On your hard and muddy road, do you look back at the kindness of the lights at home and continue to move forward bravely? On your happy sunshine avenue, can you turn your head and stare at the hardships in the wind and rain, so as to motivate yourself to be calm?
Our growth needs to strut towards the brilliant sunrise, and we also need to stop and count the fragments of our experiences.
Who has never been happy and beautiful, and the water has never been sad. When you are in trouble, you can look back clearly and carefully at your little happiness, and you will feel that your indifferent heart is full of strength in an instant, and no matter how rough the waves are, it can't stop your inner impact. When you succeed, if you can turn around carefully and touch the land where you left your footprints, you won't be carried away. The land may be barren or muddy, and what remains on it is the crystallization of your blood and sweat. If you regard them as treasures, you will understand that your goals are farther away. How to treat all this hard-won?
As long as you turn around gently, you will get the motivation to rise, and you will find your own moist breath. When you summon up the courage to look back, you will find that the road to growth may be full of thorns, which is the call for your survival. You have them, so they are your inexhaustible strength.
To grow, you need to stop and look back.
Perhaps the strangeness of that year has been buried in the dark gray dust, perhaps the ripples of missing have been calmed down. You go to find them, use your immature eyes when you grow up, and dig for hope in ignorance. You turn over the old dust with weak hands, trying to save your humble moan. In this process, your eyes are sharp, your hands are powerful, you mature by chewing yourself repeatedly, and you draw endless thoughts from your memories. Maybe youth flies, maybe childhood flies. You can resist the thin air like the top of Mount Tai from the clouds and find light in the turbidity of heaven and earth. When you turn your head, there should be a magnificent opportunity behind you.
When you are growing up, please stop and look back. What you will see is the smile of that kind person and the wind blowing in that bamboo forest.
Growth needs setbacks.
Growing up is like walking on a steep mountain road. Although the process is very tiring, I still feel very interesting in retrospect. You can not only enjoy the surrounding scenery, but also taste the hard process. It's like taking a sip of sweet spring, and your mouth is full of fragrance.
Growth is not easy, growth is not simple, you must learn to grow, growth is a chewing process, which needs to be digested by setbacks.
What is a setback? Frustration is like a big stone in the middle of the road. You have to move it to move forward unimpeded. A person's life should not be ordinary. This ordinary does not mean life, but a life without setbacks. If there is not even a stone to kick and play along the way, are you still interested in going on?
I don't want to be a person who stays away from dust all my life, nor do I want to be a person who will live forever. I think this is my ideal life by inserting an interesting or thrilling segment in an appropriate journey, so that people can learn to grow up and become strong in their growth. Ordinary and extraordinary.
How can you learn to stand up if you don't learn to fall? Frustration is a key. If you can't get the key to open the door to your heart, how can you enter the picturesque ideal?
What is growth?
Growth is knowledge learned after setbacks, and growth comes at a price. After that, although you have experienced vicissitudes, there is always a trace of comfort on your face.
Life is precious, life is necessary and survival is independent. Imagine a wild horse being tamed by you. What is there to be afraid of? Growth needs setbacks, and life needs growth. This link is always in the process of setbacks. Goethe said, "Who is the Dance Academy will accomplish nothing; Whoever does not dominate himself will always be a slave. " "Life is full of hope, and the previous route was created by me. "
Come on, lead to the other side of success!
Growth requires happiness.
Growth is a process. It is a process from ignorance to maturity. There are many kinds of happiness, such as self-entertainment, never tired of it, never tired of it ..., and sometimes it is extremely sad. These are crystal drops in the long river of happiness.
How did Albert Einstein spend his later years? In the last days of his life, he always told jokes to his parrot and often pretended to be sick to avoid visiting reporters. This kind of fun is to entertain yourself.
I have heard a story: in a fish market, it is not only full of pungent fishy smell, but also full of laughter, which is the joy of forgetting the pain of labor. They have turned their lives into objects of enjoyment, throwing fish around like baseball, and everyone is like a cooperative baseball player, shouting "London five cod". They have regarded life as art, and their skills of throwing fish are comparable to those of circus performers. This sweet life is to enjoy yourself.
Zhang Xiaofeng said: "At the climax of life, enjoy him;" Endure him in the ebb and flow of life. Enjoying life is to make yourself feel lucky and happy; Because putting up with life is to let yourself know tenacity. "People who enjoy life find pleasure in life.
Grasso once said: "Laughter is a sedative without side effects."
Happiness is not necessarily every day. But I know that our hearts must be bright every day. Happiness doesn't necessarily come from watching jokes and encountering interesting things, but I know that we must love life in our hearts in order to find happiness from ordinary days. Joy doesn't have to be expressed, but it must be laughed out, which shocked everyone, but I know that only when I think about it in my mind, even if I smile quietly, even if it is those loving eyes that suddenly overflow my eyes.
Women need happiness, because there is no cosmetics in the world that can make you more beautiful than happiness; Men need happiness, because there is no fitness equipment in the world that can make you stronger than happiness; Old people need happiness, because nothing in the world can rejuvenate you more than happiness; Children need happiness, because there is no learning method that can make you smarter than happiness.
Growth needs happiness, because happiness can make growth richer and healthier.
Therefore, growth needs happiness.
Growth requires pressure.
Growth is a necessary journey for everyone on the road of life.
On the African prairie, every morning, the first thing the sheep thinks when they open their eyes is, "I must run faster than the fastest lion." Otherwise, I will be eaten by a lion. At the same time, the lion woke up from his sleep and the first thought that flashed through his mind was, "I must run faster than the slowest sheep." "Otherwise I will starve to death." So, almost at the same time, the sheep and the lion jumped up and ran towards the sunrise. Under the pressure of survival, sheep became "runners" on the grassland, and lions became "hunters" on the grassland.
In life, although we don't have the survival pressure like sheep and lions. But the pressure of study and work still exists. It is this pressure that makes us successful and makes us progress. Without these pressures, what our life would be like is unpredictable. )
Stress will indeed bring us a lot of pain, and even run away from home regardless of family and betray our parents. However, under pressure, we have tasted the ups and downs of life, so that we can get physical exercise, maturity and enlightenment in our growth.
In the future growth process, no matter how much pressure we encounter, we only need to know that we have the courage to try this kind of pressure, and we can gain new experiences and exercises.
Growing pressure will make us take the first step to success;
The increasing pressure will make us overcome more difficulties in our later life (study);
Increasing pressure will give us a new starting point.
Comments: The author talked about some of his own ideas around "pressure". The example of "sheep and lion" at the beginning is vivid and the expression of the theme is also very appropriate. In the second half of the article, I contact my own growth process and come to the conclusion that "growth also needs pressure", but it is best to give a few examples, otherwise the article will be slightly empty and the underlined sentences will be well written. Keep trying!
Growth requires pressure.
A grass seed unfortunately fell into a gap and was tightly pressed by a boulder. This is where it shouldn't be. It is isolated from the sun. There is only a little mud in the crack. When it rains, the rain won't spill here. Occasionally, a few drops of water will seep down from the stone surface. However, in the face of this harsh environment, Xiaocaozi never gave up. It persists in the belief of blooming its own green all its life and lives tenaciously. When sunlight occasionally reflects here, it stretches to the extreme; When the rain falls, it sucks heartily. So I survived tenaciously. Finally, from a bud to a green grass, the color is greener and more lovely than the usual grass. In this way, the grass finally emerged from under the boulder, raised its noble head and realized its dream.
Here, I want to ask you a question: What makes the grass have such perseverance? There are many answers, but the most important one is stress. It is the external pressure that makes the grass long for sunshine and rain, so it has to survive tenaciously and live more confidently and persistently.
So, do we really need pressure? The answer is yes. Any living thing on the earth, whether it is an antelope on the African grassland or a shark in the ocean, needs external pressure to stimulate itself. Antelopes must run faster than other wild animals on the grassland to avoid being eaten, but they are stronger in the process of running; Sharks in the ocean are called "the bane of marine life" because they think that if they don't swim faster than other fish, they won't eat food and will starve to death; It is this external pressure that makes all kinds of creatures brave and powerful. Stress can inspire people's fighting spirit and make them surpass themselves and succeed. Then these poor children are not discouraged in the face of the double pressure of family embarrassment and inner depression. They work hard, and many people have made achievements.
In the student stage, the pressure from teachers and parents almost made us breathless, but why didn't we think that this might be another sign that teachers and parents care about us? Therefore, when we feel this kind of pressure, we should not shrink back because of our efforts, let alone resist because of boredom, but strive to show our strength and live a better life under this kind of pressure.
Growth needs love.
Some people say that growth needs space; Some people say that growth requires happiness; It is also said that growth needs tolerance; Some people even say that growth requires success. However, I always believe that what I need to grow up is more love, the love of relatives, the love of teachers and the love of classmates. ...
The love of relatives
I'm sick, very ill, so I have to ask for leave to go to the hospital for an intravenous drip. Lying in a hospital bed, I feel very annoyed, confused and helpless. I blame God for making me sick at this time. Other students can listen to the teacher in the classroom, but I can only moan in pain in the hospital. But just then, ...
"Daughter, get up and take medicine. How do you feel? Are you feeling better? Still so uncomfortable? " Mother asked kindly.
"Granddaughter, what do you want to eat? Grandma will buy your business back," Grandma said with concern.
"You should get better soon ..." Dad also told me.
Suddenly, the love between relatives surrounded me, and all the helplessness and complaints disappeared instantly, leaving behind love, the eternal love of relatives.
Teacher's love
After the monthly exam, I was very sad, because I didn't do well in the Chinese exam, which delayed the total score and disappointed the teacher, so the class teacher talked to me. I thought I would be scolded by the teacher, but ...
"Tell me about the reason why you didn't do well in this exam. I can see that you are always under a lot of pressure. Talk to the teacher. Maybe the teacher can help you ... "The teacher said kindly to me.
At this point, my heart seems to have found hope from disappointment. I really want to tell my teacher my troubles, and I really want to be close friends with my teacher. What reassured me was the teacher's love.
The love of classmates
The 800-meter exam is over, and it's almost over. Although I did well in the exam, I was dizzy, sick and weak, lying on the table. At this moment ...
"Are you okay? Do you care? "
"Would it be better if I helped you go?"
"Do you need water? I'll get it for you. "
Suddenly, all the fatigue and discomfort seemed to disappear. What surrounds me is the concern and love of my classmates.
These are the love I got on the road of growing up, and they are also the love I need. It is these loves that make me happy, strong and happy. ...
Stand by and watch me
I remember when I was a child, my family was very poor, and a family of seven lived on my father's meager salary. But the optimistic father was not overwhelmed by the poverty in life and the pressure at work. In my impression, my father always wears a bright smile, wears a funny hat on his bald head and holds an English cane in his hand. He told us that he looked very young and had a Yulong pipe in his mouth that he could never leave. It is said that this pipe is a family heirloom handed down from the Song Dynasty. My father liked it very much and once told me that even if he was poor enough to beg, he would not sell it.
Every time my father comes off work, he will bring some small gifts to our five children. When he entered the house, he smiled and threw his briefcase to his mother, gave us a loud whistle and said, "Come on, children, guess what I brought you today." We rushed to our father screaming for presents. Father seems to like watching us in a hurry and teasing us with great interest. At this time, we will invariably trip my father to the ground, and then run to the back of the house with a "victory product" to share, making my father laugh out of breath. Therefore, waiting for dad to get off work every day is the greatest pleasure of our childhood.
I am the eldest son. My father is stricter with me than my younger brothers and sisters, but he never scolds me. Even if I mess up his papers sometimes, he just smiles and says something to me. I didn't see my father's smile until his company was going to lay off a large number of employees, his father was in danger of being fired and his family was too poor to open the pot.
In order to borrow money, my father ran back and forth and looked at his white hair when he was 8 years old. Oh, he was so distressed that he decided to skip class and work as a child laborer in the factory. Every day I go to school with my schoolbag on my back as usual, and come back dirty and tired at night. When I came home happily with my first month's salary, I found my father sitting in a chair with a livid face, and my mother and younger siblings looked at me in horror. Father came over and asked, "Tell me, where did you go today?" I suddenly felt bad, and then I saw a letter from school on my desk. I'm thinking about whether I should tell my father. Bang, I was dizzy, my eyes were full of Venus, and my nose was bleeding in an instant. "God, what have you done!" Mother ran to me and wiped my nose with her sleeve. My father shouted at me, "Go away, go far away, we don't want to be the black sheep." I worked hard to pay for your school, hoping you could give me a break, but you skipped school and went crazy. You ... you shouted that I was disappointed. " A burst of injustice welled up in my heart, and I cried, "I didn't go out crazy, nor was I the black sheep." I love you and can't bear to see you fall, so I go out to work to help you maintain this family. " Here you are. This is my first month's salary. "I threw money on the ground and coins floated around the room. My father stood there for a while and walked slowly towards me. Fear made me flinch. Suddenly he hugged me and said hoarsely. " Sorry, sorry, my son. This is my fault. I shouldn't have hit you without asking. "Looking at my father's tears, I was flustered. ...
Three years later, I finally came to the university with the first total score. That day, my father cried with the admission notice. He cried and laughed, ran to his neighbor's house like crazy, and said proudly, "Look, my son has been admitted to college." Neighbors congratulated him. I saw a long-lost smile on my father's face.
It's the day of school in a blink of an eye, but the tuition problem that comes with it is bothering us. On this day, my father braved the light rain and came back from outside. He patted the beads on his body, went over and took out a pack of things from his arms. I opened it and found a pile of money, ***200 yuan. I was shocked, because at that time, 200 yuan was already a big number. "Where did you get so much money?" I asked. Father's face changed, and he said in a panic, "This ... this is nothing to you. Study hard at college and don't embarrass your father. " I took the money in the chaos. I was suddenly surprised and shouted, "Dad, where's your pipe?" It turns out that my father's beloved heirloom, the precious Yulong pipe left by my great grandfather, is not in his hands at the moment. My father smiled awkwardly, patted me on the shoulder and said, "Son, what is a small pipe?" I have nothing to answer, tears have already filled my eyes. After graduating from college, I found a small job in a company. 10 years later, he was promoted to the general manager of this company, and his paternal line was already in his twilight years. On my father's eightieth birthday, I hurried home in the rain, and I heard my father's hearty laughter without entering the door. I pushed open the familiar door; "Aha, you are late for my birthday. Come on, let's drink three cups. " Father shouted happily. I went over to hug my father and whispered in his ear. "Happy birthday!" Say that finish, I handed the gift wrapped in colored paper. "What surprises did you give me this year?" "Open it and have a look!" My father glared at me and smiled and said, "You only know the difference." He opened the colored paper and then slowly opened the box. I looked at my father excitedly, only to see his hands shaking and his eyes filled with tears. Mother cast a curious glance: "God, that's impossible. Is this not your Yulong pipe? " My father looked up at me with tears in his eyes. I said, "I've been looking for this pipe for five years, and I just found it this year. Now I give it back to you and tell you that I love you, father; Thank you for everything you have done for me. " My father didn't say anything, but held me for a long time.
Now, my father has passed away, and the pipe has returned to my hands and walked with me.
Family, an eternal theme. It is this kind of affection that blood is thicker than water that accompanied us through every unforgettable day and wrote our colorful life. Through the window of history, I peep, I see my family, and I see stories about the past, the present and the future. More than a hundred years ago, thunderstorms, heavy rains and strong winds rushed to the boat carrying children. The children and the mother on the shore cried heartbreakingly, but to no avail. In this way, the separation of flesh and blood, the wind whistling. It looked at this scene with a smile and laughed at the thin mother who could not change the fate of separation of flesh and blood. I not only saw the tragedy of this scene in the past 100 years, but also saw the yearning of people living in different parts of the world in the days of separation of flesh and blood. Time flies, but thousands of miles away, there are also constant thoughts about mother and son. Yes, family ties can be diluted by distance and time! During the long night, fishing boats lit up their fishing lights. Through this slight fire, the son seemed to see the thin figure of his mother staring with tears. "Mom", my great mother, I must come back to you! "Hope" convinced his son that the darkness would be dispelled by the bright sunshine one day. Finally, on a sunny morning, a small fishing boat sailed into the harbor where he was born. Mother and son are crying and excited. At this time, the window of history watched quietly, proud of it, for mother and son. It remembers the joy and tears of that moment. However, I found that under this joy, my mother still hides a trace of depression. It turns out that the mother has another son, whose name is Taiwan Province Province. Although Taiwan Province Province and his mother are just separated by a gorge, they failed to embrace their mother. His eyes are full of helplessness. In a dying tree near the window of history, a bird with broken wings cried, "Mom, I want to go home ..." Everything I heard was heartbroken. Ah, I see it. The mother of the injured bird flew to save her baby. Mother bird is tired of flying to find birds, but at the moment she doesn't stop, but is busy healing birds and finding food for them. Finally, the bird's injury was completely healed, and she flew in the air with her mother, looking around: the old dead tree grew new buds under the moisture of rain. The wind is clear, the clouds are quiet, the sky is blue and the grass is green. Because of family, the world becomes wonderful; Because affection is bound to be a reunion of mother and son. Love my son deeply, eager to feed back (Tangshan Harbor Middle School is quiet). There is true love, there is true love. In deep feelings, the most important thing to remember is the affection that blood is thicker than water. The true love of blood is thicker than water is accompanied by the happy growth of children, and the feedback of blood is thicker than water, so that the elderly in Huasijia can spend their old age safely. Everyone said that the father loves mountains, the mother's love is like water, the mother's love is gentle and sincere, the father loves mountains and rivers, and the mountains and rivers set each other off, playing a cheerful love song. In a report, a story was truly recorded. In an earthquake, houses collapsed sharply, causing serious casualties to residents here. In the rescue of the rescue team, I overheard the baby crying, but found in the ruins that the young couple were carrying heavy objects with their own bodies, while the child among them was safe and sound, and a pair of parents made a love choice between life and death. Faced with such a choice, I think parents all over the world will choose surprisingly consistently, just because it is their child, and blood is thicker than water. Landscape breeds civilization. We should protect the landscape environment. So what should we do about maternal love and fatherly love that is deeper than water and higher than mountains? A 65-year-old mother unfortunately suffered from uremia and was ill in bed. As a son, he witnessed his elderly mother groaning in the hospital bed. At the moment when his mother's eyes collided with his own, he was heartbroken and decided to donate a kidney to his mother. "But how much love there is in an inch of grass, I got three rays of spring." What day did Shi Guo answer with action? He used love to make his mother's fragile body rock solid, and he used sincerity to give the greatest comfort to all mothers in the world. Love our children deeply, care for them, it is deep love that brings the warmth of the family, and it is sincere action that writes about social harmony. Looking at the family is like a lamp, which quietly illuminates every corner of our lives, while the family is like the wind, which blows away the snowflakes and brings infinite spring. This is the family, so unpretentious, this is the family, so unforgettable. Affection, flowers, fragrance overflowing, soaking people's hearts and spleen; Family, crystal dew, beautiful and pure, lovable; Family, bright moon