I can give her some advice on life, but I can't impose the life I want on her. I actually have a lot of regrets. I regret why I didn't learn some talents when I was a child. If I have some talents now, I think my school life should be more exciting. But it's not too late. I can still learn what I want to learn.
If I had a daughter, I would let her learn to dance first. Children are adaptable and smart. If you learn dancing from an early age, you can not only exercise her body, but also improve a person's temperament through dancing. I have a classmate who studied dance since childhood. Her walking style and temperament are different from ours. She is a special lady.
I wanted to learn piano in primary school, but I didn't learn it for various reasons. If I have a daughter, I want her to learn piano, but the premise of this study is that she should be interested in piano. If not, I will let her choose her favorite instrument and learn the same. I don't want her to study well, just like she knows a little about everything, develops in an all-round way and entertains in her spare time.
I have let my daughter speak Mandarin since I was a child. Now studying in Northeast China, I realize the importance of Mandarin. Environment really affects people. It is because when we were at school, we all spoke Sichuan dialect and didn't pay attention to language, so now we find it difficult to speak Mandarin well.
And I have to take the Putonghua certificate next semester, which is quite challenging. If you speak Sichuanese, they will look at you differently, and they will speak Sichuanese and Mandarin. Then many people will be embarrassed and speak Sichuanese. Therefore, I must let my daughter practice Mandarin and broadcast hosting since she was a child, so that no matter where she goes, others can understand her speech, and it will be easier to participate in any program after the broadcast.
But although I am a daughter, I may like Taekwondo. In fact, it is important to learn what talent is up to my daughter. What I can do is to fully support her and give her good encouragement. This is what a mother should do, be her good friend and best friend, and let her know that her mother and she have no purchasing service.