Rose said: not all flowers represent love; Diamonds say: not all diamonds represent eternity.
Rule of abstaining from porridge: There are three bowls of porridge in life, one for yourself, one for family and friends, and one for passers-by who have nothing to do with you.
Comparison is the root of trouble.
The best preservation in the world is to make continuous progress and make yourself a better and more lovely person.
Apples can be eaten in five minutes, but they won't grow in five minutes.
Anger often blinds our judgment.
All the real problems are not solved, but forgotten.
Laziness is a strange thing, which makes you think it is ease, rest and blessing; But it actually gives you boredom, burnout and depression; It deprives you of hope for the future, cuts off your friendship with others, and makes you more and more narrow-minded and suspicious of life.
People can't live without their enemies, and the smartest people can do everything possible to turn them into friends.
You can't be friends after breaking up because you have hurt each other; You can't be enemies, because you love each other deeply, so you should be the most familiar strangers.
There is no road to life in vain, and there is no hurdle to cross. Good experience, bad experience, that's all.
Love is always more sacred than marriage, and marriage is always more affordable than love.
Heaven and hell are caused by heart and behavior. We should not be afraid of hell, what we should be afraid of is inner deviation.
Under the blue sky is sunshine; Come through thick and thin; Failure is experience; Success is brilliant.
As long as your mind is not chaotic, it is difficult for the outside world to change anything about you. Don't envy others, don't lose yourself.
In fact, I haven't changed, I just learned the way you treat me and you together!
If you really love him, then you must tolerate some of his shortcomings.
In the kindergarten, a man, two women and three children are playing house. The boy said, "I want to be a father!" " "A girl said," I want to be a mother! The rest of the girls said, "Then I will be a mistress!" " ""
Marriage is like picking up shells. Don't choose the biggest and most beautiful, choose what you like and what suits you best. Besides, don't go to the seaside if you find them.
Beautiful women are pleasing to the eye, and mature women are pleasing to the eye.
Life without love is like a desert, giving people roses and fragrant hands. Loving others is actually loving yourself. Let love warm everyone's heart like the afternoon sunshine.
When you face others, you touch their lives, and when you look at yourself, you go deep into your own soul.
The truth of life is hidden in the plain.
Don't care too much about the beauty of the past. The past always belongs to the past.
Just do what you think is right, stick to it, and don't care about other people's opinions, even if it is wrong, at least you have done it to prove that you have tried.
Love is like shoes on your feet. You don't know what barefoot feels like until you lose it.
Once the first button is not buttoned, the others can't be buttoned.
Failure is not terrible, the key is to see if this failure is a successful mother.
In some families, a few bowls of noodles can support a hot day; In some families, a pile of gold coins turned the days upside down.
If you put it down, there will be no worries.
Because you don't love me, everything necessary is unnecessary; Because I love you, I forgive everything I shouldn't forgive.
What a man hurts a woman is not necessarily that he fell in love with someone else, but that he let her down when she had expectations and didn't give her the comfort she deserved when she was weak.
Most wanted water: salary; The hardest work: life; The most beautiful flower: the rich flower.
Anyone who can consider others from their perspective is compassionate.
Don't express your pain to anyone, because% people don't care, and the remaining% people are happy to hear it.
Fate is a book. Turn it over and you miss it. If you look too carefully, you will cry.
Career and life advice: let yourself have judgment and decision-making power.
Career and life advice: let yourself have judgment and decision-making power, let yourself have judgment and decision-making power.
Dear young friends,
Our life is faced with many choices, big and small, and each choice affects our life to some extent.
In enterprises, the influence of choice is more obvious.
Looking at the operation of the enterprise, you will find that the business activities of the enterprise are a combination of decisions made by various wills, large and small.
For example, when the business department observes that a product sells well, it will ask the production department to increase production and output.
At this time, the production department must make a decision whether to increase production accurately or appropriately according to the requirements of the business department.
For another example, when the profit of a product decreases, does the enterprise choose to give up production and produce products with market potential, or insist on continuing production.
This choice, regardless of industry, really exists in every enterprise.
In today's society, the competition is fierce and there are many changes, so the social environment and economic situation are very unstable and constantly changing.
This requires that we must have a strong will and good judgment, and be able to make correct and decisive choices.
Otherwise, you will lose the opportunity to improve your performance because of your hesitation. (finishing)
So, how can we enhance our judgment? As the saying goes, know yourself and know yourself, and you will win every battle, and so will things around you. First of all, you should collect all kinds of relevant information extensively, and have a comprehensive understanding of your choice through sorting, induction and analysis.
But if things are urgent, this method will not work, because collecting information is not something that can be completed in a short time, and a lot of information collected is irrelevant.
At this time, decision makers need to use their own experience and knowledge to make judgments according to their own intuition within a limited time.
After making a good judgment on things, it is time to make a decision.
Decision-making ability and judgment are different. Although both of them can be attributed to willpower, they are still fundamentally different.
People usually use their brains to judge, not their hearts to make decisions.
If we have a method to judge or solve problems based on information, knowledge or experience, then we can put all our eggs in one basket and implement it immediately; If two or more schemes are obtained, the decision maker needs to make a new decision.
Any decision-making scheme may have advantages and disadvantages.
Whether you can quickly find the reasons for believing in the most effective scheme directly affects whether you can choose the most effective scheme.
You must unswervingly implement the plan you think is the best, and at the same time constantly pay attention to and check it, give full play to its strengths and advantages as much as possible, and avoid its shortcomings as much as possible.
In order to quickly select the most effective scheme from several feasible schemes with similar probability as the implementation scheme, decision makers need to have strong decision-making ability.
In an enterprise, the position is directly proportional to the importance of the things to be decided.
Therefore, we should seize every opportunity to exercise our judgment when we are young, and don't wait until we become leaders to remember to learn this decision-making ability.
When making decisions, leaders must have a clear judgment on the development trend of a thing, otherwise they will make decisions rashly and rashly, and not only will they bear serious consequences, but others will also suffer.
So many people are afraid to make a decision on one thing because they are afraid of taking responsibility.
Because as we all know, if the result of a decision is not ideal, then someone must bear the responsibility, and this person must bear a lot of blame.
This requires a leader to have strong endurance and the courage to challenge failure, otherwise he will not dare to take the initiative to take responsibility, and he will not be responsible for decision-making and become a competent leader.
Many young people often depend on others. When they face a matter and need to make a decision, they usually put the boss or colleagues in charge, but they will stand aside.
This habit is very bad, and it is not good for your growth.
The correct way is that when you need to make a judgment, you should stand up.
If you always bury yourself like this, it's hard for you to get promoted.
Therefore, while working hard to cooperate with others, young people should also fully demonstrate their judgment and decision-making ability, especially in the face of major opportunities.
We should not be afraid of choices and decisions, let alone the failure we may face after choices and decisions.
However, when choosing, don't choose blindly, think twice before you act, and always remember to make a decision based on reason, so that your decision can play its due role.
Your friend william durant.
Men are often fickle with women.
1. After seeing me, you will suddenly find that handsome can be so single-minded!
We have all grown up, but Xiaoming in the math problem has always been so big.
3. Give yourself an English name, called Pressure Mountain.
The portrait is not a portrait, but a gray head.
5. People who love me are terrible. The person I love has a bad life
6. There may be several women who don't eat, and none who are not jealous.
7. I went blind just because I looked at you one more time in the crowd.
8. I drank everyone around me just to have a whisper with you.
9. Never hang yourself from a tree. You can try it several times in the surrounding trees.
10 Every midnight, it is a tangled problem to wake people up and go to the toilet.
1 1. Failure is success. Her stepmother didn't help her when she saw her child fail!
12. If you want to pick the moon, please look at your height first.
13, it's not that we men have low will, it's that you women wear too little.
14, I can't sleep every night. If I fall asleep one night, it must be abnormal or I am dead.
15, poor Nike, Fuadi, rogue Armani.
16, you have to believe, believe that we will be like in fairy tales, frogs and dinosaurs are endings.
17, give me a bed, I can sleep all day.
18, you don't have a doctor's qualification certificate. Why do you say I'm crazy?
19, don't give me the glad eye, your power is harmless!
20. Get up in the morning and go to bed early at night.
2 1, you are my Youlemei. I can throw you away after drinking.
22. If you are angry with me, I am not afraid of you. What I'm afraid of is that you are afraid of me after I get angry.
23. Marriage is a cage, so everyone is overjoyed and overjoyed after marriage.
24.who are you flirting with? I owe you an overdue loan or something.
25, don't look back, my brother loves only your back.
26. Raising fish is very troublesome. I often forget to change water once a week. Then I have to change the fish once a week.
27. Most beautiful women are similar, but ugly women are different.
I'm too busy to know what to do.
29. A woman's wardrobe is like a harem. There are countless beautiful women, only a few of whom like it.
30. Love is so expensive that I can't afford luxury and consumption.
3 1, that's enough. Take your luggage and leave my world. There is a charge for living here.
32. Mature people don't ask about the past, smart people don't ask about the present, and open-minded people don't ask about the future.
33. Women often miss men so much; Men are often fickle with women.
34. Women are made of water. Don't be too cold to her. Once it freezes above zero, it will only frostbite you in the end.
Ambitious young people are often frustrated.
Some people say: aspiring young people are often frustrated. I think this is a bit arbitrary. To prove this point, I will tell you a very vivid story.
Huanxin Men was born in the countryside and liked writing and painting since he was a child. His mother disapproves of her son's hobbies. She insisted that her son should study hard. It was his uncle, a primary school teacher, who gave great support to his nephew's hobby. Huanxin Men's uncle is a painting and calligraphy lover, and he has certain attainments. Under the guidance of his uncle, young Huanxin Men's painting and calligraphy level has made great progress.
After entering high school, a very good classmate of Huanxin Men helped him to contact Sun Min, a famous calligrapher and painter in Shangqiu. Sun Min taught Huanxin Men to start with line drawing, copy ancient and modern masterpieces and practice basic skills. From then on, every time after school or on a rest day, he would run to the fields and sketch from flowers and trees. After painting, he will also attach a powerful official word.
Gradually, as long as the scenery contained in Menhuan's new vision, especially the pastoral scenery, was vividly painted by him. Despite his professional level, Huanxin Men is still not satisfied. He wants to improve his painting and calligraphy to a greater extent, so he often skips classes and steals paintings from an art school. At that time, the art school opened a painting and calligraphy class, but the tuition was very expensive, and the knocker could not afford the money, so he had to make the best choice.
However, Huanxin Men's academic performance in culture has been declining. When he took the college entrance examination at 1984, he fell out of Sun Shan. He wants to have a second interview next year, but his mother said to him in tears, son, give up the second interview. The family really can't give it to you.
In this way, this aspiring young man who has been crazy about painting and calligraphy since childhood has to accept his fate.
Back home, Huanxin Men was still obsessed with calligraphy and painting. His mother and villagers disapprove of his behavior, but stubborn Huanxin Men firmly believes that he will succeed one day.
At the beginning of 1988, Huanxin Men painted a rural pastoral scenery with passion. When his uncle saw it, he encouraged him to send it to Henan Farmers' Newspaper Office. Not long after, the literary edition of Henan Peasant Newspaper was published.
Huanxin Men couldn't believe his eyes, this is his first novel! This is a great encouragement to Huanxin Men. Since then, he has been describing rural pastoral scenery enthusiastically and persistently, and his works have been seen in newspapers and periodicals with great influence throughout the country.
At this time, my uncle reminded him that taking advantage of his youth, going out for a walk and learning more will also help him practice calligraphy and painting.
Huanxin Men accidentally had the idea of going out to work by himself, because his younger brothers and sisters were all at school, and there was no savings at home, so he needed his help to go out to work. After being reminded by his uncle, he immediately jumped out of the farmland and moved to a chemical plant in Kaifeng as a coal hauler.
It is difficult to transport coal. After entering the coal factory during the day, Huanxin Men immediately became black. He had to push heavy coal for a long way. When washing in the evening, he found a thick layer of dust accumulated in his nostrils and throat. After pulling coal all day, he was so painful that he couldn't even lift his arm. How can he have the mind and energy to practice painting and calligraphy?
Gradually, Huanxin Men became confused: Do I have to deal with coal piles forever? What can you learn in the coal pile? Huanxin Men wanted to get rid of this fate, so he made a decision: pulling coal during the day and going to Kaifeng at night to inquire about the famous predecessors in the painting and calligraphy circles. He hopes that his predecessors can show him a bright road.
Soon, Huanxin Men found the address of Wang Baogui, president of Kaifeng Federation of Literary and Art Circles. The famous calligrapher suggested that Huanxin Men go to a professional college for further study and learn professional knowledge systematically.
Huanxin Men doesn't want to study in a professional college, but where did he get the money? But in order to enter the painting and calligraphy art class, he went to work in a factory to earn tuition. After half a year, I barely earned enough tuition. So, Huanxin Men finally got his wish and entered the training class of Henan Calligraphy Correspondence College.
After two years of professional and systematic study, the artistic level of Huanxin Men's calligraphy and painting has risen to a new height. At this time, he is married and has children, and the pressure of life is increasing. Helpless, he embarked on the road of working again.
Since then, Huanxin Men has worked in more than ten cities, including Kaifeng, Anyang, Zhengzhou, Changzhou, Hangzhou and Fuzhou. Every time he goes to a city, he will visit famous local painters and ask for advice modestly. In addition, Huanxin Men also stole paintings from local painting and calligraphy colleges through various channels. In this way, in his work and life in different places, Huanxin Men constantly absorbed all kinds of knowledge and quickly turned it into his creative passion. By the end of 2003, there were as many as ten sacks filled with Huanxin Men's paintings and calligraphy works, and as many as 800 works were published in major newspapers alone. Looking at these heavy works, the knocker smiled happily. He felt that the day to realize his dream was getting closer and closer.
At the beginning of 2004, Huanxin Men learned from a friend that the National Popular Science Education Base in Fuqing City, Fujian Province was recruiting painting and calligraphy teachers, so he went to the interview with his resume and previously published works. It is conceivable that the person in charge of personnel immediately refused his request to meet him. However, Huanxin Men made a bold decision: he brought his previously published works and asked the person in charge of Fuqing National Science Education Base to recommend himself.
Huanxin Men's boldness surprised the person in charge of the base, and what surprised him even more was the works published by Huanxin Men. He never imagined that these paintings and calligraphy works were actually written by a migrant worker! The person in charge immediately decided to hire Huanxin Men as the teacher of the base painting and calligraphy training class, but there was a one-month probation period!
On the day of the first lecture, although Huanxin Men's speech was a little blunt and Mandarin was not very standard, the students listened carefully. Walking out of the classroom, his head was covered with sweat. When he boarded the platform again, he seemed particularly relaxed and calm. Students are attracted by his exquisite calligraphy and painting skills, and Huanxin Men likes the podium more and more. He prepares lessons carefully and teaches every class.
A week later, the person in charge suddenly announced to him: Your probation period can be over, and we decided to sign a formal contract with you!
Huanxin Men almost jumped for joy, because from this moment on, he really turned and walked into the door of painting and calligraphy.
One day, while giving a lecture, a student suddenly asked: Teacher Meng, I heard that you only have a high school education and are a farmer. Is it true?/You don't say.
Huanxin Men paused a little, then said quietly, that's right. Please don't be surprised first. I'll tell you my experience.
This course became a course for Huanxin Men to tell students about his life experience. He said to them calmly: Destiny and opportunity may be unfair to some people, but as long as you have dreams and are willing to work hard, you can change your destiny. I will never feel that I am three points shorter than you because I am a migrant worker with only a high school education, because everyone has their own specialties. I can be your painting and calligraphy teacher, but in other professional fields, you are my teacher, so we are all equal in class.
Huanxin Men's frankness touched all the students and won their respect, followed by a burst of warm applause.
In the summer of 2004, Huanxin Men's works were compiled into some authoritative classics, and his influence became more and more important. In the second year, he joined Henan Calligraphy and Painting Association and China Calligraphers Association and became a real painter.
In September 2008, Fujian Medical University opened a painting and calligraphy art teaching class and recruited lecturers. Huanxin Men didn't have a good degree, but he was admitted to the university in his own right. The moment he got the letter of appointment, Huanxin Men was so excited that tears welled up in his eyes.
From a migrant worker at the bottom of society to an admirable university lecturer, Huanxin Men really created a miracle. At the beginning of 2009, in an interview, he simply said: I have been obsessed with calligraphy and painting all my life, and there is no reason not to succeed; I have been pursuing the art of calligraphy and painting for decades, and there is no reason not to succeed. As long as you don't abandon your dreams and pursue them, everyone will create such a miracle!
At this point, the story is not over yet. The story of each of us will never end as long as we live. From this respectable Mr. Huanxin Men, we can see a kind of character, and that is persistence. We are all the same. As long as we have dreams and don't give up the pursuit, what kind of miracle won't happen?