Influenced by the college entrance examination system, many parents focus their education on their children's academic performance, which I don't agree with. I think our focus is not only on academic performance, but also on the shaping of children's character, emotional management, habit formation and many other aspects. Parents can't control their children with their own emotions, which will make them feel at a loss, lose their correct judgment on affairs and blindly cater to them. Let children have an independent personality, maintain their unique personality, develop good living and study habits, have self-control ability, always have confidence in themselves in the face of various pressures, maintain a positive and optimistic attitude towards life, have the courage and perseverance to overcome difficulties, always be curious about new things, and have a sense of responsibility in dealing with people. His growth is natural, and he will not struggle for survival. As the saying goes, when flowers bloom, butterflies come; If you are wonderful, you can arrange it yourself.
? This year, my son is 8 years old and is in the second grade of primary school. He is a quiet little boy. I asked him to take an extracurricular calligraphy class. First of all, he likes writing and drawing. Second, calligraphy learning can cultivate self-cultivation, which is conducive to the cultivation of children's comprehensive ability. Speaking of my calligraphy plot, it comes from my father, who is a primary school teacher. I have always admired his beautiful pen handwriting. I mentioned it several times in my communication with my son. The speaker didn't listen on purpose, but the son kept it in mind. One day, he took the initiative to talk to me about his desire to learn calligraphy. I suddenly realized that my words and deeds in my daily life have such a great influence on my son, and they all say that it is more important to teach by example. As an activist, I started from July 20 18. I contacted a friend of mine whose daughter is already learning calligraphy. I asked her for the contact information of the college and made an appointment with the teacher to take my son to the audition. When we arrived at the academy, the teacher took out paper, ink, pens and inkstones, and arranged for the students to show their sons. I followed the teacher to his study. During the conversation for more than half an hour, I felt that I benefited a lot. I have kept in mind all the educational ideas that the teacher said. We should blindly rely on schools or teachers to carry out "* * *" education. Parents should promptly supervise, guide and encourage. It is better to learn calligraphy than to win an award. Finally, the teacher recommended some books on education to me. This coincides with my original intention of teaching children, which makes me overjoyed.
The one-hour trial writing class soon ended, just in time for the children to finish class. The teacher walked up to my son and asked him several questions, such as his name, age, where he went to school and so on. My son blushed and pulled my clothes. Mom said he was shy. With my encouragement, my son finally gave the answer mechanically. I asked my son, do you like studying here? My son nodded in response to me.
My son's timidity has always been a thorn in my side. Speaking of this stalk, it is a legacy of his learning Taekwondo in kindergarten. Taekwondo coach is very serious and has a very loud voice. Although I appreciate my son's performance, I didn't expect to have a psychological shadow on my son, and even had a feeling of being tired of learning. When I realized that the problem was serious, I stopped my class to calm him down, and then he went to kindergarten happily. However, from then on, he was afraid and resisted anyone who spoke loudly and sternly. I thought calligraphy class should be very serious and strict, but it is still much milder than physical education. In order to exercise my son, let him learn to overcome psychological obstacles, become stronger inside and get out of the shadows, I decided to try a summer school first and see his performance before making the next move.
About a week after the audition, my son was assigned to the afternoon class of summer school. Study time 10 day, and class time is 3 hours every day. This is also a test of his perseverance. A photo of his first day of class was posted on his mobile phone.
/kloc-the 0/0-day course will soon end, and I am very pleased to see my son coming out of the bookstore every day. On the way home, he took the initiative to communicate with me. Today, the teacher talked about what he taught and learned. Only then did I know that he stood for three hours every day and practiced basic exercises such as writing, lifting, writing and pasting. I asked him if he was tired, if he could persist, and he confidently answered no problem. Spiritual pleasure overcomes physical fatigue, and I am very happy to see that you are very focused when practicing.
During 10 days of study, my son learned the origami brush and simple line thickness changes that need to be prepared for calligraphy class. On the last day of the summer school, I asked him if he wanted to continue to enroll in this calligraphy class. He said eagerly, "mom, please help me apply." I like it very much. I want to write as well as my brothers and sisters and write Spring Festival couplets for our family this year! " This is a photo of my son after summer school. Is he happy?
199 1 autumn is approaching, and under the urging of my son several times, I renewed my annual class fee for him. It seems that he really likes it. Because after the summer school, he began to practice calligraphy consciously, which was the first time in all his interest classes. Taking advantage of his enthusiasm, I consciously guided him to tidy up his desk after practice, keep it clean and contribute to the cleanliness of the home environment.
On September 10 Teacher's Day, the calligraphy teacher organized students to write works to thank the teacher for his efforts. The son told his words to the class teacher, who was surprised and moved. This greatly encouraged his son, gave him enough self-confidence and taught him to have a grateful heart.
It is particularly meaningful for calligraphy teachers to organize parents and students to participate in Mid-Autumn Festival cultural activities. Let children know about traditional festival culture and provide a platform for parents and children to have parent-child activities.
On the solstice of winter, the calligraphy teacher organized students to watch the dining etiquette, and prepared a warm-hearted jiaozi for the children.
New Year's Day is coming, and the school asks the children to prepare the evening program. My son took the initiative to find a teacher to sign up, and the program he brought to his classmates was "The Origin of Words". Judging from the video sent by the teacher, my son is loud, articulate and affectionate on the stage, and has interacted with his classmates several times, which has promoted the atmosphere. It is a breakthrough for him who is timid, and this is the confidence that calligraphy class brings him. The teacher rewarded me with a small gift, which will be given to me when I come back. I asked why I was given it. He said that my mother is the knowledge you learned in the calligraphy class, so I told my classmates so confidently that they could listen carefully when I spoke. I gave him a big hug and my heart was sweet.
There are many heart-warming activities, and university teachers will also take students to visit various calligraphy-related exhibition halls in Beijing in their spare time, so that children can increase their knowledge while entertaining. Although it was only half a year's study, it also succeeded in making my son cheerful, lively and confident, able to talk and laugh with teachers and actively interact with classmates. Seeing his progress and growth for half a year has a lot to do with learning calligraphy. It was the teacher's correct guidance that gave him confidence.
A few days ago, my son heard that the work of senior schoolmates in the hospital was affirmed and praised by Sanhe Education Bureau. He was envious and said that he should work hard.
Dry my son's work.
As the Spring Festival approaches, my son is going to prepare for the Spring Festival couplets. He practices for several hours every day when he comes home from school. After searching Baidu for Spring Festival couplets for a long time, he found what he thought was satisfactory, and then wrote it down in his notebook. He looked for the corresponding words in the copybook and numbered them. If he can't find it, he will open the word, find the corresponding part in the copybook and combine it himself. The child's brain is quite flexible. I look forward to the Spring Festival couplets written by him.
There is still a long way to go in Xiu Yuan. I will go up and down. Mom will always accompany you and support you in learning calligraphy! May you go forward bravely and never forget your initial intention.