Many times, people around you will always make excuses for yourself and say that you look down on others. Many people in life do so without thinking and truly despise others because of this sentence. In fact, it is not everyone’s right to look down on others. , Some look down on others because of their own vanity, and some look down on others because they are not honest in their own hearts.
Many years ago, I lived on the sixth floor of Yingcaiyuan Community. There was an old man living on the first floor. He loved calligraphy but had no glorious career. The old man had no family or children. He worked as a rickshaw driver and a stepper to help people haul goods. While practicing calligraphy, he became a famous calligrapher. Sometimes he would post his works outside his door, hoping that passers-by would make suggestions and criticisms.
One time, in the WeChat group of community owners, an owner on the sixth floor suggested that the old man should be elected as the director of the property committee; however, the old man actually became a little noble and had basically lost all respect for others. He posted on WeChat People in the group said that he had no interest in becoming a cadre and would support anyone who held the position, but he hoped that no one would use his small power to punish him. Later, someone in the group scolded him for being disrespectful. From then on, when the owner of the sixth floor passed by his door, he would always spit on purpose to provoke the old man. Once the old man came forward and asked why, the owner of the sixth floor replied domineeringly: "I just look down on you, you bastard. What's the explanation?" Later, many people thought that the old man was looked down upon by others.
However, the owner of the sixth floor explained to me that the reason for hating the old man was not that the old man had a humble career, but that he was not given face by the group of old men and did not humbly accept the respect of the owners.
Many people like to put hats on others. This one looks down on that one, and that one looks down on this one. Only they are looked down upon. These are just deceptions and false appearances. Being looked down upon by others means that one is indeed There have been imperfections, and being respected by others and respecting oneself have the same impact on each other; many people alive are eager to be respected by others. Of course, a few sages are pure-hearted and stoic, looking down on the conflicts of worldly interests and nodding their heads when they encounter respect. , shake your head when you are not respected, nothing can be taken away by passing clouds and smoke, just live like this, transcending the glitz and ferocity of the world. It is true that a life that is respected by many people will be wonderful, full of passion, full of confidence, and have the courage to live well.
However, in social life, some people look down on others because others lack gorgeous packaging and cannot give themselves the mask of shame, the little bit of glory and the slightest vanity they need; some people look down on others because their souls are too humble. Ugly, because they don’t want to get close to the ink and become black; some look down on others because their efforts are not rewarded, and the spring seeds sown have not bloomed; some look down on others because they are not respected after being respected, and they are an excuse for all living beings to crowd out; Looking down on others is a deliberate act of ridicule and an attempt to elevate oneself to a higher level.
Strangers in life, please remember that some people who look down on others are often fake.