When a person reaches old age, retires, and has nothing to do at home, if there is only one person left to live, it is inevitable that he will want to find a partner to spend the rest of his life with.
Some people think that it is better to find a wife and live together together without having to obtain a certificate to remarry. After all, there will be many disputes after obtaining a certificate and remarriage, the dissatisfaction of the children, plus they are both old and have experienced time. , may not necessarily work well with each other.
Everyone hopes that the wife they find can be in love with them and spend the lonely and lonely days in their later years hand in hand.
When a person reaches old age and his children get married and leave him, he no longer has to fight for survival. The rest of his life is spent enjoying life. Being able to meet like-minded companions and live together together is really a blessing for the elderly in their later years.
Aunt Qin, a 62-year-old in the hospital, said that she owns a house and a pension. She has been partnering with 65-year-old Zhang for three years. Even though she was tricked by him, there is still true love. She takes care of three meals a day very well and often takes her out to play.
I am 62 years old and retired from a public institution. I have a three-bedroom apartment of 120 square meters and a mobility scooter. I have a monthly pension of more than 5,000. My only daughter is married and has children in the south. My wife Been gone for 7 years.
In the days after my wife left, I felt that my life was gloomy. I couldn’t cook, clean up, or even operate the simplest washing machine. My wife spoils me so much that I "can't take care of myself", this is what my daughter said about me.
During those extremely depressed days, my good sisters took me to the Square Tai Chi Team to learn Tai Chi. Perhaps in the ethereal Zen music and the infinite realm of Tai Chi, my heart slowly recovered.
Retired at home and losing the love of her life for more than 30 years, a woman’s heart feels so haggard. After three years of Tai Chi practice, I slowly came out of it.
I met Lao Zhang in the Tai Chi team, who was 3 years older than me. I didn’t know that he also had no wife. Until 3 years ago, my good friend asked me how was Lao Zhang? I was confused at that time. Does what he does have to do with me?
My friend said, I think you two are a good match. He doesn’t have a wife. You two live together, right? Is it good?
I thought for a long time before agreeing to spend some time with Lao Zhang. At that time, Lao Zhang would often bring me some snacks he made, or stewed ribs or something.
I felt it was really to my liking. Once, I invited Lao Zhang to my place for tea. Lao Zhang didn’t drink much tea, but he helped me clean the kitchen, toilet, and windows. Very clean.
I really didn’t expect that Lao Zhang was as attentive as my wife and could also say some humorous words, which was very helpful to me. We established a relationship very quickly.
Lao Zhang has a son who has just been married for a few years. His grandson is taken care of by his grandmother. Lao Zhang will give them some financial support every month.
When I told Lao Zhang about living together in a partnership, Lao Zhang was afraid that I would be wronged, so he first explained his financial situation. He said that his monthly pension is more than 5,000 yuan, his house is not big, and his savings are only more than 100,000 yuan. He will give his son more than 2,000 yuan every month, saying it is for his grandson, but actually he wants to help his son reduce the loan pressure.
I feel that I have a house, money and a car, and I don’t need to take care of my daughter. We both have the same interests and hobbies. Lao Zhang seems to be the embodiment of my wife. I think it is understandable that he treats his son like this. Yes, who doesn’t want their children to live a better life?
I told Lao Zhang that we live in the AA system. You cook delicious food and take care of the housework. I will be responsible for growing flowers at home, cleaning and so on. We can spend the rest of our time on our own. That's it.
My house is close to the square and park, and there are supermarkets and hospitals nearby. I asked Lao Zhang to move to my place, so that we can go boxing and walking together.
Later, my good sisters said that I was plotted by Lao Zhang. I don’t think it was a plot. At least Lao Zhang took good care of me every day. There is still true love between us. I Can feel it.
My good sisters said that your monthly living expenses of 3,000 yuan cannot be spent at all, and Lao Zhang has rented out his own house, so there will be some rent. Living there will not even cost you rent. If you pay, you will be given the AA system for living expenses. Isn’t this a conspiracy?
Speaking from the bottom of my heart, I really don’t think Lao Zhang is deliberately taking advantage of me. He will get up earlier than me every morning to make porridge. We will have some breakfast together and go for morning exercises. Let’s go shopping together and go back.
He cooks and washes vegetables in the kitchen, and also cleans up the house. I am just responsible for taking care of myself. Usually I do skin care, lie on the sofa, listen to Kunqu Opera, and apply facial masks.
When Lao Zhang prepares the food, the care here will be done. After we finished eating, Lao Zhang cleaned up. I cleaned the house, and then we went back to the house. I surfed the Internet, and he practiced calligraphy.
In the afternoon we drank tea together and drove to the botanical garden or ecological garden for a walk. When we came back, Lao Zhang cooked dinner and we went downstairs for a walk together. I feel that Lao Zhang takes good care of me, unlike others who say that he does nothing with his wife.
Some sisters said that I paid a nanny to take care of me. I think their idea is wrong. Even in ordinary couples, some people do more and some do less. As long as two people have each other in their hearts. , having affection and love for each other is a good life.
Although many sisters don’t understand why I am willing to be plotted by Lao Zhang, in fact, it is because they do not understand the essence of life. They care about everything so much and take it seriously. What’s the point of it?
What men and women want is peaceful feelings for each other. As long as there is affection and love, how much money is enough? What's more, two old people who have gone through the dust of the years want to give more support to their children. As long as there is someone who doesn't care, they can live a good life.
When people reach old age, they can truly live together as partners because they have experienced a fateful encounter. You don’t need to care about what others say. You should ask more about your true feelings in your heart. Just feel happy. .
In life, many people think that living with a partner is actually a companionship without emotions. Only with the company of each other will we become happier and happier.
If you are with a partner, you just have a companion, and this companion is always scheming with you, which is not enough to worry about all day long. It is better to live your own life alone.
Since you have chosen to live together as a partner, you must open your heart to each other, sincerely explain your situation to each other, and give sincerely and sincerely. I think everyone’s heart is made of flesh and everyone will have feelings. .
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About the author: A retired woman with a luxurious Zen heart who loves life. She practices Tai Chi with her left hand and writes with her right hand to enjoy the rest of her life happily!