Xie Daowen got married, which delayed his life;
Li Qingzhao was married twice and drifted for a lifetime;
Cai Wenji has been married three times, and her life is in turmoil.
At the end of the Eastern Han Dynasty, it was divided into three parts, and the war continued.
Being born in troubled times and seeking a stable life is easier said than done. Fortunately, Cai Wenji was born in a scholarly family, and his father Cai Yong was a famous writer, calligrapher and musician in the Eastern Han Dynasty. Have to say, Cai Wenji's talent is largely due to his father.
One day, my father Cai Yong played the piano at night and suddenly broke a string. Cai Wenji said, "The second string is broken." Cai Yong said, "You happen to be right." So he deliberately broke one and asked her, and Cai Wenji said it was the fourth one. Saint Amethyst recorded that "Cai Wenji can distinguish pianos". She was nine years old that year.
Cai Wenji's childhood was unfortunate, although she had no talent, was proficient in temperament, and was named as a "talented woman". His father, Cai Yong, was exiled for writing a letter attacking state affairs, and was exiled with his father for twelve years. Twelve years of exile in her childhood seemed destined for her turbulent life.
Later, when Dong Zhuo came to power, Cai Yong became the commander-in-chief of the left army, and Cai Wenji's life settled down temporarily.
Sixteen, the age at which ancient women got married. Cai Wenji also ushered in his first marriage and married Wei Zhongdao. Wei Zhongdao was born in Hedong family and was familiar with the classics. They are both talented and beautiful, playing the piano and singing in harmony. However, the expected happy life did not come as scheduled, and misfortune befell Cai Wenji one after another. One year after marriage, her husband Wei Zhongdao died of illness, and Cai Wenji, who was heartbroken, had to return to her family. However, a bigger blow followed. After Dong Zhuo was punished, his father Cai Yong was also killed.
In this way, Cai Wenji suffered two bereavements, one was her beloved husband and the other was her devout father. However, fate has not spared her, and a more tragic life is yet to come.
During Xingping period, the world was in chaos. Xiongnu took the opportunity to plunder the Central Plains, and Cai Wenji fled to the world with thousands of people. No matter how you run, you can't outrun the Xiongnu fighters. In front of the Xiongnu's sharp machete, it is of no help to be knowledgeable. My hometown passed away, and the desert sent me the rest of my life. Exiled to the desert for another 12 years.
The beauty and talent admired by the southern Xiongnu left her as his wife. "People have to bow their heads under the eaves." In this way, Cai Wenji was forced to get married for the second time.
Without a moment, she doesn't miss her homeland; Not a day goes by without her looking at the Central Plains. She can't talk about her love for her second husband, because he kept her in a foreign land in Lacrimosa all day; Because of him, her youth was buried and her talent was buried.
In the 13th year of Jian 'an, Cao Cao unified the north. Remembering that Cai Yong, his former best friend, had no children and his daughter was still in Xiongnu, he sent envoys to redeem Cai Wenji with a large sum of money.
Cai Wenji dreamed of waiting for this day, but when it came, Cai Wenji was so ambivalent. On the one hand, she lived in a foreign land for twelve years, with her husband and two children; On the one hand, I miss my hometown day and night. In the cruel choice of going back and staying, Cai Wenji chose to go back and set foot on the road to his hometown alone.
After returning to her hometown, under the arrangement of Cao Cao, Cai Wenji was betrothed to Dong Si, the captain of the wasteland, and started her third marriage.
Although the third marriage is not perfect, it is also worth cherishing for Cai Wenji, whose life is turbulent. Then Dong Si committed a capital crime, Cai Yan went to intercede with Cao Cao, and Dong Si also went. At that time, Cao Cao was hosting a banquet for officials and celebrities and said to all the guests, "Cai Yong's daughter is outside. Let everyone meet her today. " Cai Yan's long hair and bare feet, kowtowing and confession, clear words and sour emotions touched all the guests. However, Cao Cao said, "However, the documents for reducing the crime have been sent out. What should we do? " Cai Yan said, "There are thousands of good horses in your stable and countless brave foot soldiers. You also set aside a fast horse to save a dying life? " Cao Cao was finally moved by Cai Wenji and pardoned Dong Si.
After years of war, Cai Wenji lamented the bitterness of life and wrote Eighteen Beats of Hu Jia with tears in his eyes. Every word was dripping with blood and every sentence was full of affection. The grief poems she wrote were full of grief and indignation, which made her feel the pain after grief and indignation. How many parting tears did Wen Xi's song "Eighteen Beats of Hu Jia" pop up? How many heartbroken sounds did Wen Xi read in a poem "Sorrow and indignation"?
How unfortunate talented women have been since ancient times.
Attached:
Sorrow and indignation poem
[Han Cai Wen Ji]
The Han Dynasty lost power and influence, and Dong Zhuo was in chaos.
If you want to usurp the throne, you must first harm the virtuous.
Forced to move to the old state to help the Lord strengthen himself.
Xingyi division wants to * * for bad luck at home.
Excellent people come from the east and shine in the sun.
The local people are very fragile, and all the soldiers are Hu Qiangren.
Hunting wild cities and besieging cities, I know what I want to break.
There is nothing left, and the remains support each other.
A horse hangs a man's head, and a horse carries a woman behind it.
Driving west to enter the customs, the road is dangerous and blocked.
I still care. My liver and spleen are rotten.
There are several tens of thousands, and gathering is not allowed.
Still flesh and blood, afraid to speak.
When you are depressed for a few minutes, you need to talk about your shortcomings.
If you want to be a pavilion blade, I can't live with you.
How dare you spare your life? You can't stand being scolded.
Or add pestle, poison and pain are combined into one.
The study is sad and the night is sad.
You can't have it if you want to die, and you can't have it if you want to live.
It is a misfortune for people with pale faces.
Bianhuang is different from China, who is vulgar and unreasonable.
There is a lot of frost and snow in the place, and Hu Feng starts in spring and summer.
Blow my clothes gently and let them sink into my ears.
I miss my parents when I feel it, and lament the infinite.
It's always nice to hear that there are guests from outside.
Welcome to ask about him. You need to reply to the village.
I hope that when I meet you, my flesh and blood will meet me.
If you have to forgive yourself, you should abandon your son.
Heaven binds people's hearts, and it is too late to say goodbye.
Life and death are always good, and we can't bear to say goodbye to them.
Hold my neck in front of my son and ask my mother what she wants.
When people say that their mother should go, there is no time to return.
My mother has always been kind, so today is even more unkind.
I am not an adult, so I don't care.
Seeing this collapse in five days, I was in a trance and crazy.
Crying and touching, when you reply to doubts.
At the same time, they bid farewell to each other.
I long for my return, and sad tears have destroyed the cracks.
A horse hesitated, but a car refused to turn.
The audience was booed and sobbed as they walked.
To break the relationship and sign for the future.
This is 3,000 miles long. When shall we meet again?
Read me out of my stomach and my heart will destroy me.
Not only for the family, but also for China and foreign countries.
The city wall is a mountain forest, and the yard is full of Ai Jing.
If you don't know whose bone it is, don't cover it vertically and horizontally.
There is no sound when going out, and the jackal barks.
Embrace the lonely scene, and you will lose your liver and lungs.
Looking at the distance, the soul suddenly flew.
After the election, others will be lenient.
In order to recover, there is no need to say it.
Entrust your life to a new person and try your best to encourage yourself.
Being stingy, I am often afraid of donating again.
The geometry of life, you worry all the year round.