Judging from pornographic advertisements, the biggest difference between Japanese porn industry and other countries and regions is that in addition to ordinary one-night stands, it can also provide all kinds of extremely abnormal sexual services, which are varied and varied, and fully meet the service requirements put forward by all kinds of people. For example, there is a "breast sucking" service that does not require sex in bed. A plump woman took the cream and sat on the sofa with her bare chest. The customer sat on her lap and sucked milk on her breast like a baby. In addition, there are many people sharing the same bed, sexual ability competitions, live performances by real people, sexual abuse and other extremely disgusting projects.
In Japan, the porn industry is really afraid that it can't be done, but it is afraid that it can't be thought of. It's not just prostitutes who like to have sex with women. Many Japanese faculty and students come here to seek relief because of the pressure of work and study, unhappy marriage, disharmony between husband and wife and poor mental state. There are also many Japanese who often visit here to meet their abnormal psychological needs. It can be said that the Japanese porn industry can fully display the deformed characteristics of Japanese society and the distorted and abnormal souls of many Japanese people.
It seems that prostitutes in ancient China will be fine in their twenties, while prostitutes in modern western countries will be forced to stop sexual services and find another way out because of their declining beauty in their thirties. It's strange in Japan. There are prostitutes of all ages from teenagers to 60 years old, and they are very popular. From some books and periodicals, we know that Japanese pornographic services often encounter a very special phenomenon of "matching young and old", that is, middle-aged and elderly male clients like to pursue young prostitutes with youthful breath, and some young people sometimes come here to target older middle-aged and elderly prostitutes. The former is fine, while the latter is rather puzzling.
One of the reasons is that young people are so eager for inner communication not only for physical satisfaction, but also for inner communication, because older women are more considerate and willing to listen to their voices. Young people who are struggling in social competition will have a stronger sense of warmth and security here.
The second reason is that there are not a few young people with Oedipus tendency and incest desire in modern Japan, but they are very rational and will not do anything to hurt their loved ones and destroy their families, so they solve the problem in this way.
Japanese porn websites have single rooms with the names of "The House of Mature Women", "Hidden Moon at Night" and "Autumn Leaves", which are provided by middle-aged and elderly prostitutes over 40 years old. More than half of the people who come here are young people, and even minors who are not afraid of breaking the rules. The house called "Autumn Leaves" is more elegant and does not have any erotic meaning. Not everyone can come. The shopkeeper has the right to refuse you entry. The hostess of the house may be plain-looking, but she has a certain level of education, and she is often experienced, well-spoken and considerate, and knows a little about piano, chess, calligraphy and painting. Here, we mainly pay attention to the spread of cultural thoughts, emotional life, art and flowers, which means we mainly sell spiritual wealth. The hostess is usually around 50 years old and talks with visiting young people like teachers and parents. Young people who come here generally don't ask for sex. When individual young people ask for sex, most of them will be rejected and occasionally accepted. Although there is no direct sexual service here, it is expensive. It seems that spiritual wealth is sometimes more important than material wealth.
Song Shou, a 2 1 year-old college student, once studied Chinese with me and sometimes lived in my house. He bluntly said that he has a serious Oedipus mentality and likes to chat up middle-aged women. He had been to "Autumn Leaves" many times before he met me. He was received by a 54-year-old woman named Iwata Yoshiko. Iwata Yoshiko is an elegant and knowledgeable woman with a pair of myopia glasses. He gets along well with her. She loves reading and knows China's calligraphy. Songshou is willing to go to her, and she can get a lot of interesting knowledge about the customs of all countries in the world. Every time she comes back, Songshou is very happy. The two became more and more familiar. Iwata Yoshiko said that Songshou was a poor student and reduced some fees. Song Shou asked her why she chose this line. She said sadly that she was born in World War II, and soon after Japan's defeat, she became an orphan. /kloc-at the age of 0/6, she was forced to become a prostitute. At the age of 24, she stopped being a good woman. She also studies history and geography in a women's university. At the age of 29, she married a builder. At the age of 39, her husband abandoned her and her son because of her disgraceful past. However, she didn't want to meet her clients again, so she had to do some rough work. At the age of 47, she can't do manual labor, but she has become such a "senior" prostitute. But she never sleeps with men. She just "plays" like a geisha and doesn't betray herself. So all the people who came to see her were civilized people, including some young people. She has saved a lot of money for retirement and plans to resign after one year. This is her history. Iwata Yoshiko likes Song Shou very much. He can make up for the loss of his son. Song Shou also regarded Iwata Yoshiko as his confidant. It was fine, but last time we met, Songshou drank some sake. Unexpectedly, the tie offered to have sex with her. Iwata Yoshiko was shocked and his face was sad. Song Shou said that he quickly apologized. Both of them have nothing to say. Song Shouzheng is preparing to leave. Iwata Yoshiko, who had been silent for a long time, was still lying on the tatami, unbuttoning his coat. Song Shou couldn't help jumping up ... Afterwards, Iwata Yoshiko was disappointed and didn't want to meet Song Shou again. Iwata knew that she had broken her heart and broken the rules on which self-esteem depended. She was very sad and uneasy, but she was too embarrassed to visit again, so she bought many books she loved and sent them to her. After listening to Song Shou's words, my bad view of Autumn Leaves has changed a little. I think Iwata Yoshiko is a woman who doesn't want to degenerate, and strives for progress. Even if she is forced by bad luck, she tries her best to maintain her self-esteem.
I looked at Song Shou from top to bottom, an honest and weak student. There seems to be nothing unusual except his Oedipus mentality. Psychologically speaking, Oedipus mentality is actually an adjustable psychological function. Many boys have had this mentality to some extent, but in the end they can be safely controlled and eliminated without causing abnormal behavior. But if not a pervert, how could Song Shou have that desire for a 54-year-old woman? I said angrily, "You shouldn't destroy her self-esteem. Besides, at her age, why not find a romantic girl to do such a thing?" Song Shou defended himself and said, "I never promiscuous, and my feelings for Yoshiko's friends are sincere. I had a one-time experience with a very good female classmate in middle school, and then we broke up. I haven't had any other girlfriends except to go to Yoshiko's house. I've never dealt with porn girls, that's the second time in my life. After she entered my spiritual world, I also tried to control myself to separate the spiritual body, but I couldn't. Actually, I'm not horny. Yoshiko has long lost her beauty, her waist is so thick and her face is so wrinkled. I also know that her age is no longer suitable for strenuous sexual activities. I didn't have much pleasure that day, but my spirit has been integrated with her, and our bodies should be integrated. "
I can't understand his specious reasons, but one thing is certain. In Japanese culture, spirit and sex are closely combined. As long as women exist in the spiritual world of the brain, regardless of ethical constraints, generations, beauty and ugliness, background, ideals, emotions and other factors, they can trigger sexual desire, which is also a reason why incest in Japan is more serious.
There are still many middle-aged and elderly Japanese women trapped in prostitutes' brothels like Iwata Yoshiko, but many of them have become insensitive and indulged by time, gradually forgetting the meaning of self-esteem and shame. I have seen many books, magazines and advertisements introducing "mature women's house", which is an erotic house with equal emphasis on spirit and lust. The age of the hostess is often between 40 and 60, and visitors can choose according to their own preferences.
These women have different education levels, some are literate but plain-looking, some are almost illiterate but must be beautiful when they are young, and their personalities and hobbies are different. Two thirds of tourists just drink tea, sing, dance, chat and joke. No need for sexual contact, and the fee is not high. In addition, one-third of people may ask for different degrees of sexual contact, such as hugging, kissing, reaching into their tops, reaching into their underwear, watching three-point nudity, watching nudity, touching naked parts with their hands, helping visitors massage, helping them masturbate and having sex. There is a detailed tourist price list, and tourists can choose one or more services according to their own economic situation and their own needs. Among the young people who ask for sexual contact, many just choose other services such as hugging and kissing, and not many really ask for sexual relations with middle-aged and old prostitutes.
There are some seemingly absurd phenomena in Japanese porn industry. For example, in order to protect the safety and health of elderly prostitutes, especially to show respect for the social morality of the elderly in Japan, many "mature women's homes" have some specific regulations, such as sexual intercourse with postmenopausal elderly women, and protection of their bones, soft tissues, breasts, genitals and other body tissues and organs from damage, and there are clear restrictions on the weight, posture, length of sexual intercourse, exercise intensity and sanitary conditions of visitors.
None of the Japanese I know has been to the "Cougar House". The following news was published in the newspaper. A 29-year-old Japanese employee goes to a prostitute shop every week to find a prostitute aged 50-55. This employee suffers from impotence and has never had sexual relations with his wife, but he returned to normal after coming here and can get good satisfaction. The reason is that he has been in love with his mother for nearly 15 years, and his desire for young women is very weak, while his mother is just 53 years old. A 38-year-old businessman came here without asking for sex, but he asked to touch the prostitute's chest and abdomen before going to bed. The reason is that he slept like this when he was a child. When he grows up, he often can't sleep at night. Only when he comes here can he sleep well.
There are also some Japanese students around the age of 20 who patronize him, let prostitutes over the age of 40 touch his body and finally help him masturbate. A college student mentioned in his composition that in the prostitute's home, in the touch of a middle-aged aunt, you can feel the maternal love of childhood. Sometimes minors enter such places, which is even more ridiculous. There is a news in the newspaper that a boy of 15 years old came to the "mature woman's house" and asked to have sex with his 48-year-old mistress. The woman thinks that he is too young to hurt him, so she tries to dissuade him. The boy tried to rape her violently, but the woman decided that she was in a bad situation and quickly agreed. In any case, income generation is different from others.
In order to help people with incest desire, a unique intermediary company appeared in Japan. If you are a client, you only need to send your mother and your detailed information, including photos, to the company, and they will find you a prostitute who is almost consistent with your mother's age, appearance, manners, thoughts and attitude towards you, and let her live with you in the place you specify for one to three days, during which she will completely imitate your mother's life. There are some cases that seem unrelated to incest outside the Japanese porn industry, but they are enough to surprise China people. For example, in some bathhouses in Japan, women in their fifties and sixties actually rub their backs, pour water and hand towels and clothes to customers. In some hot spring teahouses in Japan, besides beautiful women, there are also some old women who accompany tea, but the service targets are all young people.
The incest complex is staggering.
According to Freud's psychoanalysis, it is not surprising that people have Oedipus complex. It is estimated that incest occurs in any country, but when incest is not taken seriously by the whole society, the national psychology of this country deserves attention.
Although the Japanese admire Buddhism very much, their views and practices on sex are staggering. In this regard, Europe and the United States should also admit defeat. However, Japanese people's attitudes towards sex are very unique, different from those in Europe and America, and some of them are unacceptable, even beyond the scope of social ethics. Some Japanese men are polite to others like gentlemen, but when it comes to sex, they seem to be different people and become particularly presumptuous. When it comes to women and sex, everyone is happy and has no scruples. They will describe in detail every detail when they have a relationship with women, including the shape and posture of female reproductive organs, women's reactions, and the ideas of communicating with each other.
In fact, incest is also prohibited by Japanese law. Official public opinion severely condemns and strongly opposes incest, and severely punishes the father who raped his daughter or the son who raped his mother. However, there are often reports and introductions about incest in Japanese media, and sometimes people like to talk about news involving incest. The tolerance of Japanese folks or people for incest incidents that "do not harm the parties or harm others" is unbelievable.
If we analyze the deep history and present situation of Japanese society, this yellow culture is very suitable for the national conditions of Japanese society. Japanese society has always been recognized as a "male-centered" society. Women are attached to men and live for them-a kind of consciousness lurking in Japanese women's minds. They think that what they should do is to give everything to the man who has created a happy life for themselves. Perhaps for the same reason, it is natural for Japanese men to love women and the abnormal sexual behavior derived from them.