When I saw (4) in my eyes, my heart was in a hurry and I didn't have much space (5), so I couldn't cope with (6). If I look at beautiful women in the wild, I can't see (7) at a glance, but what about (8) and (9)? (10) Like (1 1) Who is Confucius? I don't know how many times I've read the Book of Changes to Bian Wei Three Musts (12). Subtle text extraction (13), the more you explore (15), the more you stand out (16), and the more you study (65443). (2 1) Although he was born with the sage of knowing security (22), he did not waste the merits of learning (23) (24).
Dongpo didn't have to study it twice, but he read a song Gong Fangfu (26) to Sigu (27) in Hanlin (25). Old officials suffer (28), while Shiva Saran (58) is tireless. (29) Take (30)(3 1) as soon as you pass, and then (32) doesn't matter! Yu Shinan, (suē) Yang and Zhang Yisheng did not study (33), so far there is no good story (qiē)(34).
And (35) after a while (36) becomes reciting, and there is also the ugliness of reciting everything (37). That is, (38) among the 130 pieces of Historical Records (39), (40) Biography of Xiang Yu is the most (4 1), and the Battle of the Julu, the banquet of the Hongmen and the banquet of the Hongmen (gāi) are also used in Biography of Xiang Yu.
Recite the concept (43) repeatedly, and you can cry with joy (44). Here are some ears (45). If you read every article and remember every word of a Historical Records, it is not that dull (47) Han (46) didn't know it! Some novelists even say that all kinds of legends (48) are evil songs, (49) are jingles (50) and repetitions (5 1)(52), which are unforgettable, such as broken kitchen cabinets, rotten oil and sauce (54) and storage (zh) (55).
Note (1) is selected from Banqiao letters. Zheng Xie (1693~ 1765), a native of Xinghua, Jiangsu Province, was a calligrapher and a bamboo and stone painter in the Qing Dynasty.
Wei County Division, where Zheng Xie worked at that time. Wei county now belongs to Shandong Province.
Little brother, call me little brother humbly. Wei county magistrate sent his brother Mo's first book, and Zheng Xie sent his brother's first book in the official department.
(2) Take … as: Take … as. (3) Charity: It can be done and used in China.
Economy is good for things. Yes, I see.
(5) Square inch: refers to people's hearts. (6) at a loss: no leisure, indicating that you can't cope.
(7) Immediately. (8) and: and.
(9) Related to ... (10) Who: Who?
Can be compared with ... (12) Bian Wei's Three Musts: It is said that Confucius loved reading Zhouyi in his later years, and he read it again and again, breaking the pimp of bamboo slips in Zhouyi several times.
Wei, Ge. (13) Exquisite language and profound truth.
(14) Yue: Yue. (15) exploration: exploration.
(16) out: reveal, understand. (17) research: research.
(18) In: in-depth. (19) Go ahead.
(20) Poverty: exhaustion. (2 1) Although: Even if.
(22) Knowing security when born: born, born. Yes, I understand.
Ann, take your time. Ok, implement it.
That is, "born with knowledge" (knowing without learning) and "taking it as it is" (originally intended to be carried out calmly). This is the qualification that the ancients thought that saints could have.
(23) Stubborn school: study the basic common sense of human feelings and things diligently. (24) work: hard work.
(25) Hanlin: the emperor's literary attendant. This refers to the Hanlin Academy where the Hanlin bachelor works.
Ran Ran: You look carefree. (26) Epang Palace Fu: an article by Du Mu in the Tang Dynasty.
(27) Four drums: Four watches, 1~ 3 am. (28) bitterness: to.
For suffering, yes.
.. feel tired. (29) you: no.
(30) Because. (3 1) Tong: Look.
It's over, it's over. (33) Again: the second time.
(34) Up to now: All the time. (35) and: in addition.
(36) do: just. (37) Ugliness: Shortcomings.
(38) That is, just right. (39) Historical Records: China's first biographical general history, written by Sima Qian in the Western Han Dynasty.
Think about it. (4 1) Yes: Yes.
(42) will: surround. (43) view: view.
(44) Tears of joy: it is worth rejoicing and tears. (45) Ear: That's it.
(46) I don't know: I don't know the truth. (47) slow: slow, stupid.
(48) Legend: refers to the popular operas in the Ming and Qing Dynasties. (49) and: and.
(50) Phrases: ancient poems with popular humor and informal rhyme in content and words; Legend has it that it was created by Zhang Dayou in the Tang Dynasty, hence the name. (5 1) Yes: Yes.
(52) A: Again. (53) Fishes: Take a look.
(54) Note: All. (55) warehousing: warehousing.
(56) dirty (wòchuò): unclean, which means low taste here. (57) no: impossible.
(58) Sprinkle: A carefree look. What does it have to do with me? Correlation [1].
(60) Idle: Idle. (6 1) However.
(62) However, only a part of the phonetic notation is 1. Battle of the Giant Deer II. House 3. (Su) Yang 4. There is no good news (q ù) 5 at present. I can see clearly with my eyes, but my heart rushes by. There is not much left in my heart. It seems that my eyes can't cope with it at all, just like watching beautiful women in Caballe, it passes at a glance. What does it have to do with me? As a person who has studied by memory since ancient times, who can compare with Confucius? Confucius studied the Book of Changes (repeatedly) and broke the thong on the bamboo slips of the Book of Changes several times. I don't know how many times he has watched it. Exquisite language and profound truth, the more you explore and study, the less you know its end.
Even a saint like Confucius, who knows without learning and can practice Tao calmly, will not stop studying human feelings and things diligently. Su Dongpo doesn't need to watch it again. But when he was in the academician courtyard, he read Epang Palace Fu until the fourth watch. The old official in charge of the Hanlin Academy felt that he studied hard, while Su Dongpo was very laid-back and had no sense of tiredness.
How can you leave the book behind and end your study hastily because you can recite it after reading it once? Only Yu Shinan, Zhang Suiyang and Zhang Yisheng have not read this book twice, but they have never written any good articles. And you can recite it after reading it once. One disadvantage is that you can recite everything.
For example, among the 130 Historical Records, Biography of Xiang Yu is the best, and in Biography of Xiang Yu, the battle of the stag, the banquet of the Hongmen and the funeral are all included.
2. The translation of the first book sent by Wei Xian Department to my brother Mo is the most useless thing that Wei Xian Department sent my brother Mo to read.
My eyes are gone, my heart is anxious, my heart is running out, and my contacts are at a loss. If I look at the beauty in the field, it will pass at a glance, which has nothing to do with me. Who has seen Song Cheng more than Confucius since ancient times? Reading is easy for Wei San Jue. I don't know how many times I've watched it. I have said it imperceptibly. The more I explore, the more I study and the more I walk, the less I know how poor I am.
Even if Confucius didn't learn the truth, he could practice the sage's way calmly, and he wouldn't stop studying human affairs diligently. Dongpo didn't have to study twice, but read Epang Palace and gave it to Hanlin's four drums. The old official suffered, and Poe was tireless.
How can you learn by heart just because you can understand it after reading it once, and then leave the book behind and end your study hastily! Only Yu Shinan, Zhang Suiyang and Zhang have read books all their lives and never read them twice, but they have never written a good article. Besides, you can recite it by looking at it. What's the harm in memorizing it?
That is to say, in 130 history books, Xiang Yu's chronicle is the most important, while in Xiang Yu's chronicle, the Battle of the Julu, the Hongmen Banquet and the Gaixia Meeting are the most important. Repeated reading is worthy of joy, and only these fragments are worth crying.
If you finish reading a history book and remember every word, you are not a dull person without ideas! Some novelists even say that all kinds of legendary evil songs and doggerel words are unforgettable, such as the broken kitchen cabinet, which contains smelly oil and rotten sauce, which is filthy. Wei Xianshu and his younger brother Mo Ershu didn't have a son until they were 52 years old. How can they not love each other? However, love must be in its own way. Although you are playful and stubborn, you should be honest with each other and not be in a hurry.
I don't like to keep birds in cages in my life. I want to entertain myself. I don't care whether he is in prison or not, but I must compromise the nature of things to suit my nature! As for the dragonfly tied to the hair and the crab tied to the line, it is a stubborn tool for children, but it will break and die soon. The birth of heaven and earth, education and toil, one ant and one worm, all come from yin and yang and five elements.
God loves reading, too. The humanity of all things is precious, and we can't compete with the heart of heaven. What will everything be entrusted to? Snakes, centipedes, wolves, tigers and leopards are the most poisonous insects, but how can I kill them since heaven is born by itself? If you want to kill everything, why do you want to create heaven and earth? Just to get rid of them, avoid them and let them not hurt each other.
What's the crime of a spider weaving a web, or it curses the moon at night, making people fall and kill them completely. Why did these words go through He Dian and then be killed by this remnant? Is it awesome? When I am not at home, my son is under your control.
If you want to be loyal to him and drive him away from cruelty, don't think you are still a child, cherish him. Family and children will always be ordinary people in the world. When they are universally cherished, they should not be abused by our children.
Fish and fruitcake should all be distributed to everyone, so that everyone can have fun and dance happily. If our children sit and eat good food and let their families stand at a distance and look at each other, they must not touch their lips and teeth; Their parents saw it and were sympathetic, but there was nothing they could do. If you tell them to go, they'll have to dig out their hearts! It is a trivial matter for my husband to study and be an official. First, he should be a good man.
You can read this book to Mrs. Guo and Mrs. Rao and let these two women know that the way to love children is not here. Wei Xian sent a letter to my brother Mo's third book. Rich people delay teachers to teach their children, and they are very diligent and diligent, but most people who have achieved academic success are born in poverty, but their children are absent-minded
A few years later, wealth turned into poverty: there were people who sent people to their homes and hungry beggars. Or just stay at home, have no worries about food and clothing, and be illiterate.
Or there are developed people in a hundred, all of them are articles, and they must not be immersed in happiness, engraved in their hearts and recited by the world. Isn't wealth enough for fools and poverty enough for determination and wisdom? Although I am a humble official, my son is a rich boy, and I ignore his success or failure; But I want to be attached to my son's success, which is also my great wish.
As for Master Yan, be careful with your classmates. My son is six years old and the youngest. My classmates and elders should call him Mr. A, and then Mr. A, not by his first name.
Paper, ink and inkstone belong to my family, or they will be distributed to all students on a regular basis. Every time I see the son of a poor family and the son of a widow, I have to spend more than ten dollars to buy a copy of Sichuan paper nails, but if I can't do it for more than ten days, I will accidentally come into contact with them.
When it rains, if you can't return immediately, you don't have to stay for dinner; At dusk, I took my old shoes and wore them away. His parents' beloved son, although he doesn't have good clothes, will make new shoes and socks to go to school. Once he's confused, it's hard to copy.
It is difficult for a husband to choose a teacher, but it is important to respect the teacher. When choosing a teacher, you have to judge. If you choose a decision, you should respect it easily. Why look for its shortcomings? When we set foot in the official career, we can neither educate our children by ourselves.
Its extension is just a show, not necessarily a celebrity at home. Or secretly write its mistakes, or explicitly refer to its mistakes, because the teacher is overreaching and the teaching method cannot be dedicated; The failure of children's study is the most important thing.
It is better to learn from the strengths of teachers and teach my children incompetence. If you can't do it, don't wait until next year to ask other teachers; Moreover, the etiquette of this year is respected and must not be abolished.
There are four quatrains in five words, which are easy for children to read. Let our son read and sing, and sit on the threshold with his second wife, second mother, uncle and aunt, and let him cheat the fruit to eat. Sell new silk in February and new valley in May; Cured the sore in front of me, but dug out my heart.
At noon on seedling day, sweat dripped down the soil; Every grain in the cognitive plate is hard. I went to town yesterday and came back with tears in my eyes. All over Luo Qi are not silkworm farmers.
998 1 year, the poor suffered; You have to let your feet sleep, mosquitoes will prey on fleas. Wei Xian sent his brother Mo's fourth book to ordinary people for study, but it didn't develop.
However, it is underdeveloped, and you can still stop learning and make up your mind. If the title doesn't come, the knowledge is in me. This is not a losing business.
My silly brother has developed now, and people also call him to study at the critical moment. How many books can you ask yourself? However, if the loan is moved and the subsidy is changed, it is to swindle the world. People don't listen to books and books don't listen to people! Yesterday, assistant minister Shen was asked if Bao was a good way to save the poor. Shen Yue: Reading.
He thinks he is pedantic. It's not pedantic.
Running around here and there, wasting time and losing jobs, only losing their products, it's useless to die, just like in the history of excellent travel, it's urgent to ask for nothing but nothing! If you believe this, you will be rich; If you don't believe it, you will be poor and humble, and you will be patient with your knowledge and determination. The fifth volume of "Wei County Department and Little Brother" is called an article, regardless of modern prose, ancient prose and poetry.
Nowadays, people despise the current language, so why bother to put aside all pen and ink? I will not be ugly but not deep! Fool refers to the articles in this dynasty, when the craftsmanship is the first, Hou Chaozong's ancient prose is the second; Other songs and poems, such as mending the east and the west, dragging their feet and dragging their feet, are all found in the saliva of the ancients and cannot be penetrated, so they have no real spirit. All rivers run into the sea, the essence of prose is profound, the inner feelings are tender, the Olympic message is sent out, the state of things is described, and human feelings are expressed.
The ancient prose of Chaozong is new and different, which refers to painting the present and does not love the fetters of the ancients; But the language is not rich, tolerance is not deep, and finally let Baichuan sit down. Remember to be young.
3. Looking at Zheng Xie's way of loving his son from the translation of "Wei Xian Bu Ji Di Mo Er Shu" (original)
Zheng Xie, one of the Eight Eccentrics of Yangzhou, is called Banqiao. Xinghua, Jiangsu Jinshi in the first year of Qing Qianlong. He has served as the county magistrate of Fan County and Wei County in Shandong Province. Zheng Banqiao is famous for his poetry, calligraphy and painting. But little known is that the way he loves his son is also commendable.
There is a letter from home in the Complete Works of Zheng Banqiao, entitled "The Second Letter from Wei County Secretary to Brother Mo". It says, "I gave birth to my son at the age of 52. How can I not love him? " . However, love must be in its own way. . If you want to be loyal to him and drive him away from cruelty, don't think you are still a child, but cherish it. Family and children will always be ordinary people in the world, and they should be universally cherished; Don't let our son abuse him. All the fish cakes should be distributed to everyone and jump with joy; If our son sits on a delicious food and lets his family watch him from a distance, his lips and teeth can't touch, his parents will feel sorry for him. There's nothing they can do, so why don't they give up? It is a trivial matter for my husband to study and be an official. The first is to be reasonable and be a good person. "
Zheng Banqiao had a son in his later years. He loved his son more than ordinary people. However, at that time, he was a county magistrate in wei county, Shandong Province, and his wife and children were in their hometown in Xinghua, Jiangsu Province (there was no family, and his incorruptibility was evident), so he could not teach his son face to face, so he entrusted the obligation to control his son to his "younger brother". In his letter, he told his brother, "We must be loyal to him and drive him away from cruelty." He emphasized guiding his son to carry forward the spirit of equality and friendship, and never take Laozi as an official and despise other children's companions. It is really commendable that an upper-class figure in the feudal era can resolutely abandon the secular concept of hierarchy. What is particularly commendable is that he regards "being an official in reading" as a "trivial matter" and regards reading "being reasonable and being a good person" as the first priority. This detached outlook on life was not only brilliant at that time, but also among the wise men in contemporary society. Isn't his foresight a powerful refutation of the theory that "officials are expensive and people are cheap", "reading is useless" and "good people suffer"? !
Zheng Banqiao's way of loving his son is "strange", and Zheng Banqiao's godson's point of view seems strange. 1749, when he was a magistrate in Wei county, he wrote a letter to Zheng Mo, his cousin in charge of housework in Xinghua county, asking Zheng Mo how to educate his 6-year-old son who just entered school. In the letter, he copied four easy-to-understand five-character quatrains of his predecessors and told his family: "Let our son read and sing, sit on the threshold under the moon and sing to his second wife, second mother, uncle and aunt to cheat the fruit." Those four poems all reflect the heavy oppression of peasants in feudal society and their miserable lives. In his letter at home, he said: "It is a trivial matter for my husband to promote Jinshi as an official in his studies. First, he should be a good man. You can read this book (letter) to Mrs. Guo and Ms. Rao to let these two women know that the way to love children is not here. " He strongly opposes some scholars who "want to be promoted, promoted and become an official with a book in their hands, and how to rob money, build a big house and buy more land." I took the wrong road at first, and then it got worse and worse, and it always ended badly. This is beneficial for us to strengthen the ideological and political education of students and teenagers today and overcome the tendency of attaching importance to exam results and neglecting moral education. It is human nature to love one's son, especially the only son, but love needs the right methods and means. As Zheng Banqiao said in his letter, "I didn't give birth to my son until I was 52 years old. How can I not love! However, love must be in its own way. "True love is" let nature take its course ",while fake love is not.
Today, all people who love children and all teachers who love flying high should also learn from Zheng's "Love must have its way". If we neglect moral education, we may even create a "black sheep". Is it strange that Zheng Banqiao loves his son? It's not surprising.
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5. Wei County Department and Brother Mo, Volume II Translation: I didn't have a son until I was 52 years old. How can I not love him! But Aiko must have principles.
Even if you play at ordinary times, you should pay attention to cultivating his loyalty, kindness and compassion, and don't mold him into a mean and impatient person. I don't like to keep birds in cages in my life. I long for happiness. It's in the cage. What is the reason? Let it yield to my temperament.
About tying dragonflies with hair and crabs with thread as children's toys, they died in a short time. Everything is born, and it is very hard for parents to raise their children. An ant and a bug are constantly born.
God loves it too. However, man is the most precious of all things, and we can't understand God's intention. How to entrust everything to us? Poisonous snakes, centipedes, jackals and butch are the most poisonous, but God made them born. Why should I kill them? If you must be destroyed, why is the sky born? Just get rid of them, so they won't hurt each other.
Spiders weave webs, what does it have to do with people? Some people say that it cursed the moon at night and made the wall collapse, so the hunting was over. What classic did these remarks come from, and based on it, they stifled the life of creatures. Is this ok? My son will be disciplined by you when I am not at home. We should cultivate and strengthen his loyalty and eradicate his cruelty. You can't tolerate and condone pity for him just because he is your nephew.
Servant's children are all the same people in the world, so we should cherish them equally, and we can't let my son bully and abuse them! Places to eat fish, fruits and snacks should be evenly distributed to make everyone happy. If only my son eats good things, and the servant's children stand far away and watch, they will feel sorry for them and there is nothing they can do.
They had to be told to leave, which was heartbreaking. Being an official at school is a trivial matter. The most important thing is to let them understand things and be good people.
You can read this letter to your two sisters-in-law, so that they can understand that the truth of loving children lies in being a man, not being an official. I didn't have a son until I was 52 years old. How can I not love him! However, love must be in its own way. Although it is fun, it is not urgent to be honest.
I don't like to keep birds in cages in my life. I want to entertain myself. I don't care whether he is in prison or not, but I must compromise the nature of things to suit my nature! As for the dragonfly tied to the hair and the crab tied to the line, they were children's toys, but they broke and died soon. The life of heaven and earth, raising and raising, an ant and a worm, all come from yin and yang and five elements.
God loves reading, too. And the nature of all things, people are expensive.
We can't take the heart of heaven as our heart, and what will everything be entrusted to? Snake flies, centipedes, jackals and butch are the most poisonous insects, but since Heaven was born, how can I kill them? If you want to kill everything, why do you want to create heaven and earth? Just to get rid of them, avoid them and let them not hurt each other. What's the crime of a spider weaving a web, or it curses the moon at night, making people fall and kill them completely.
Why did these words go through He Dian and then be killed by this remnant? When I am not at home, my son is under your control. If you want to be loyal to him and drive him away from cruelty, don't think you are still a child, cherish him.
Family and children will always be ordinary people in the world. We should cherish them and don't let our son abuse them! Fish and fruitcake should all be distributed to everyone, so that everyone can have fun and dance happily. If our children sit and eat good food and let their families stand at a distance and look at each other, they must not touch their lips and teeth; Their parents saw it and were sympathetic, but there was nothing they could do. If you tell them to go, they'll have to dig out their hearts! It is a trivial matter for my husband to study and be an official. First, he should be a good man.
You can read this book to Mrs. Guo and Mrs. Rao and let these two women know that the way to love children is not here. This article was written by Zheng Banqiao in Qing Dynasty.
Background: Zheng Banqiao had a son in his later years. He loved his son more than ordinary people. However, at that time, he was a county magistrate in wei county, Shandong Province, and his wife and children were in their hometown in Xinghua, Jiangsu Province (there was no family, and his incorruptibility was evident), so he could not teach his son face to face, so he entrusted the obligation to control his son to his "younger brother".
In his letter, he told his brother, "We must be loyal to him and drive him away from cruelty." He stressed the need to guide his son to carry forward the spirit of equality and friendship, and never look down on other children's companions just because his father is an official. It is really commendable that an upper-class figure in the feudal era can resolutely abandon the secular concept of hierarchy.
What is particularly commendable is that he regards "being an official in reading" as a "trivial matter" and regards reading "being reasonable and being a good person" as the first priority. This detached outlook on life was not only brilliant at that time, but also among the wise men in contemporary society.
Isn't his foresight a powerful refutation of the theory that "officials are expensive and people are cheap", "reading is useless" and "good people suffer"? Zheng Banqiao's way of loving his son is "strange", and Zheng Banqiao's godson's point of view seems strange. 1749, when he was a magistrate in Wei county, he wrote a letter to Zheng Mo, his cousin in charge of housework in Xinghua county, asking Zheng Mo how to educate his 6-year-old son who just entered school.
In the letter, he copied four easy-to-understand five-character quatrains of his predecessors and told his family: "Let our son read and sing, sit on the threshold under the moon and sing to his second wife, second mother, uncle and aunt to cheat the fruit." Those four poems all reflect the heavy oppression of peasants in feudal society and their miserable lives.
In his letter at home, he said: "It is a trivial matter for my husband to promote Jinshi to be an official in his studies. First, he should be a good man. You can read this book (letter) to Mrs. Guo and Ms. Rao to let these two women know that the way to love children is not here. "
He strongly opposes some scholars who "want to be promoted, promoted and become an official with a book in their hands, and how to rob money, build a big house and buy more land." I took the wrong road at first, and then it got worse and worse, and it always ended badly. "
This will help us to strengthen the ideological and political education for students and teenagers today, and overcome the tendency of attaching importance to exam results and neglecting moral education. It is human nature to love one's son, especially the only son, but love needs the right methods and means.
As Zheng Banqiao said in his letter, "I didn't give birth to my son until I was 52 years old. How can I not love! But love must be in its own way. " True love is "let nature take its course", while false love is not.
Today, all people who love children and all teachers who love flying high should also learn from Zheng's "Love must have its way". If we neglect moral education, we may even create a "black sheep".
Zheng.