Sun yat-sen and Tan are good friends. For a time, Sun Yat-sen was very down and out. Thanks to his help, Sun Yat-sen has always been grateful to him. Knowing that Tan's wife has been dead for many years, Sun Yat-sen is going to marry his sister-in-law. This matter has also been supported by the elders of the Song family. Usually, Song Meiling is a yellow flower girl. Marrying Tan and raising children is also a great beauty! But Tan didn't agree. Why is this? Personally, I think there are two reasons:
First, because Tan and his wife have deep feelings. His wife is a virtuous and kind woman. Even when he is seriously ill, he always chooses to hide it so as not to affect Tan's work. It is precisely because of his wife's silent efforts behind his back to keep the family in good order that Tan was able to devote herself to her work. Tan owes all his achievements in part to his wife. Before his death, his wife hoped that he would not have a second wife in the future and seriously cultivate his children. He kept his promise, so he refused to marry Song Meiling.
The second is not to let your children be wronged. Tan and his wife have a son and three daughters. The children need a loving home, and he is worried that if his second wife doesn't get along well with the children after his second marriage. On the contrary, it has a negative impact on children's growth. Not everyone can be a qualified stepmother. If you are eager to get a wife, it will be counterproductive and will inevitably lead to more family conflicts. From the above, he is not only a good father, but also a good husband with deep feelings, which is really admirable.