People who can truly become great people know how to cherish time and make every minute play its due effect. Even the scattered leisure time in the eyes of others is extremely important to them. Precious.
Cherish the morning, insist on getting up early, or exercise or read.
People often say: "Go to bed early and get up early, and you will be full of energy."
Those who insist on getting up early often have an advantage over others.
The late famous basketball star Kobe Bryant once had a widely circulated saying: Have you ever seen Los Angeles at four in the morning? ?It is this high degree of self-discipline and unremitting training that has allowed him to reach the top of his career step by step.
In the early morning, it is the most quiet and comfortable time. Many people covet the sweetness of sleep and love to sleep in late. But in the eyes of those who are determined to achieve a great career, a day's plan begins in the morning. If you seize the morning, you will seize every today.
This is true for those celebrities who shine in the spotlight, and even more so for ordinary little people like you and me.
After becoming a housewife, I often go to the morning market. The vegetable market at six o'clock in the morning is already full of people and very lively. Talking to vegetable sellers I know well, I learned that farmers selling hygienic vegetables in the suburbs often get up early in the morning to pick vegetables. They set out from home at three or four o'clock and arrive at the vegetable market after five o'clock to complete wholesale transactions. It is common knowledge among the public that you should hurry up early to have more opportunities. If you want to get ahead, you must not let go of the early morning hours.
Those who insist on morning jogging and exercise every day will dispel the "waste" accumulated in the body the night before while sweating profusely. Over time, they will feel comfortable and refreshed.
Those who insist on morning reading and chanting every day, facing the rising sun, embracing the morning breeze, breathing in and out, feeling that the world between heaven and earth is already in their hearts, reading aloud, can best appreciate the language. The charm of words can also cultivate your own calmness and wisdom.
Don’t be reluctant to take a lunch break and use this time to “overcome difficulties”.
If we talk about early morning time, we need to arrange some relaxing and interesting tasks for ourselves. Then the lunch break can be used to "overcome difficulties".
After lunch, most people feel that "the time is half over and the energy is half over". If they don't take a break, it will be difficult to restore their mental and physical strength. Therefore, some people say: If you don’t sleep at noon, you will collapse in the afternoon.
But those who can truly become great people are not willing to let themselves rest for one more minute. I often put down my bowls and chopsticks, take a short break, and then start working non-stop.
Previously, I thought I was a diligent person who used my lunch time to do things other than my job, such as writing on the Internet, watching movies or reading some leisure books. But as I interact with more and more netizens, I see more people who are more diligent than me.
They often use an hour's lunch break to complete the writing task of two thousand-word articles. Moreover, they pay great attention to the quality of the manuscripts and enjoy it every day. Among them, there are many Internet fans with millions of fans. Big shot.
For example, my colleague Lao Xie is about to retire, but he loves calligraphy most. After lunch every day, he will put out his set of calligraphy exercise books at his desk and keep writing. It wasn't until work time in the afternoon that I packed it up again.
With such persistence, he became a member of the national calligraphy association. His works often participated in high-level exhibitions and he often won awards, which gave him a full sense of accomplishment after work.
People who take a lunch break and those who don’t take a lunch break can’t tell the difference in one or two days, but they can tell the difference in ten or eight years.
Rarely attends parties and works overtime when others are relaxing.
Some people say that life is too bitter and you need to add a little sweetness to the bitter life. Therefore, after the busy life, invite a few friends to find a small restaurant, drink some wine, drink a cup of tea, and chat. Chatting and complaining are the most enjoyable.
It is certainly not an exaggeration to have such a small gathering once in a while. But if it becomes the norm, it will cost money and time.
For those who want to be great, time is the most precious, and it is simply not worth it if it is wasted on boring chat parties. Their understanding of human relationships is less concerned with the formal aspects of "you come and I go", and more focused on the spiritual resonance of each other.
As the saying goes, "The friendship between gentlemen is as light as water". They prefer to spend time in their own research fields. Every time they chat, they focus on their respective expertise and collide with each other to spark ideas.
Many times, if you want to become an expert in a certain field, you need to persist for more than ten years or decades, be able to sit on the bench, be willing to be lonely, and be able to work in the field. Don’t be confused when you’re stuck, and be able to grit your teeth and persevere when you want to give up.
If you want a brilliant life, you need to sweat more than you put in; if you want a free life, behind it is self-discipline that ordinary people find difficult to maintain.
Life is like this. If you have a dream, then you have to work hard to chase it, not just talk about it.
Time will bring the final answer to any of your pretending efforts, because the result will not accompany you to continue pretending. No matter what stage of life you are at, you should cherish time, because once you relax, time slips away quietly, and your youth and prime are gone forever.