He is Yang Suo, and Yang Suo has felt his parents' strong love for him since he was a child. Basically, as long as Yang Suo wants something, his parents will basically satisfy him. Yang Suo's parents were afraid of tiring Yang Suo since he was a child, so they did everything they could for him. For example, when I was young, I would carry Yang Suo on my back because I was afraid that he would get tired. In fact, Yang Suo didn't rely much on his parents before. He also hoped that he could help his parents. It's just that his parents didn't allow it, always feeling that this would tire Yang Suo. This also caused Yang Suo to become lazy because his parents did not let him do any housework at all.
Yang Suo is like an "emperor", being served by his parents every day. Yang Suo also began to get used to this pattern and became lazy. Later, when Yang Suo was 13 years old, Yang Suo's father unfortunately died of illness, and Yang Suo's mother was a strong woman who shouldered the burden of the family. But Yang Suo didn't care at all. Later, his mother also fell ill, and the burden of life could only be borne by Yang Suo. But Yang Suo has long been accustomed to a life of doing nothing and being waited on. Yang Suo still insisted on letting his mother support him. Even when the mother cannot meet Yang Suo's demands, it is inevitable to beat her. Faced with such an unsatisfactory child and his illness, Yang Suo's mother soon passed away, leaving only Yang Suo in the family.
At that time, Yang Suo was already 18 years old, but he still had no life skills. His relatives saw how pitiful he was and introduced him to construction jobs. Unfortunately, Yang Suo disliked the heat at the construction site and ran away directly home. In Yang Suo's opinion, work is too hard and he doesn't want to suffer at all. In order to survive, Yang Suo also began to sell things at home to maintain his expenses. Later, Yang Suo became a beggar. When he was hungry, he went to beg and slept when he was sleepy. He had no plans for his life. Yang Suo just wants to live like this without any work pressure.
Faced with such an unsatisfactory Yang Suo, people around him began to give up on Yang Suo and gradually did not care about Yang Suo. After all, if a person fails to live up to expectations, it is useless to continue to help. Later, during a cold winter, Yang Suo stayed at home, burning things at home to keep warm, and continued to spend his boring days. Later, his cousin discovered that Yang Suo had not been seen for a long time. Out of concern, the cousin went to visit Yang Suo. Who would have known that Yang Suo would have starved to death at home. At that time, Yang Suo was already 23 years old. It is also sad that a very mature adult can starve to death like this.
In fact, from Yang Suo’s story, we need to understand the truth. First of all, we can pamper our children but we cannot spoil them. Even now in 2020, many parents still have many misconceptions. They feel that loving their children means helping them make all decisions. This will keep them out of harm's way. Who knew this was the biggest hurt. Just like Yang Suo, when he was young, he originally thought about sharing the burden with his parents, but his parents blocked him, which made Yang Suo develop into a "giant baby". Secondly, children themselves also need to learn various skills. Even if their parents block it, we must do what we can. After all, parents can't always accompany you and take care of you all your life. Only by being self-reliant can you gain a firm foothold in society.