Reflections on the lifelong growth of Fan Deng's reading

First of all, I would like to thank Wang Aiping, a high-energy and interesting postdoctoral fellow, who introduced this book to me and made me read it three times when I felt "inferior". I replied: there must be feedback after reading it.

In fact, I have listened to it at least seven or eight times, and I feel different every time.

I always thought I was a person with growing thinking, but after listening to it, I found that this is not the case! I am a person with fixed thinking in growing up thinking. Although curious, I want to learn everything. As a result, I didn't learn anything well

I'm too aware of my problems and I'm too eager to learn! Pay too much attention to me in the eyes of others! Therefore, I constantly want to learn this and that to improve myself. As a result, I was busy all day and only learned a little. In the eyes of people in my life and work circles, I may be considered diligent, self-disciplined, studious and excellent, but I have always been particularly anxious. The most important thing is that there is no goal, and there has been no intersection of three circles.

I shared Insist on Stupidity in the reading camp that day, but I just finished reading it now, but I immediately contacted myself: Although I like practicing calligraphy for six or seven years, I am famous in my work, and because of my work, I often have friends asking me for help to write or correct articles, but I can only do it, which is ok in the eyes of others. Inexplicably, because I tried it, I started the "Registered Safety Engineer" exam again, although I found fun in my study. But I always feel that there is no breakthrough in all aspects, and I want to break the game, learn and really improve. There are many resources, but I haven't really settled down to think about the next step, and I have no plan at all.

When Fan Deng talked about children's thinking, I thought of my own limitations, which led to children's stubbornness and unwillingness to communicate. Like me, she would rather write than say. Even myself, I know that 60 seconds of training is very important, that is, I have never acted, and I would rather type on the keyboard than use voice.

For lifelong growth, maybe I'm just practicing lifelong learning, and I haven't grown much. It's time to think about your future!

Thank you, Ai Ping, for letting me reflect. I know I need restraint and action more! I will refuel!