Later, whether reading or reading, I heard or saw this explanation of Confucius. After learning knowledge, it is also very pleasant to review at some time! Is it not delightful to have friends coming from distant quarters? I'm not annoyed that others don't understand me. I am also a person with high moral cultivation! ? My teacher explained this to us when I was studying, and I didn't feel anything wrong. I realized that I was a little girl and a gentleman had nothing to do with me. You can't study all the time, friends come from afar, or you are ignorant and unwilling. Today, many years later, I read Confucius' words again, and I feel that I agree with learning and learning from time to time, but I can't seem to say that I am happy; If a bad friend comes from afar, it seems that I can't be happy except crying; As for people who don't know or care, as I often tell my mother, I am a human being, not a god. In a word, I can't do it. Finally, I also came to a conclusion that Confucius is not a man, but a god.
One day, out of deep admiration for Mr. Nan, I bought The Analects and read it carefully. The structure of the book is completely arranged in the order of The Analects. The first article is about learning from time to time. Teacher Wang's explanation made me re-understand and feel this passage.
First of all, Mr. Wang is talking about learning. Learning without quantity means learning knowledge from books and learning. Learning comes from life experience and doing things. Speaking of time and habits, time is actually thinking, practicing, experiencing and reflecting on yourself anytime and anywhere. For example, seeing a very classic passage in a book often leads to countless feelings. Another example is to persuade someone not to do this, and that person just won't listen, and then it's all wet. Seeing all this will cause a lot of thinking. These are all things you learn from time to time. Everyone may have this feeling, and get experience through reading and experience, which makes you feel extremely happy and sublimated. Isn't this it? Isn't it a pleasant thing to persevere and work hard? Really?
And then sir, we explained it again? Have any friends come from afar? , here? Friends? But not ordinary friends, but bosom friends. ? Come all the way? It doesn't just come from distant places, not only in space, but also in time. For example, your view of something is the same as that of a saint who has already suffered, so you are not the saint's confidant! ? Life is hard to find a bosom friend? 、? A scholar dies for a confidant? It is not difficult to see from these words that it is a pleasure to have friends coming from afar.
? People don't know or care? It brings us the highest realm of learning, but no one will understand it all his life and will not complain. This reminds me of Mr Ji Xianlin who died not long ago. Mr. Ji studied Orientalism, which is very rare. Academically, there are not many people who can be regarded as his confidants, but it seems that I have never heard of Mr. Ji complaining about others. On the contrary, his academic and moral demeanor greatly admired by later generations. This is simply learning for the sake of learning, and it has nothing to do with whether others understand it or not.
Mr. nan huaijin summarized these three words as literacy of reading and learning. From beginning to end, he can enjoy himself first, and then what? The world after happiness? . In fact, for me, what resonates with me more is a sentence quoted by Mr. Chen Mei in The Times: How to be alone? There's nothing to sit on. One day is two days. How to have fun with others? A word with you is better than ten years of study. ?
Once upon a time, I read a book because it was in my hand, and the owner of the book had the patience to wait for me to finish it in a breath or a few days. Later, I learned that there was a good place to study, such as the public library, so I didn't bother to turn over the bibliographic cards. I just grabbed a book on the shelf in the open reading room. Later, through the internet, I also know which books are worth reading recently, but I often only pay attention to what I am interested in. Occasionally I come across one or two good books on the browsed web pages, so I have little time and mood to calm down and read them. It is luck to meet or meet them. So I only read The Analects, because I chose Selected Reading of Chinese and Western Classics, so I borrowed this book from the library.
People often talk about it, but I didn't know it came from The Analects. Like what? My parents are here, so I don't travel far. An upright man is open and poised, the villain is always off, not in his position, not seeking his own government. All roads lead to the same goal, there is no common goal, and there is a long way to go. I would rather die than surrender. A person should be independent/firm at the age of thirty.
I read the Analects of Confucius, of course, not to find the Secret Biography of Confucius, but to cultivate my self-cultivation and put family first. It is only in this book that I know a pedantic Confucius, a versatile and tireless Confucius, a Confucius who never tires of eating refined food and knows the joy of life. Scholars who are proficient in Chinese and western cultures often compare Confucius with Socrates, an ancient Greek philosopher. Socrates was executed by the democratic regime in Athens. It is said that the spirit of freedom prevented him from escaping. But I prefer Confucius' outspoken:? If you can't do it, can you float in the sea? This is also a spirit of freedom. Reading The Analects of Confucius is like traveling through a thousand years, and seeing the Spring and Autumn Period of hegemony over the world. Confucius was a great thinker and educator. His words and deeds on filial piety, learning, governing and governing the country were highly respected by kings of all dynasties. Emperor Wu of the Han Dynasty deposed hundreds of schools and respected Confucianism alone. Confucianism-the golden mean. His thoughts and remarks may not be in line with the times we live in today, but it is necessary to read the classics that have influenced China culture for thousands of years.
Confucius pays attention to filial piety, which has become the traditional virtue of the Chinese nation. Today, when people are dying, it is very necessary to tell them that filial piety is the foundation of being a man. Confucius said:? Father was there, watching his ambition; Father didn't, observe his actions; Three years without changing your father's ways can be described as filial piety. ?
? Parents can do their best; ? Wait a minute. Namely, Confucius said; ? Observe his ambition when his father is alive; After his father's death, we should examine his behavior; If he doesn't change his father's teaching for a long time, such a person can be said to have done his duty. ? What is filial piety here, Tong? Can parents do their best? A little different. Although parents can do their best, it is unfilial to do things in society, or to commit corruption or robbery, which makes parents very worried and worried. Parents want their children to be better than themselves and have good moral character, which is the starting point for parents to educate their children. Therefore, providing rich materials for parents is not the foundation of filial piety. If you can act according to your parents' wishes and teachings, it is true filial piety to be worthy of your parents.
As far as learning is concerned, Confucius? Never tire of learning, never tire of teaching, never know what you know, never know what you don't know, never be ashamed to ask questions if you are thirsty for knowledge. There must be a teacher in a threesome, knowledgeable and determined, thirsty for knowledge and thoughtful? . Isn't it a modest, rigorous, realistic and persistent learning attitude? Does he pay attention to the method of study? Therefore, it is useless to know the new, to learn without thinking, and to think without learning is dangerous. He thinks his study and internship are not bad. ? At the same time, Confucius thought? Kindness is not easy to learn, its cover is also stupid, and good knowledge is not easy to learn, and its cover is also swaying. Honesty is not easy to learn, and its obscurity shows the importance of learning. Learning is the foundation of love and trust.
? A threesome requires a teacher. 、? He is quick-thinking and eager for knowledge, and he is never shy to ask his subordinates for advice. ? These are two of the six articles in The Analects that impressed me the most. The first is that several people go together, so there must be someone who can be a teacher; The latter tells us to study hard quickly and don't be shy to ask people who are not as good as ourselves. Although these two sentences came from Confucius more than two thousand years ago, they are still wise sayings and of great significance. ? A threesome requires a teacher. ? This sentence contains a broad truth: capable people are teachers. In our daily life, there are many people to contact every day, and everyone has certain advantages, which are worth learning and can also be our mentor. Suppose it belongs to our class. In this class group of nearly 80 people, some are fierce in basketball, some are good at painting, some are good at calligraphy, and some are good at chess. Some are astronomy, some are geography; Some are all numbers; Some people can sing and dance. Learn more from these ordinary people around you, just like seedlings in evergreen bushes are absorbing rich nutrients. The mountains are so majestic and continuous; The sea is so vast and boundless, and the mountain is high because it never rejects every pebble; The sea is wide because it actively gathers little by little water. If you want to have the feelings of mountains and the depth of the sea, you must be good at learning from ordinary people. . Children of a few years old are certainly not as good as educators in their forties; Ordinary people are not as knowledgeable as historians? But that's it? Not ashamed to ask? Created many great men.
The Analects of Confucius, the first book after reading, is a classic reading of China, which contains China cultural classics. As the saying goes? Half of the Analects of Confucius governs the world? The Analects of Confucius tells us how to associate with friends, how to honor our parents and how to solve things.
Have a son: He is also filial, and those who are good at crime are fresh; It's not easy to make mistakes, but it's not easy to make mistakes. Gentleman's business is based on inheritance and Taoism. Filial piety is also the foundation of benevolence! ? You are saying: it is rare to see people who are filial to their parents, obedient to their eldest brother and like to offend the upper rulers. No one likes to rebel rather than offend the upper rulers. When a gentleman is committed to the fundamental things, the truth of governing the country and being a man is established. Filial piety to parents, obedience to eldest brother, this is? Ren? The root of. ? It is understood on the basis of benevolence, that is, one should do what others think and help others in society? A gift? Reminds me of a famous saying of Confucius? Self-denial? ! Wouldn't it be great if everyone was modest? Wisdom? I think it is wise to know what people say! That is to know the truth of others and let yourself move forward better! In fact, we are all learning the experience left by our predecessors! Only by understanding the truth can we understand our significance in society! Of course, the opinions of people around you should be chosen well, which is conducive to the development and acceptance of individuals and society! ? Letter? Is the integrity we have always advocated. Advocating from our ancestors? Letter? And now the society sometimes lacks the virtue of traditional culture! Therefore, each of us should learn and carry forward the truth in The Analects. So we can make one? Young gentleman?