When the boss was born, he was taken away by his in-laws because he was indecisive, so a local tyrant's name with a sense of time was born-Niu Niu! So, in any case, I have to name the second child myself. Soon after pregnancy, I was thinking about how to give my baby an unforgettable, literary or fresh nickname (the name is too brain-consuming).
However, when books are used, I am not so annoying. Pregnancy, which is prone to drowsiness and fatigue, always provides me with a good reason to delay thinking about names.
When I was seven or eight months pregnant, the restless molecule named began to take root in my heart like a seed, which made me have to think of it from time to time, trying to get rid of it without forgetting it.
At this time, I naturally thought of going online to find inspiration. From the baby tree to the little red book, there are too many beautiful names, which dazzles me for a time.
I don't know if the second child is pig's or mouse's. It is said that every animal has a favorite root and radical. Similarly, inappropriate radicals will collide, which is taboo. Suddenly I felt that naming was a particularly huge project, so the idea of "waiting until birth" stirred in my heart.
I was giving birth when I was wandering around, and I even forgot about it for a while. After all, it's just a nickname.
The child's father is busy every day, so we can't count on him. Male Chu ci, female book of songs. Towards this idea, regardless of the fatigue and burnout during pregnancy, I took a dictionary and translation, read the poem from beginning to end, took out the posture of the college entrance examination and fought all night.
A month later, I finally sorted out ten names that I was very satisfied with, meaning full. At that time, I felt that everyone was shining with maternal love. For babies, I feel that my knowledge base is very rich.
When I presented my name to the father of my child like a treasure and asked him to take part in the competition, he took out the posture that the emperor chose the princess:
"This is not deep, I don't like it."
"This is too rigid and not suitable for female babies."
"This is not easy to read."
He rejected several names.
I endured my anger and squeezed laughter through my teeth. "oh? Is it? Then take one and listen! "
"You are not a literary youth? You are still teaching Chinese. Why bother others for this? "
The child's father is really a pig teammate on the road of partnership, and a nameless fire is strung from the soles of his feet! Is the baby mine alone? You just don't want to pay attention to your children!
Well, I don't want a name either.
Seeing that the expected date of delivery is coming, the name has not yet been settled. As an old mother, I am naturally extremely anxious, afraid that my in-laws will put out the words "advanced" such as "Little Dragon" and "Little Phoenix" and let me choose between them.
One day, my sister moved out a bunch of snacks and sat at the door to show off to other children. No matter how I teach her to share good things with others, she is as stingy as a rooster, which makes me doubt her own. Sister, don't do this, or you'll be sick to death. Suddenly, a name popped up in my mind, which is my beautiful yearning and expectation for the second child. The name "Lolo" has taken root, and the boss is very satisfied with the name "Sister"!
It is hard to get a nickname, and it is even harder to get a name! The birth certificate must be completed within two weeks after the birth of the child. As soon as I left the hospital, I began to ponder, dug up the book "Names of People" I bought a few years ago, and took out the posture of taking the postgraduate entrance examination. The purpose of this book is to pay attention to five-grid mathematics and three-talent configuration. I have a limited IQ. I have studied for a few days and touched the fur. To put it bluntly, I want to match my name according to my child's date of birth and surname strokes. At the thought of this time-consuming and laborious mental work, I simply delete the complicated ones and don't bother myself.
We name names because we want them to be good in sound, form and meaning. Why should we pay attention to things that are slightly superstitious? Chinese characters are humanistic symbols for thousands of years, which have strong information induction. Good names come to mind as soon as you hear them, which can give people beautiful hints and often create unexpected opportunities in society.
As a new generation of parents, we are also afraid that children's names will be "tacky" and "rustic", because no one knows what the culture will look like in 20 years. If we don't do well, it will probably become a cliche case in a few years. For example, our amazing "Zi Han" and "Zixuan" more than ten years ago, who would have guessed that this would be the name of a rotten street now?
It is best to use the classics of Chinese studies. If not, try to avoid conformity, as long as it is smooth and profound.
Bao Xiao was born a mouse with obvious characteristics, timid, sensitive, alert and insecure. With such "congenital deficiency", we naturally hope that she will be cheerful, lively, brave, decisive and enterprising.
"Details determine success or failure, and personality determines fate." Everyone has his own temperament and personality, including impatience, slowness, quiet, talkative, active and unsociable ... which is hard to change. Changing a person's personality is like pulling a planet out of its original orbit, but we can incorporate this beautiful expectation and desire into our name.
Baby with bean sprouts, I don't know what her personality will be like. Parents always pray and look forward to a good direction!
Just when I followed this clue to conceive, the father of the child made a rigid request that the name must go through sisterhood, that is, the name of the boss can be changed by one word.
I look up the meaning of words in the dictionary; Analyze glyphs and find meaning. Finally, I drew up a few words that I think are not bad. The father of the child either thinks the word is unusual or accuses the voice of being awkward.
To tell the truth, I don't want to use Dabao's words any more, because I don't want to finish it at one go. I am a fake calligraphy lover, and beautiful fonts are as important as meaning.
Make a quick decision, the more difficult it is to choose, the more you can't delay. Two days later, I decided my name was Sicheng.
Thoughtful, the pen is like John. The idiom "Cheng Si Mi Fei" is used in the naming, which comes from the preface to Shi Yaoan's Poems and Fu in Caotang: "However, Cheng Si Mi Fei, in a dangerous place, has been declared flat."
The original meaning refers to thinking deeply, acting decisively and acting cautiously. Since Sister Mouse is timid, it's a little moral to use this name to enhance her courage and determination.
I don't expect a girl to succeed. I just hope that she will always keep a pure and clear heart, have an attitude towards life, be a warm person, feel at ease and live her life in her own way.
I took great pains to my old mother. Two weeks later, this impromptu name was printed on Bao Xiao's birth certificate and will accompany her for the rest of her life.
The naming thing is finally over. I believe that every mother looks at her sleeping baby, whispers the name of ta in her mouth, and sits next to her beloved family, and a picture of a bright future flashes brightly in her heart!