In this article, Mr. Zheng had never eaten steamed bread made by his son until his death. His son is naturally sad, but I understand better that Mr. Zheng's original intention is not to eat steamed bread. He wants his son to learn something from it and understand some life truths. From beginning to end, he didn't care about steamed bread, only cared about his son's living ability, and was not taught by Teacher Zheng, which made people sad.
Teacher Zheng's action not only gave my son a hard memory, but also gave me a great education. Think about myself. Although I have grown up so much, I never do housework at home. What you should have done by yourself is pushed to your parents on the pretext of studying. My dad asked me to take out the garbage again. I often coquetry and refuse to go there. My mother complained about my poor living ability, so I showed my dissatisfaction. It seems natural for them to do things for me. Now in the family, there are parents who take good care of them, so the children have dependence. One reason is the doting of parents, and the other reason is the laziness of parents. Clothes, dishes, chopsticks and white hands never get greasy. It seems to be a common problem for children, but these little princesses and emperors, have you ever thought about it over the years, even when you are away from your parents' hotbeds, when you are going to the society, or when you are worried about not being able to cook and when you are extremely worried about not being able to wash clothes? Wake up, young friends, do it yourself and have plenty of food and clothing. * * * * comrade's phone is also ok. Because we do our own thing well, we can stand on the society. Because we do our own things, we can create our own bright future based on the society where factories have nothing to do.
Yes, everyone living in this world can live independently as long as he has a healthy body. Why should he rely on his parents and others? Rui: If everyone depends on others to live and others give you a bed to sleep, who will live for our society, our country and even our humanity? Doing our own thing well is actually forcing us to cultivate our own living ability. No matter how badly we do it, it's all our own work. After all, we can enjoy the fruits of our labor. In that way, you will feel that life is full of infinite fun. On the contrary, in my own thought dictionary, if there is only the word "rely on", then I am waiting for a tragic death.
Doing your own thing well can also cultivate your will. Things can't be done overnight, and you may have to go through many difficulties and obstacles. At this time, some people will ask others to help them, and some people will persevere. Often the latter has made remarkable achievements because of his perseverance.
We are a new generation that breaks the century, and a beautiful blueprint for the future is waiting for me to paint. We don't need a developed mind and profound knowledge, but we also need a solid back to do it ourselves. We will become the pioneers of the times and the pillars of the motherland.
2. Ask to write an argumentative essay about Zheng Banqiao's godson. Zheng Banqiao, a great painter in the Qing Dynasty with about 450 words and one of the "Eight Eccentrics of Yangzhou", only got a son named Bao Er at the age of 52. He is very strict with his discipline and has never spoiled him. When he was critically ill, he called his son to the bed and asked him to eat the steamed bread made by his son. The father's life is hard to violate, so the son has to reluctantly agree. But he never made steamed bread, asked the chef, and with great effort, he finally made steamed bread and sent it to bed happily. Who knows that his father has passed away. My son knelt by the bed and cried like a crybaby. Suddenly he found a piece of stationery on the coffee table, which read a few lines: "Sweat, eat your own food, do your own thing, rely on the sky, the ground and your ancestors, you are not a hero."
Isn't it a little cruel and excessive for Zheng Banqiao to do so? Not exactly. As Zheng Banqiao said in his letter to his younger brother, "I only gave birth to my son at the age of 52, so there is no reason not to love! But love must be in its own way. " True love is "let nature take its course", while false love is not. Zheng Banqiao's teaching method has given us a profound enlightenment, that is, parents should first teach their children to learn to "do" and master some basic life skills, so that children can learn to stand on their own feet in practice, which is an effective way to cultivate their good character.
3. Zheng Banqiao godson Zheng Banqiao (1693— 1765), a native of Xinghua, Jiangsu Province, was a famous painter and poet in the Qing Dynasty. His calligraphy and painting enjoy a high reputation and are called "three musts". Zheng Banqiao has made great artistic achievements in his life, and his poems pay attention to people's sufferings. The "Banqiao Style" of calligraphy is unprecedented in the history of calligraphy in China. His paintings are often based on orchid bamboo, pine, chrysanthemum and plum, especially orchid bamboo, which is good at ink painting and rarely colored. Although his art of managing printing is not as influential as painting and calligraphy, it is an indispensable concrete form in his painting and calligraphy. Zheng Banqiao's poems, books and paintings are known as "four musts".
Zheng Banqiao lost his mother at the age of 3 and lived in poverty. Before the age of 50, study, teach and sell paintings; In the seventh year of Qianlong (A.D. 1742), he was admitted to Jinshi. In wei county, Shandong Province, Fan County (now Henan Province) as a magistrate 12 years. Diligent in politics, remarkable achievements. He didn't give birth to a son named Bao Xiao until he was 52 years old. He likes Bao Xiao very much. In order to train his son into a useful talent, he attaches great importance to educational methods.
Zheng Banqiao was sent to Wei County as magistrate of a county, leaving Bao Xiao at home to be taken care of by his wife and younger brother Zheng Mo. Zheng Banqiao saw the children of a wealthy family at that time. He was worried that his son would be spoiled, so he was in Shandong, and he wanted his son to be at home. He thinks that giving his son Bao Xiaotuo help to his cousin Zheng Mo will be more spoiled than himself. Therefore, he has been writing poems in Shandong and sending them to Bao Xiao for reading. "After cutting the grain at noon, sweat dripped into the soil. Who knows that the Chinese food on the plate is hard. " "I entered the city yesterday and returned with tears; Luo Weigai is not a silkworm farmer. " "Sell new silk in February and new valley in May; The doctor cured the sore in front of his eyes, but spit out his heart. " "In 998 1 year, the poor man had to put his feet to sleep after being tortured, and mosquitoes and fleas came out." Bao Xiao, under the guidance of his mother, recited these poems over and over again, thus comprehending many philosophies of life.
"A spoiled child is like killing a child", which is the experience and lesson that many people exchange with blood and tears. When Zheng Banqiao heard that Bao Xiao at home often boasted to the children: "My father is a big official outside!" Sometimes he bullies the servant's children. Zheng Banqiao immediately wrote to his younger brother Zheng Mo: "I didn't give birth to my son until I was 52 years old. How can I not love! But love must be in its own way. " There must be a way to love your son. "Going with the flow" is true love, not "going with the flow" is doting, and doting is not true love. Therefore, he asked his younger brother and his family to strictly discipline Bao Xiao, and pay attention to "long and thick feelings, which drove him to be cruel". His younger brother and his family educated their children according to Zheng Banqiao's wishes, and achieved great results. So they wrote a letter to Zheng Banqiao about the child's progress, and said that at this rate, he will be a promising person when he grows up, and he can become a fairy like you. After reading this letter, Zheng Banqiao felt that his brother was too tolerant of Bao Xiao, which was not good for the children. So, I immediately wrote back to my brother Zheng Mo, saying, "We people, holding a book, want to be scholars and officials, how to rob money, build a big house and buy more land." If you start, you will go the wrong way and get worse. It never ends well. "He also said:" It is a trivial matter to be an official if you learn to be excellent. First, be sensible and be a good person. "The good people mentioned here are people with noble moral cultivation and people who are beneficial to society.
When Bao Xiao was 6 years old, Zheng Banqiao took Bao Xiao with him. He personally taught his son to read, asked to recite some poems every day, often told Bao Xiao about the dangers of eating and dressing, and asked him to take part in housework as much as possible. Learn to wash dishes, and be sure to clean them. When Bao Xiao 12 years old, he told his son to carry water in a small bucket, which should be filled with water whether in hot weather or cold weather. Thanks to his father's example, Bao Xiao has made rapid progress. At that time, the famine in wei county was very serious. Zheng Banqiao has been very poor, and there is no grain at home. One day, Bao Xiao cried and said, "Mom, I'm hungry!" Mother took a steamed bread made of corn flour and stuffed it in Bao Xiao's hand, saying, "Your father saved it at noon." Take it and eat it quickly! ""Bao Xiao skipped to the door and ate steamed corn-bread happily. At this time, a barefoot girl stood by and watched him eat. Bao Xiao found the little girl who looked at him with hungry eyes, and immediately gave her half of the steamed corn bread in her hand. Zheng Banqiao was very happy when he learned about it. He said to Bao Xiao, "Son, you did the right thing. Dad really likes you! "
Zheng Banqiao is also very concerned about her daughter. Under his influence and edification, my daughter has also reached a considerable level in poetry and painting. Seeing that my daughter is getting married, I haven't found a suitable object yet. He took the initiative to choose an object for his daughter, contrary to the tradition of big marriage, and personally sent his daughter to the man's house to make a few side dishes to celebrate. When he wanted to return, he told his daughter, "This is your home. You can live here with peace of mind!" " In order to express his congratulations on his daughter's marriage, he specially drew a picture as her dowry. In this painting, he wrote a poem: "The official has an empty left pocket and a cold sleeve, and talks about selling paintings to help the DPRK eat;" I am most ashamed of Wu Yin's light makeup and give you some orchids in the spring breeze. "
Zheng Banqiao attaches great importance to children's self-reliance education. Before he died, he asked his son to make some steamed buns and bring them to bed. When Bao Xiao took the steamed bread to the bed, he nodded at ease, then closed his eyes and died. His last words to his son before he died were: "Sweat yourself, eat your own food, do your own things, and it is not a hero to rely on heaven, people and ancestors." This last sentence is an exhortation to children and a summary and generalization of one's own educational experience.
4. Zheng Banqiao's feelings about Aiko's composition Today, when I was reading a book, I read an article entitled "Zheng Banqiao Aiko". This article has great enlightenment to me. Let me tell you something about it!
The article writes that Zheng Banqiao got a son at the age of 52, and his son was raised by his younger brother at the age of 6. My younger brother dotes on Bao Xiao very much, but Zheng Banqiao is not satisfied with Bao Xiao's performance at all, so he wrote a letter to his younger brother, telling him that teaching is more important than nurturing, so that his younger brother can strictly discipline Bao Xiao.
On his deathbed, Zheng Banqiao offered to eat steamed bread made by his son. When my son delivered the steamed bread, my father had already passed away. The son's father-in-law left him a note that read: "Sweat, eat your own food, do your own thing, and rely on your ancestors, you are not a hero." He taught his son a lesson of self-reliance.
Before, I didn't do well at all. I always depend on my family for everything. After reading this article, I want to do my own thing well and don't rely on others. I want to be an independent child from now on, and don't depend on others for everything. Parents should strictly discipline their children and don't spoil them, so as to love them.
5. Enlightenment of Zheng Banqiao education to modern people.
What you do, as long as you carefully observe, you can get interest outside of things!
This is what I wrote. I don't know if it's right or wrong. It should be like this!
Enlightenment from the dying godson
As a scholar of Kangxi, a juren of Yongzheng and a scholar of Qianlong, Zheng Banqiao is honest and upright. When her daughter got married and had no money to buy a dowry, she replaced it with a photo of Zhu Lan and wrote a poem on it:
Officials no longer say that they sell paintings to help North Korea eat. The most shameful thing is that Wu Yin's poor money gave me some orchids and let me die in the spring breeze.
Zheng Xie (1693— 1765), a native of Xinghua, Jiangsu Province, was a famous painter and writer in the Qing Dynasty.
Zheng Banqiao had a son in his later years. Naturally, he loves his son very much, but he never spoils him. He doesn't want to leave too much money for his son. What he is worried about is not that there are too few industries at home, but that his son can't carry the burden on his shoulders, the basket in his hand and the craft work. He lacks the means to make a living and the ability to stand on the world. When he was dying, he called his son to bed and said that he would eat the steamed bread made by his son himself. The son felt very strange, but his father's orders could not be violated, so he reluctantly agreed, but he complained in his heart because he could not do it at all. Seeing his son's reluctance, his father asked him to ask the chef for guidance, but made it clear that only his son could do it himself, and the chef could never help him directly.
My son hired a chef. He started by kneading and rolling noodles, and then learned to make steamed bread until his back ached and he was sweating. It took a lot of effort to make steamed bread. Wait until after eating steamed bread, happily sent to the bed, then Zheng Banqiao had died. The son cried and knelt by the bed. Suddenly, he found a note on the coffee table. He picked it up and read it. It said, "Sweat yourself, eat your own food, do your own things, rely on the sky, the ground and your ancestors. Not a hero! " Only then did the son understand his father's intention of making steamed bread himself when he was dying. It turned out that he was teaching him to learn to be self-reliant, not to rely on others, not to rely on his ancestors for a living.
Although the story of Zheng Banqiao's godson dying is short, it is profound and thought-provoking. In today's world, many people are desperately making money in the fierce competition. As far as their motivation is concerned, in addition to striving to improve and improve their living standards, to a large extent, they want to leave their children a rich sum of money, so that future generations can live richer and more comfortable lives. As for how to educate children to learn to be a man, learn to live, learn to make a living by themselves, and learn to create living conditions independently, they are all placed in a secondary position, in fact, putting the cart before the horse. This is called love, but it is actually harmful. In fact, children and grandchildren have no ability, virtue and talent, will not make a living independently, and will not be a man. Even if there is more inheritance, even if they leave Jinshan Yinshan, they will live in an empty land. For some people, the more inheritance, the greater the harm, which can only encourage them to be lazy, extravagant, extravagant, indulge in gambling, corrupt and degenerate, and even violate the law and discipline and run amok. In the end, they only ended up with a tragic ending.
Zheng Banqiao's practice of teaching his son on his deathbed is really for the long-term benefit of future generations, and people should get useful enlightenment from it. Instead of leaving more money to future generations, it is better to strengthen their education and cultivate them into talents with both ability and political integrity, real materials and independent means of making a living. I really appreciate the words of Shao Shouyi on the back cover of the magazine "Being a Man and Life",No. 1 andNo. 1997: "It is better to leave money for children than to teach them to be a man." I hope that parents all over the world can firmly remember this sentence of Mr. Shao.
6. What do you think after reading the article "Zheng Banqiao Aiko"? Writing it down is a trivial matter, even being an official is a trivial matter. The most important thing is to let them understand things and be good people.
You can read this letter to your two sisters-in-law, so that they can understand that the truth of loving children lies in being a man, not being an official ... As for how to hire teachers and treat classmates, you must be careful. My son is six years old now. He is the youngest of his classmates. For older students, we should teach him to call him Mr. A, and for younger students, we should call him brother, not by his first name.
Stationery such as pens, ink, paper and inkstones, as long as they belong to my family, will be distributed to other students from time to time. Some children of poor families or widows don't even have money to buy paper nails for writing books. We should understand their difficulties and help them enthusiastically.
If you can't go home immediately on rainy days, save it for dinner. If it's too late, take out your old shoes and let them put them on. Because their parents love their children, although they can't afford to wear good clothes, they must make new shoes and socks for them to wear to school. On rainy days, the roads are muddy and the shoes and socks are dirty, so it is difficult to make new ones.
It is more difficult to choose a teacher, but it is more important to respect the teacher. You can't choose a teacher without caution. Once a decision is made, we should respect him and stop looking into his shortcomings.
As soon as people like us enter the officialdom, they lose the opportunity to educate their children. The teachers hired for children are only outstanding talents in a certain place, not necessarily celebrities at home and abroad.
If someone secretly laughs at what the teacher said is wrong, and some students accuse the teacher of saying it in public, it will make the teacher feel uneasy. Naturally, I won't try my best to educate my students.
It is the biggest headache for children to despise teachers and not study hard. Instead of this, it is better to use the strengths of teachers to educate children to make up for their own shortcomings.
If the teacher's level is too poor to be competent, then wait until the second year, and we will hire another master. During the term of office of a teacher, all courtesy and treatment shall not be abandoned at will. Children should be educated in the right way so that they can understand people's lives.
Zheng Banqiao himself had a hard time. At the age of 52, Shi Rao gave birth to a son. Because Zheng Banqiao was a county magistrate, his family had 300 mu of land, and he was a modest landlord at that time, so his son could be regarded as the "beloved son" of a "rich family".
But Zheng Banqiao loves his son in a very unique way. This uniqueness can be clearly seen in two letters he wrote to his brother when he was a magistrate in wei county.
Jiaozi is like killing a child, which is the experience and lesson that many people have gained with blood and tears. When Zheng Banqiao heard that Bao Xiao often boasted to the children at home: My father is a big official outside! Sometimes they bully the servants' children.
Zheng Banqiao immediately wrote to his younger brother Zheng Mo, saying, I only got a son when I was 52. How can I not love him! However, love must be in its own way. There must be a way to love your son.
True love is based on its way, but the way to spoil it is not true love. I didn't have a son until I was 52. How can I not love him? However, love must be in its own way; Although we play, we are honest and not in a hurry.
..... when I am not at home, my son is in your charge. If you want to be loyal to him and drive away his cruelty, don't think of yourself as a son (nephew), cherish him. Children of family members (domestic servants) are always ordinary people in the world, and should be generally cherished and not abused by our children.
Fish and fruitcake should all be distributed to everyone, so that everyone can have fun and dance happily. If our son sits with delicious food and lets his family look at him from a distance, his parents will feel sorry for him when they see him, but if they have no choice, they will leave him. What a pity! It is a trivial matter for my husband to study and be an official. First, he should be a good man.
Zheng Banqiao Aiko 2011-13 08:13 Zheng Banqiao is a scholar of Kangxi, Yongzheng and Qianlong. He was an artist who combined poetry, calligraphy and painting in Qing Dynasty. Although he served as a county magistrate for two times, he refused to be an official because of his aloof and eccentric personality. 1753, Zheng Banqiao was 6 1 year-old. He was dismissed from office because the people asked for relief and touched his boss, thus ending his 12-year career.
After that, I sold paintings in Yangzhou for a living. In the 30th year of Qianlong (1766), in December, he finally finished his bumpy life and died at the age of 73 in Qingyuan, xinghua city. The Zheng family is not rich, but the eldest son. After birth, the family was so happy and worried that they were afraid of death, so they nicknamed him "Shantou". Because there are a few faint pockmarked faces, it is also commonly known as "pockmarked girl".
Zheng Banqiao himself had a hard time. At the age of 52, Shi Rao gave birth to a son. Because Zheng Banqiao was a county magistrate, his family had 300 mu of land, and he was a modest landlord at that time, so his son could be regarded as the "beloved son" of a "rich family".
But Zheng Banqiao loves his son in a very unique way. This uniqueness can be clearly seen in two letters he wrote to his brother when he was a magistrate in wei county.
Jiaozi is like killing a child, which is the experience and lesson that many people have gained with blood and tears. When Zheng Banqiao heard that Bao Xiao often boasted to the children at home: My father is a big official outside! Sometimes they bully the servants' children.
Zheng Banqiao immediately wrote to his younger brother Zheng Mo, saying, I only got a son when I was 52. How can I not love him! However, love must be in its own way. There must be a way to love your son.
True love is based on its way, but the way to spoil it is not true love. Therefore, he asked his younger brother and his family to strictly discipline Bao Xiao, pay attention to his kindness and drive away his cruelty.
The younger brother and his family educated their children according to Zheng Banqiao's wishes and achieved great results. Two letters from Zheng Banqiao.
Wei Xian Bu Er Shu and Di Mo: I didn't have a son until I was 52 years old, so there is no reason not to love! However, love must be in its own way; Although we play, we are honest and not in a hurry. ..... when I am not at home, my son is in your charge. If you want to be loyal to him and drive away his cruelty, don't think of yourself as a son (nephew), cherish him.
Children of family members (domestic servants) are always ordinary people in the world, and should be generally cherished and not abused by our children. Fish and fruitcake should all be distributed to everyone, so that everyone can have fun and dance happily.
If our son sits with delicious food and lets his family look at him from a distance, his parents will feel sorry for him when they see him, but if they have no choice, they will leave him. What a pity! It is a trivial matter for my husband to study and be an official. First, he should be a good man. "Send my younger brother to Weixian Mo", the third book: A rich family delayed the teacher to teach the children.
7. Argument on Zheng Banqiao's story of drinking tea Zheng Banqiao himself is a scholar. He doesn't look down on scholars. What he despises is that he studies to be an official.
What Zheng Banqiao values most is his son's character. He said to his brother, "If I am not at home, my son will be in your charge. If you want to increase his loyalty and drive away his cruelty, don't think that you are still a child and cherish it. "
He advocates that his children and servants' children should be treated equally. He said: "Family and children will always be ordinary people in the world. We should cherish them universally and don't let children abuse others.
All the fish meal and fruitcake should be distributed, and everyone jumped for joy. If our son sits on a delicious food and lets his family look at him from a distance, his lips and teeth can't touch, and his parents will feel sorry for him when they see it. There is nothing to do, and it is not cruel to ask him to go! "In order to educate his son to' understand the truth of good people' and' farmers who love the world', Zheng Banqiao also copied four five-character quatrains that Bao Xiao read and sang, which were very easy to read: selling new silk in February and nesting in Xingu in May; Cured the sore in front of me, but dug out my heart.
Weeding is at noon, and sweat drips down the soil; Who knows that every grain of Chinese food is hard? I went to town yesterday and came back with tears; Those who wear Luo Qi are not silkworm farmers.
998 1 year, the poor suffered; If you sleep your feet, mosquitoes and fleas will come out. Later, Zheng Banqiao did not trust Bao Xiao's growth, so he took him with him and often educated Bao Xiao to know the difficulties of eating and dressing, and to sympathize with the poor.
Thanks to Zheng Banqiao's strict education and example, Bao Xiao has made rapid progress. At that time, there was a famine in Wei County, and Zheng Banqiao was always poor, and there was no grain at home.
One day, Bao Xiao cried and said, "Mom, I'm hungry!" "Mother took out a steamed bread made of corn flour and stuffed it in Bao Xiao's hand, saying," Your father saved it at noon. Take it and eat it quickly! " Bao Xiao skipped to the door, eating steamed corn-bread happily. At this time, a barefoot girl stood by and watched him eat. Bao Xiao found the little girl who looked at him with hungry eyes and immediately gave her half a steamed bun.
When Zheng Banqiao learned of Bao Xiao's action, he happily said to Bao Xiao, "Son, you did the right thing. Dad likes you. " Life, happiness is not an end, but morality is the criterion.