Although Du was poor in his early years, he was able to achieve something, which in itself is worthy of our admiration. Ma Weidou also learned a lot from it, and he studied Du deeply. There are similarities between cultural relics appraisal and judging people, which is still very enlightening to Du's detailed research. Ma Weidou pointed out three details of Du Yuesheng to us, and replied that his success was no accident.
Details 1: It doesn't matter if you can't read, you have to know people.
Du can't read, but he can have a place to live on the beach where big bosses gather. This is not easy in itself. In fact, Du later learned a lot of words through his own efforts, and his calligraphy is also remarkable. Du said that it doesn't matter if a person can't read, but he must know people. Ma Weidou paid great attention to this detail of Du, which showed that he was proficient in the art of knowing people and laid a good foundation for Du's later success. If you know people accurately, you can do what you want, and then you can do things cheaply. Du's series of wrists perfectly prove that this detail is particularly important.
The second detail: the disciplinary button on the photo is always buckled.
Monsoon coach, a special costume design, may be a little strange to you. The discipline buckle is a hook-type design, with a button on it and a hook on the clothes worn by the older generation. This design is very clever, and the buckle can make people feel very educated. However, many people think that procrastination is often a lack of attention to the correct use of disciplinary buckles. Ma Weidou said that he saw that Du's discipline button had been buttoned in the photo, which fully showed that people were critical and strict with themselves. Du knows well the rules of dealing with the upper class, is strict with himself and has self-cultivation, which is undoubtedly a plus item for his success.
The third detail: praise people behind their backs and be generous before others.
Say that Du Huilai will come and praise you behind your back, but don't say it to your face. It makes sense for others to do so, so that compliments can be passed on to each other through their ears. This effect is not generally good, and Du has tried it every time. Du praised people behind their backs and was more generous in front of them. Whether it is a powerful person or a peddler, he will take care of them one by one This detail is particularly important and really helpful, accumulating contacts for his success.
By analyzing the above three details, we can realize that Du's success is not accidental. Du studied human nature thoroughly, not generally thoroughly, otherwise he wouldn't have traveled to Shanghai. Although Du's evaluation is mixed, his thought of dealing with people still has certain reference significance.