The most popular answer is:
Be a man, never be too kind to a person;
When you do something, you must go all out and do it seriously.
There are only two things in a person's life: being a man and doing things.
Too good for others, the last grievance is yourself;
If you don't do things seriously, you will only lose the game in the end.
For the rest of my life, be kind to people and work hard.
There is a very heartfelt saying in the movie "A Little Red Flower":
I have to say that human nature is like this. Even a kind person, when used to accepting gifts, will take it for granted that others should.
My husband is a famous calligrapher in Kunming. He told me such an experience some time ago.
He has many fans in Aauto Quicker and Tik Tok, and many fans ask him to buy calligraphy works. A fan is his hometown, and the other party has repeatedly expressed admiration for her husband and said that she wants to learn calligraphy from him.
My husband refused him many times, because he was too far away to teach online, so he recommended him to find a calligrapher in his hometown.
In this way, the two met. Later, the fan said that she could not learn from her husband, so she asked for a work, and her husband readily agreed.
I don't know that the other party thanked me again and again after taking the job, but he didn't mention the cost at all. Everything was taken for granted.
Although my husband was unhappy, he was silent because of his feelings.
Who knows that it didn't take long for the man to ask her husband for a job, and also specified which job he wanted.
My husband means well, but that man doesn't know whether it is good or bad. My husband sent him the price of the work directly.
He said that her husband is stingy and his fellow villagers want money. Such elegant works are too tacky to be measured by money.
At this time, my husband regretted it. He made a goodwill gesture to himself, but it brought such humiliation.
If there are countless "fellow villagers" in the future, if they are all free, they will not only waste a lot of precious time, but also live in poverty.
The better you treat a person, the less he takes you seriously;
The more you give, the more he takes.
Refuse when you should refuse, be angry when you should be angry, don't wronged yourself, and don't encourage each other's arrogance.
In the TV series The Story of Yan Xi Palace, Fu Cha asked:
Wei wreaths all answered:
I can't agree with this sentence more. All good things are mutual, so the response efforts will last longer.
Zhang Ruimin said:
Some people like to do similar things, have similar attitudes, have similar achievements, have similar jobs and have similar lives. Such people can only lead similar lives.
But some people do things seriously and diligently, and dare not slack off in dealing with anything. They believe in the power of accumulation and thin hair, and believe that hard work will eventually yield a different life.
Today, my best friend told me that her husband got a promotion, so he won't have to go on business trips every three days, and his salary has tripled.
I know her husband. He is honest and earnest about his work.
Once my best friend told me, "My husband came back after 3 o'clock last night and had to go to deal with the customer's problems at 7 o'clock."
Because another salesman thought the customer was too difficult, the leader gave him the customer and took over temporarily, and the problems were one after another.
He revised the design scheme until after 3 pm, and the customer was very satisfied. Then in the morning, the customer complained about the quality problem, and he got up early to solve it until the customer was satisfied.
My best friend said, "This kind of thing happens all the time. Sometimes I bring my work home. As long as it is his business, he will do it seriously, the leader will not worry at all, and the leader will give him many customers. "
Therefore, this promotion to sales director is the result of his hard work for five years and he deserves it.
Li Suli said:
Everything is not as simple as you think, but it is not as difficult as others say.
Once you start doing it, you will try your best to solve it. After solving it, you will find that it is not that difficult.
The word "earnest" is the most frightening word in the world. As long as you try your best, everything will be solved.
A successful person must work hard.
You can have a clear conscience whether you are a man or a worker. God has a plan for the result.
When you are kind to others and others are still bossing you around, you don't have to care too much, just have a clear conscience.
When you try your best to do something and the result is not satisfactory, you don't have to be sad. You have done your best and have a clear conscience.
Some people say:
Once upon a time, there was a king who loved his people as a son. Under the leadership of the king, his people lived a comfortable life with plenty of food and clothing.
But the king will still worry that if he dies, his people will not live such a happy and healthy life.
So he called a Taoist priest and asked, "Master, how can my people live a well-fed life after I die?" .
The monk gave the king a Buddhist scripture and said, "As long as your people read this Buddhist scripture, they will all be happy."
The king was dissatisfied and said, "Buddhist scriptures are too abstruse for ordinary people to read."
The monk took a pen and wrote eight words: "Treat people gently and everything goes well."
After reading it, the king suddenly realized: "It seems that I am too kind to my people. I am worried that they can't understand the Buddhist scriptures, but they forget that they have studied hard. How can they not read them?" Isn't life like this? "
The ancients said:
Everyone has his own destiny. You don't need to worry about others' incomprehension, and you don't need to be discouraged by the results you haven't achieved. It is good to be a man and do things with a clear conscience.
In this world, there has never been good for no reason, and there has never been casual success.
Some people say:
Although water can drop a stone, it should be moderate to people.
Although you can't pretend to be too full, you still have to do things according to your abilities.
In dealing with people, only by being kind to people and working hard can you have no smoke without fire.
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