Opening books is a slow growth process, so you need the patience to continue investing. I am not a successful case. I may be the earliest book opener in Langfang area, but I am not the earliest third-level book opener. So what is the reason that caused me to delay for so long? I would like to share the pitfalls of opening books with you. Some ideas for growth.
Many newcomers are always worried about not finding the right clips. This is a process that almost every book opener must go through. The solution is the same as explained by the predecessors. Read more, choose more and dismantle more.
Some people worry that the selected clips do not meet the requirements and their efforts are in vain. Then you need to ask yourself, what is your original intention in learning to open books?
The purpose is to learn knowledge, not to pass a level. Therefore, even if you cannot pass the level, learning knowledge is still a gain.
Of course, it is understandable that I have anxiety and expectations when I see others leveling up quickly and seeing the excitement after level 3 demolition.
There is really no need to compare. Everyone's foundation and knowledge accumulation are different, and their growth rate is definitely different. If you blindly pass the level just for the sake of passing it, or even imitate the official website records to pass the level quickly, not only will you not have a solid grasp of the book-opening skills, but you will also gain little in the knowledge of disassembly, which will seriously affect your future self-growth.
There are nearly 500 Level 3 book demolitionists, and not as many are active and involved in commercial demolition as expected. It is not ruled out that some people are developing at a higher level, but there are still many people who feel that nothing has changed after level three. They only learned methods but did not gain souls.
Calligraphy is an effective way to read, but it will not work immediately. I evaluate calligraphy this way: it is like giving wings to fly, but the power to flap the wings comes from your reading and accumulation.
To give an example of how we split up calligraphers, Brother Guo Jian is a 50-year-old eldest brother and a corporate executive. Not only is he rich in life experience, but he also attaches great importance to learning. Before encountering calligraphy, he had accumulated a lot of reading, reading through the classics of Confucianism, Taoism, and Buddhism. He also read many schools of Western philosophy, not to mention various practical books. His problem with reading was that he couldn't find a good way to study. When he saw "Reading This Way is Enough", his calligraphy skills suddenly opened up his second line of study. As a result, he opened books very quickly, selected books very easily, and the courses he taught were of high quality. He reached 3-3 in less than half a year and is now waiting for the final official website review.
If calligraphy is a martial arts move, then I think the accumulation of a lot of reading is internal strength. If you don't have enough internal strength, no matter how beautiful your moves are, they won't be powerful.
You need to be patient in accumulating fragments, and at the same time, you need to find ways to challenge yourself and complete the book-opening task and book-opening plan in a short time.
There is a special characteristic of opening a book. If you don’t open it for one day, you will know it. If you don’t open it for two days, the master will know it. If you don’t open it for three days, everyone will know it. This is not an exaggeration at all. The biggest problem with my procrastination was that the demolition cycle was too long and too infrequent. At that time, it was also because there was really no gay partner in Langfang, only me. It took a lot of effort to reach level 2, but as a result, the actual records were not transmitted in time, the demolition was not continued, and the previous knowledge was forgotten, and the result was that we had to start over. Now many colleagues have also reported this problem. As a master, what I do most often is to urge my disciples to do their homework.
Some friends said they were too busy and had no time. Let me introduce my results in April. Langfang suffered a serious epidemic in March and April. As a civil servant, I participated in the anti-epidemic work throughout the entire epidemic period. I went to work during the day, attended the provincial epidemic prevention meeting at night, and compiled meeting minutes in the early morning. I worked until 4 or 5 in the morning for quite a while, and I was so tired that my heart ached.
At the same time, I cannot avoid the tasks of dismantling books in the research team and dismantling books as gifts. There is no way to force the launch, and force one task after another. Finally, I sorted it out. In such a busy situation, I read 4 books in April, opened an online book, organized a *** reading, completed an official WeChat story draft, and a book rush. Book disassembly manuscript, fragments of 8 training books, and a verbatim manuscript of a 3-hour martial arts arena. Looking back, I find it amazing. I was so busy at the time and I didn’t expect to be able to finish it at first.
Three questions will accompany you on the way to growth.
Questioning your ability. When you pass a level and get hanged or knocked back, you will question whether this method is suitable for me. Why can’t I pass the level, pass the verbatim draft, and can’t guess the skill points? allow? In fact, this is a good thing. Only when you find it difficult can you escape your comfort zone and enter the growth stage.
When you question time, you will involuntarily compare your speed with others.
Why am I so slow to pass levels and learn so slowly, but why are others so fast? As the saying goes, if you keep doing it, you will make progress. There is no need to compare. There is no one who is slower than me in unpacking books. But haven’t I also done it now?
There is a process of enlightenment when it comes to unpacking books. As long as you continue to unpack it and do it frequently, you will accumulate it and one day you will suddenly have an epiphany. The skills of reading the manual become clearer, and I can understand the painstaking efforts of the helper to design the skills, so that I can understand everything. And before you get the hang of it, you must have enough patience.
Value question, is it really useful? I searched for an entry on Baidu and opened the book to help with MLM. I find it baffling, and some friends are indeed worried that my enthusiasm has been brainwashed. Some people will say that this is not as fragrant as stewed goose and not as fun as games. Isn't it just like Fan Deng and the kind of leeks who get paid for knowledge? Their cognition is like appending old knowledge mentioned in the book. You must firmly believe that opening a book is different, it is based on change and growth based on action, believe in the value of opening a book, grit your teeth and come through, you will witness the wonderful things.
Finally, according to the convention of opening a book, specific action steps must be given.
The secret to opening books to gain enlightenment, leveling up, and growing up is to read more, frequently, and continuously.