife, she felt that she had to leave. She said this, I must obey the laws issued by God and recognized by the world, and I must stick to my life. I will hold fast to the principles I accepted when I was sane and not when I was crazy like this.
This is the reason why Jane Eyre told Rochester that she must leave, but from the heart, something deeper is that Jane Eyre realizes that she has been deceived, and her self-esteem has been teased, because she deeply loves With Rochester.
The novel tells us that the best life for a person is human dignity and love. The ending of the novel arranges such a life for the heroine. Once a person loses the necessary dignity, he will be nothing; and if a person does not have love, he will not feel that the world is warm. What will be the life of a person without dignity and love?
What will be his fate? I believe that even if such a person has happiness, it is short-lived, not The happiness that a dignified and loving person gets through all kinds of hardships is as warm, sweet and long-lasting as it is. Therefore, no matter when and for whatever reason, we must not give up our necessary personal dignity, learn to impress each other with love, and be thoughtful people in life!
Second experience in reading "Jane Eyre" :
In the book Jane Eyre, the love story between the protagonists Jane Eyre and Rochester deeply affected me. Jane Eyre’s belief in the pursuit of happiness, equality, freedom and her views on love also influenced me. The impact is profound.
Jane Eyre’s attitude towards love in this book gave me a textbook-like understanding of love before I could practice it. First of all, love should be based on the spiritual equality of two people. It cannot be determined by wealth, status, or appearance. Only in this way can happiness be harvested in the end. In real life, there are many marriages and false loves caused by money, status, etc., but very few of them fail to break in the end.
Love based on material things is unreliable. Material things are constantly changing, and people's desires are constantly increasing. Only true love can reach the end.
Secondly, in love, we cannot ask the other party to give any kind of affection. Everyone is fair, and all love given should be voluntary. If the other party happens to love you too, give it to the other party twice as much. love.
Nowadays, many people use various means to force the person they like to be with them because they don’t like them, or they keep asking questions when they find that the person doesn’t love them as much as they imagined. This approach is meaningless and will eventually come to an end. In this book, Jane Eyre said, "You owe me nothing, and you have no responsibility for me. We stand equally before God."
When we already have love, We cannot give up because of inferiority complex or everyone’s prejudice. Jane Eyre did not give up her love with Rochester because of her servant status. Instead, she mustered up the courage to be with Rochester and finally achieved happiness.
Love sometimes brings us disappointment and regret. Disappointment is because our expectations for love are too high. Regret is because there is still a realm we want to pursue. This is a kind of happiness. Don’t be disappointed because of happiness. If you lose confidence in love due to regrets and regrets, you must firmly hold on to your love.
Love itself is a wonderful thing. Don’t be impatient when it has not come yet. When it does come, you must hold on tightly. Jane Eyre's love is not because of any material things, but because of love. This spirit is noble and enviable.