As the saying goes: Fiona Fang can't be Fiona Fang without rules: from Meng Mu to my mother-in-law, a good family discipline, rules and style not only bear the hope of ancestors for future generations, but also reflect the fine national style of the Chinese nation!
Every family has its own family precepts, rules and customs, and my family is no exception. My family style is characterized by "diligence, filial piety and helpfulness". Literally, it may be no different from most families, but the inheritance of family style is more about the words and deeds of family members. There is also a story about family style and thrift:
The poem of black mold was written by Wang in Qing Dynasty. He was the 15th member of the Wang family and was a scholar in the 18th year of Qing Emperor Kangxi. When Wang was a teenager, he studied in Gengwangzhuang private school. Because of his poor family, he is short of clothes and food. Sorghum is mixed with black mold when heading in autumn. Wang used it to satisfy his hunger for lunch and didn't go home for dinner. This aroused the teacher's suspicion. Upon inquiry, Wang Wei wrote a poem "Wu Mei Shi" to solve the doubts of teachers and students.
The so-called filial piety refers to the love for parents in return; Praise refers to the friendship between brothers and sisters, including friendship with friends. Confucius attached great importance to filial piety and thought it was the basis of being a man and learning. The Wangs have been paying attention to filial piety since ancient times. In the whole extended family, I have never heard of any family that doesn't take care of the elderly and mistreats them.
Wang Kekuan, a member of the 16th generation of the Wang family, was a scholar in Kangxi period. His Poem of Analyzing Tendons reflects Wang's filial piety culture. The content of the poem is: "The young cousin * * * inkstone window, and the same spring and autumn as Guixing. Catch up with Mo Dan's champion list and look forward to the cake fragrance from HongLing. My younger brother can take care of Xiaolian, and the house is divided into uncle's dormitory, full of food and warm clothes. There are few beautiful properties left, and Machang Middle School is herding sheep. " This poem reflects Kelly's generosity, filial piety and humility. When he was young, he studied with his brother. After he got the official position, he took his parents to his side and regarded the family property as a thing apart from him. When the two brothers split up, they were asked to choose fertile fields and mortuary first, while they chose a horse farm to live in the north of the village. In the Wangs, there are too many stories about filial piety and affection. In a family, brothers dropped out of school to help one of them become famous. When the brothers at home became famous, the other one returned home. This virtuous circle ensures that there are many talented people in the family.
"Diligent housekeeping, filial piety to parents, helping others", every sentence has profound truth, which has taught us the fundamentals of being a man. Good family style, family training and family rules must be observed and implemented by everyone, and a good style will last forever. Practice socialist core values with practical actions.
"Study hard and be filial to others" is our family style, but this family style may be written by everyone, and what everyone can really do is a good social atmosphere. Family style seems invisible, but it is pride in the blood. Through the scrolls of genealogy in different periods, people can deepen their understanding of the family and strengthen their own cultural accomplishment, which is to inherit the family tradition. Only when the family style is positive can the family prosper and the society be more harmonious.
Family style grew with me. Speech 2 "State-owned laws, family rules" is a common saying. Many families have their own family rules and customs. A good family is a good family, and vice versa. Of course, my family naturally has a family style, and it is a "family style" that accompanied me to grow up.
Family style-honesty
Since I can remember, my parents have taught me to be an honest child. I remember when I was a child, I failed in an exam, and I was particularly uneasy. I tremble at the thought of my mother's fierce appearance. When I got home, my mother asked me about my grades. I stammered, "I didn't ... I don't know the result ..." My mother slapped me without saying anything, which made me embarrassed. Covering your mouth, your eyes are red. "Why did you hit me!" My mother pointed her index finger at my nose and said angrily, "You are lying! Why can't I hit you? " I pouted and said, "I don't know!" "Mom slapped me again:" Your math teacher has called me and said that you didn't do well in the exam, and the test paper has been issued, so I want you to correct it! "How do you explain it!" I have seen my mother angry, but I have never seen her angry. Even if I did badly in the exam, she wouldn't be so angry. I don't talk, I'm afraid. I just shed tears unconsciously. After all, it's my fault that I dare not cry loudly. Mom and dad gradually calmed down and sighed. She pulled me to her side again: "Mom and Dad don't blame you for not doing well in the exam, they only blame you for lying. Don't you remember that mom and dad told you to always be honest and don't lie, understand? " I nodded my head. "Let's go, I'll show you what happened to the paper. Does your face hurt? Mom and dad are heavy, sorry. " Mom and mom showed me that face again. Then I shouted, "Mom ... I ... was wrong." Mother touched my head. Honesty is golden.
Family style-persistence
"Since you have chosen calligraphy, you must stick to it." This is what my father said to me. Dad accompanied me and practiced that annoying running script. Gradually I calmed down, although it was still very hot. My back is already wet. But I persisted. Writing Preface to Lanting, I appreciate Wang Xizhi's calligraphy characteristics of "floating like a cloud, correcting like a dragon". Persistence is jade.
Family style-tolerance
"Tolerance is great" is my motto for myself. Only a tolerant person can have a broad mind. Tolerance is a kind of beauty. Tolerance is like water. Be tolerant, forgive others' mistakes, don't care, don't haggle, be kind and be a generous person. Tolerance is like water, and encountering contradictions is often more effective than excessive retaliation. It is like a clear spring, slowly flowing through the anxious heart, making people calm and sober.
Family style grew with me.
Family style grew with me. Speech 3 Family life style and cultural atmosphere constitute family style. As the name implies, family style is the ethos, style and fashion of a family.
Roland, a famous French writer, once said: "Life is not an individual who can grow up in isolation. As it grows, it collects flowers and leaves along the way. It is also like a sensitive camera, recording what you see and hear along the way. Every minute and inch of daily life is a fiber that weaves individuality. Everyone's words and deeds in the environment are building materials that are integrated into the growth process, infecting this person's thoughts, feelings and behaviors and affecting this person's attitude towards life. The influence of the environment on a person is more important than tangible imitation. " This also shows the importance of family style.
Family style is the comprehensive strength of virtue, and it is the synthesis of virtue factors such as thought, living habits, emotion, attitude, spirit and interest. Such as language environment, emotional environment, interpersonal environment and moral environment. Home is the first space for growth, and children will be branded with family style everywhere.
Family style is a potential invisible force, which exerts a subtle influence on children's mind and shapes their personality in daily life. It is a silent virtue, a silent classic, a silent force, and the most basic, direct and frequent virtue. Its influence on children is all-round, and children's world outlook, outlook on life, personality characteristics, moral cultivation, dealing with people and living habits will be branded with family style. It can be said that what kind of family style, there are what kind of children.
For me, my family style is "learning to be a man". Learning to be a man here means doing well in moral conduct, not doing the best, but in general, I always take it as a warning to myself. In dealing with people, we should treat others with tolerance, kindness and seriousness; In life, I will be careful and insist on taking everything seriously; In terms of morality, I often remind myself that I will never do anything that undermines or violates social rules. I will try my best to do small moral things, starting from the small things around me, not doing the best, but I will try my best to treat them.
It is with a good family style that we become a qualified family member. Sometimes, the family style I learned is borrowed from my parents. I think my parents' influence on me is extremely important in this respect. Some good family styles will develop some excellent qualities, and it is with such a good family style that we can grow better.
Although family style is a guiding light for a family, if it guides the family to do well, the people in that family are not much different. If we combine thousands of family styles in a country, it is the family style and ethos of a country, which requires each of us to work hard, obey the law and help each other. Only a country with a good social atmosphere can make the country rich and strong and be regarded as a country.
Family style grew with me. Speaking of family style, there are many family styles in our family!
Let's talk about our family style next! For example, wash your face and brush your teeth in the morning and evening, wash your hands before and after meals, and develop a good habit of paying attention to hygiene every day; Get up at 6 o'clock in the morning to exercise. My mother often says that we should form the good habit of going to bed early and getting up early. Don't say that you don't eat anything or don't want to eat anything, don't waste leftovers, respect the old and love the young, don't contradict your parents, and cultivate polite children from an early age; It is necessary to save water and electricity, drink less or no carbonated drinks, drink more boiled water is good for your health, and form a good habit of managing your family diligently from an early age; You can't go out to play from Monday to Friday night, and you can't go out until your mother agrees on Saturday night, and there are strict time limits. Even turning on the computer to watch TV requires your mother's permission. Don't tell lies, don't like to take advantage of petty advantages, and be an honest child. ...
Our family style: learning, diligence, filial piety and frugality. With my healthy growth, I hope these family styles will stay in my home.
Family style grew with me. Speech 5 Dear teachers and students:
Hello everyone!
A good family style is like the main theme, just like rain falling on us, and we can thrive under the influence of a good family style.
When I was a child, my father always told me that honesty was the most important thing. As long as I promise others, no matter what happens, I will finish it. I remember one time I asked my classmates to play badminton on Sunday. At the appointed time, it suddenly rained cats and dogs. I didn't intend to go at first, but my father said to me seriously, "it's wrong of you to do so." You promised someone something. How can you go back on your word? " Honesty is the first element of being a man ... "I seem to understand after listening to my father's long speech." I grabbed my umbrella and ran to the appointed place. My friend didn't come, but I felt much more comfortable.
When I was older, my parents attached great importance to respecting the education of their elders. Every holiday, many relatives and elders come to visit their home. Parents ask their children to call their elders. If they meet up and down neighbors in the corridor, they should also say hello. Men and women, old and young, after a long time, everyone became good friends. Why not?
As the saying goes, "filial piety is the first virtue". Since my sixth grade, words like "filial piety to parents and elders" and "learning to be grateful" will pop up from time to time. I remember one time, I was in a bad mood. When I got home, my parents told me that I didn't respond. They said I was bored to death. Dad immediately "invited" a ruler from the cupboard, jumped into my palm and hit it hard twice. The palm of your hand turned red immediately, which made me "cry thousands of miles"! After experiencing that unforgettable pain, I learned that "parents should not slow down;" Parents, don't be lazy; You must listen to what your parents teach; Parents have the responsibility to obey! "
"Honesty", "respect" and "filial piety", these good family styles accompanied me to grow up, sprinkled golden light on my growth path, and made my life more brilliant and different!
Family style grew with me. Speech 6 Hello everyone:
China is known as the "State of Etiquette" for 5,000 years, and has always attached importance to family style and family instruction. The ancients often said: "No rules can make Fiona Fang", so family precepts form a family style, and a good family style is both a tangible imitation and an intangible shaping. Having a good family style and strict family training is a decisive step in educating the next generation. I live in a big warm family. At home, my mother instilled some good tutors in me from an early age. "Filial piety first" is one of the good family precepts in my family, which has taught me a lot.
Mother often said that people are based on filial piety. If a person has no filial piety, no matter how much knowledge and high culture, it is useless, and it is often just a threat to society. Therefore, treating people and things should be based on filial piety.
I still remember that my mother often told me a terrible story. The story is about such a thing that happened in a small village a few years ago. A boy as young as 15 killed his mother with his own hands. What caused it? It turns out that the boy is in the third grade of a rural middle school. Before that, his grades were very good, and there were only a handful in that school. However, the boy doesn't know why his grades suddenly dropped a lot in the first semester of Grade Three. The boy's mother was very worried, so she came from the city to accompany him and wanted to know about him.
What the hell happened? Later, I learned from the mouth of the boy class teacher that the boy had been in contact with some social youths outside, and it was more frequent. One night, mother found the boy rushing out of the house, sneaking around, but she didn't stop him and let him go. Not long after the boy left, the boy's mother was very worried, and her heart was as anxious as bricks on hot bricks. So she sat for a walk.
Finally, at 3: 00 or 4: 00 in the morning, the boy came back, pushed open the door and looked a little drunk, as if he had drunk a lot. The mother hurried to help the boy and asked, "It's so late. Where have you just been? Why are you drunk?" . Unexpectedly, the boy ignored it. The mother then asked, but the boy still ignored. The mother asked again, but the boy still ignored it. The mother asked again, which annoyed the boy and immediately picked up a knife from the table and waved it away. In an instant, the mother's bright red school flower splashed all over the boy, and the boy woke up suddenly, kneeling on his knees and crying ... Later, the boy who was only 15 years old was also severely punished by the law.
Whenever I think of this story, my heart is always a little shabby. The boy in the story actually cut off his mother. Didn't he think about how much his mother loved him and cared about him? No matter how good his previous grades were, it was futile, which violated the basic principles of being a man.
In fact, filial piety is not difficult, just to see if you have the heart. Parents get up early and get greedy every day, go out early and go back to work late to earn money. For who? Isn't it us? And all we have to do is hand them a pair of slippers and a cup of hot tea when they get off work, and then come back.
A few greetings, this is also an act of filial piety. Therefore, in the future, we should be filial-oriented and have filial piety.
Home is a shrinking country, and the country is an enlarged country. Establish a good family style and family training, and become a person with superior quality. I only hope that "family style and family training" can be passed down from generation to generation.
Thank you!