I want my son to learn calligraphy, but he is not interested. How can I cultivate his interest?

Your idea is very good! Now is the information age, because computers are easy to use, people write less and less. China people's writing ability is getting worse and worse. But writing is more than just writing well. He always has a "self-cultivation" effect. Therefore, the country is now beginning to set up calligraphy classes in primary and secondary schools.

People don't like to do too many things, especially when they are young. Because of immaturity, I basically do things by feeling. But if you want a person to change. We should find some ways and make some efforts.

With my experience in learning calligraphy, you might as well make your son interested in China culture first. Then go to calligraphy. For example, young people nowadays generally like Jay Chou's songs. Many of Jay Chou's lyrics, such as Preface to Lanting Collection, Blue and White Porcelain and Direct Answer, are full of Chinese flavor. These are all written by Fang Gang. Fang Zhouzi has a deep study of China culture, especially the poems of Tang and Song Dynasties. He once wrote a simple rhyme poem. Therefore, you might as well guide your son from here. You said, don't you like Jay Chou's songs? Do you know the meaning of these lyrics? Do you know the story behind Preface to Lanting Collection? ..... so tell your son a story. Let him read some books in this field, guide him and make him think: think about why people call Wang Xizhi's Preface to the Lanting Pavilion "the best running book in the world". In this way, the temperature is almost the same, which naturally leads to calligraphy.

Of course, if you don't know this yourself, you have to do your calligraphy homework first. Be patient when you speak. Don't be an adult's shelf, talk about time and occasion. Generally, children don't like to listen to their parents' nagging on any occasion.

For example, celebrate his birthday one day, when he is very happy, when he thanks his parents for celebrating his birthday. We can start with the songs he is interested in. At this time, there is generally no resentment.

Alas, it is not easy to raise a child. Since I have my own children, I have a deeper understanding of the sentence "If you are poor, you will think about change". So, you have to be patient. If you want to teach children well, you must first understand their preferences. If you don't know them, you won't have the same topic. If there is no topic, what else can we communicate?

For children, you can't just follow them, and you can't do nothing. It is necessary to "intervene" when some children are not right. This is the responsibility of parents. Unlike in foreign countries, they can simply "respect their children and scold them a little" and report that they are "abused" by their parents. In fact, this is a very dogmatic "respect." "We come from China, China has the characteristics of China, and China's disciples have rules. Many people don't understand and always think that foreign family education is good. In fact, their understanding is superficial and superficial.

A little talkative. Forgive me.