Let children communicate with teachers boldly, and let children learn to handle conflicts by themselves.

The girl's character is a little timid, a little headstrong, at home, a coward outside! Especially in front of teachers, I am obedient, disciplined and afraid of teachers. I did all the feedback and communication with kindergarten teachers. Find a teacher if you can. I don't think it's necessary to trouble the teacher for small things, so I told my daughter that such small things don't need to find a teacher. Teachers are usually very busy at work, so we can solve it ourselves. Until recently, I chatted with my daughter, classmates and mother. Yingying's money was stolen by the children in the class. Yingying knows who stole her money. Yingying confronted her classmates face to face, and the classmate who stole the money admitted it. Yingying later told the teacher. When I was chatting with Yingying's mother, the habitual thinking was that this matter should be said by parents and teachers. Stealing is serious. Yingying's mother said that Yingying should talk to the teacher herself and let Yingying exercise. Suddenly, I realized that it was wrong for me to help my girl all the time, and I had to make a change. When my girl came home, I told her to learn from Yingying. "When you grow up, you should learn to communicate with the teacher. If you have any problems, you should ask the teacher to deal with them. You can't always let your mother communicate with your teacher. Of course, if you don't know how to communicate with your teacher, you can discuss it with your mother first. After discussion, go to the teacher yourself. Be bold, there is nothing to be afraid of. " The girl said, "I saw Yingying talking to the teacher today, and then the teacher criticized the students who stole things in front of the whole class and warned them to announce them in class." I said, "That's right. You see Yingying boldly went to the teacher, and the teacher took care of it. This is the way to deal with older children. There is nothing to worry about. " The girl ran away without a word.

One day, the girl told me that she had changed her deskmate. I asked why. Is the whole group going to change? The girl said, "No, Wen Wen and his mother said that he always disturbed him at the same table in class. Wen Wen's mother asked the teacher to change places." I said to my girl, "I'm not looking for a teacher now. You should learn to communicate with the teacher yourself. Look how great Yingying is. She will learn to communicate with teachers by herself. Baby, you should learn more from Yingying. " A few days later, the girl said angrily to me, "Mom, you need a teacher. I want to change my deskmate.". Doudou is so annoying. He always pours water, getting all the clothes and books around him wet, and often refuses to return my pen. " I said to the girl, "I don't want a teacher. Don't disturb the teacher." The girl said, "Oh, don't bother the teacher with this little thing?" I said, "Don't bother the teacher with trifles. I told you last time, when you grow up, you have to tell the teacher yourself. You should learn from Yingying and speak to the teacher boldly. However, we don't need to talk to the teacher about such trifles for the time being. You can tell Doudou yourself first. After many times of communication, he won't talk to the teacher for you again. " I said to the girl, "Have you communicated with Doudou? Do you want to cover the cup? Did you tell him that people won't like you if you wet other people's clothes and books and don't cover them? You should always remind him that it is wrong to do so. How did he get your pen? " The girl said, "Doug, all he said was, can I borrow your red pen?" He took it away before I promised or nodded. "I told my girl," maybe he always borrows things from others like this. He doesn't know it's wrong, so you should tell him solemnly that you can borrow something from me only with my consent. "My girl said, Oh, I haven't told you to change my deskmate since then, and I haven't asked how to communicate specifically. I believe my daughter has learned to handle it by herself.

A few days ago, the girl told me excitedly: "The teacher said that the next issue of the blackboard newspaper wanted me to publish." I asked the girl what happened. The girl said, "I called the teacher today. I asked the teacher if I could publish the blackboard newspaper. I wrote my words on the blackboard. " I asked, "What did the teacher say?" The girl said: "The teacher said yes, the next issue is blackboard newspaper for me to write." The girl then said excitedly, "Xiaoxi and Doudou also came up with blackboard newspapers." When they saw me looking for a teacher, they also asked the teacher to take out the blackboard newspaper, but the teacher did not give it to them. " I asked, "Why?" The girl said, "Because their handwriting is so ugly, I can't understand the handwriting written by Doudou and Xiaoxi." I smiled and said, "Is it as ugly as your previous handwriting or uglier than you?" The girl said, "It's uglier than my previous handwriting." I asked the girl, "How dare you? Dare to tell the teacher that I want to write a blackboard newspaper. " The girl said, "I learned it from Yingying." I said, "Look, mom and you are right. There is nothing to be afraid of when you take the initiative to find a teacher, and you will get more opportunities. But when you write calligraphy, you should keep practicing, and the words in your homework should be carefully written. You can't scribble like before. Otherwise, even if the teacher promised you, but the writing was ugly, the teacher would not let you write on the blackboard. " The girl said, "Mom, I know. Mom, I still want to be a member of the Commission for Discipline Inspection. " I said, "If you want to be a member of the Commission for Discipline Inspection, you can ask the teacher. You can ask the teacher what the standard of being a disciplinary committee member is, and write down the teacher's standard. You can also ask the teacher what you don't meet the requirements, and tell the teacher that you will try to correct and reach the standard. If you want to be a teacher, you must strive for it. There is no chance if you don't try. " The girl said, "Mom, Xiaowen often talks in class, and the teacher asked her to be a disciplinary committee member." I said, "Teachers have their own reasons for choosing class cadres. One is a very naughty person, and the teacher gives her the opportunity to take the lead in correcting and managing others. " One is a person with good self-discipline. But if the naughty person doesn't do well when she has the chance, the teacher will also dismiss her. If you want to be a teacher, you must strive for it and strive to meet the standards of teachers. I believe the teacher will give the children a chance to work hard. "The girl oh, and ran away. I don't know if she dares to talk to the teacher this time.

I will insist on educating children, let them communicate with teachers boldly, and let them learn to handle conflicts by themselves. I will continue to learn how to educate my children and grow up with them, hoping to cultivate them into an independent, confident, optimistic and correct person.