The Book of Songs (Pre-Qin)
Guan Heming's osprey, accompanied by the small continent of the river. A beautiful and virtuous woman is a good spouse of a gentleman.
Mix shepherd's purse and salvage it from left to right. A beautiful and virtuous woman wakes up to pursue her.
If you can't pursue it, the black nightclub misses her during the day. Miss Long, I can't sleep over and over again.
Mix shepherd's purse and choose from left to right. A beautiful and virtuous woman came to her with a couple and a couple.
Pull shepherd's purse from left to right. A beautiful and virtuous woman rings the bell to please her.
Translation:
Guan Guan and Ming's pheasant doves are accompanied by small and medium-sized rivers. That beautiful and virtuous woman is a good spouse of a gentleman.
Uneven shepherd's purse, from left to right. That beautiful and virtuous woman wants to pursue her after waking up.
I can't get it when I pursue it, and I always miss her day and night. I miss you so much that I can't sleep.
Pick the shepherd's purse from left to right. The beautiful and virtuous woman approached her by playing the harp.
Rugged shepherd's purse, pulled from left to right. A beautiful and virtuous woman rings bells and drums to please her.
2. I like a girl and dare not tell her. I often think of how to express my confession in classical Chinese (* * * is divided into four parts, please read it patiently: first, practical confession skills; Second, men profess women; Third, women profess men; The fourth is the choice of confession location. )
Confession ladder: a practical confession skill to avoid confessing death. Confession refers to expressing your interest in a girl, which is an expression of interest. Confession is a turning point in the escalation of the relationship, and it is a statement that defines the direction of your relationship.
Its purpose is only one: let the girl accept your interest in her and straighten out the relationship between the two sides. Confession is an important link in the whole process of relationship upgrading.
Without this link, girls will be confused about your development intention and doubt your interest. There is a necessary premise for the escalation of the trap relationship of "death confession", that is, you have certain attraction and availability to each other. Without this premise, you will definitely fall into the trap of "confessing to death".
Confession to death means that after a man confesses to a woman, he is rejected by the woman, which makes the relationship plummet and the attraction and comfort drop sharply. In the PUA system, confession is a topic that is rarely mentioned.
For many PUA systems, language confession is actually unnecessary, because there are many other expressions that can be replaced, such as body language, availability, Kino upgrade and so on. Confession comes from two factors: 1. Mutual attraction or lack of usability; 2. Put too much pressure on the other party, so that the other party needs to assume the role of an exclusive lover at once, making the other party feel uncomfortable in the face of unexpected situations.
The problem of traditional confession In traditional thinking, confession is to express your interest to girls, which can usually be "I love you" or "Can you be my girlfriend?" If the other person accepts your confession, it means that she needs to assume the role of lover, but when the other person is not ready, such expression will form too much pressure, so girls will instinctively refuse to escape this pressure and avoid this responsibility. This also explains why many men fall off the chain in confession and fall into the trap of confession.
You must learn to express yourself in different ways and to different degrees to avoid the embarrassment that girls can't turn back after rejecting you. Confession follows the principle of "confession ladder", from shallow to deep, so that girls can slowly accept your interest in her.
A statement of interest in girls doesn't have to say "I love you" all at once. It can be changed to a subtle statement at first. For example, "your eyes are beautiful" and "I think you are a kind-hearted girl" are relatively shallow statements of interest, which will not cause any pressure and embarrassment to girls, that is, your praise for her is also a statement of interest; Relatively shallow statements of interest, such as "Actually, I think you are an attractive girl" and "I think you have a good personality, and I prefer girls with good personality" will express your interest in girls; As for the statement of interests such as "I like you" and "be my girlfriend", it is the clearest expression and the top confession of "confession steps".
The straightforwardness of interest statement depends on the degree to which girls are attracted. If girls are completely attracted to you, you can express your feelings in the clearest way, which will improve your relationship quickly, but it is generally not recommended to express the clearest statement of interest to girls. Reverse confession means that a girl is interested in herself, so as to express your interest in her.
Its principle is to presuppose the girl's interest intention, plus a reason to let the other party rationalize their thinking. "Actually, I think you like me, or you don't hate me. I believe you won't meet people you hate. "
Is a good example, of course, the premise here is that girls don't hate you being attracted to you. Response: If the confession is successful, it shows that she is willing to take the responsibility of loving, then you can enjoy a new relationship.
If the confession is unsuccessful, don't pay attention to the girl's reaction, don't be influenced by the negative emotions after the girl's rejection, and try again in the attraction link. Don't ask girls "Why?" Originally, the girl didn't think about the specific reasons, but because of your questioning, she needs to find a reason to rationalize you and herself. Once she finds it, she must be consistent.
First, boys say hello to girls! Dude, I've been there before. I went through your stage. It's really interesting and tangled. Let's listen to my partner. After reading your situation, I analyzed it. In this world, if you want to pursue women successfully! Can't use the conventional method! Especially now, you all have a misunderstanding. You all want to confess what's wrong with you, and then wait for others to confess and "admit". Am I right? It's easy to fail, brother.
Especially if the other person has no feelings for you. Actually, you can kiss her first. She's confessing! This way, the other party is fresh and * * *, and if it is the first kiss, it will be even more dead set! Now you must chase the children quickly and accurately, I mean the most important thing. Then, listen to me. I will call you word for word. You cann't play cards according to the routine The logic of chasing girls as usual is outdated! Let me tell you about my experience and my understanding.
I hope it helps you! ! My experience: If you like a girl, you should first calm down and don't think too much. Then, what you have to do is to find opportunities to get familiar with him slowly when everyone is active together.
Be careful, you don't always go around her, people will resent it. What you have to do is to become excellent and increase capital in all aspects. For example, playing the piano, dancing street dance, computer programming, what other good singing skills, beautiful writing, calligraphy, these, of course, the most important thing is career! ! ! Do your own business well and make more money. If students study well, then your attention will be high.
The competitiveness is also great! I sincerely share my experience, I hope you can learn the essence from it! In a word, more haste, less speed, more haste, more distance, step by step, and finally win her heart! Without teachers around her, you have to accumulate capital! You know, women don't like people who walk around her all day! Your next step is to develop slowly, ask her out slowly, and then unconsciously try to share your little secret with him, so that you two can become good friends with everything. Finally, at some point, when there are fewer people, you chat together again, and you just ...