As we all know, a daughter-in-law must never interfere in the affairs of her in-laws, let alone directly give advice or reconcile feelings. Because after that, it has broken through the safe distance, and you have gone out of your territory and done what you shouldn't have done. On the contrary, a son-in-law should not get involved in the affairs of his father-in-law. Li Ming knows this well, so he has always kept a safe distance from his father-in-law's family.
However, there are still some problems in his recent marriage. He said, "I sent a message to my father-in-law on my wife's mobile phone, but it ended my ten-year marriage." Li Ming is a very honest and filial person. Although his education is not high, he has made small achievements in his career through his own efforts. However, due to his busy work, he usually marries his wife Zhang Fen to take care of the family. In Li Ming's mind, Zhang Fen is a very moral person. He is doing business outside alone, and he has Zhang Fen at home. He is at ease.
Just how can there be a smooth life? There were still problems with Li Ming's business last year. Almost bankrupt, he had to turn to others for help. His first thought is his father-in-law, who also has his own small business. I heard that he made a lot of money last year, and now he is in trouble, and his capital turnover is not enough. He thought his father-in-law would help him at this time, but unexpectedly, his father-in-law refused.
Later, it was his sister who borrowed some money from others and helped him through this difficulty. It is also because of this incident that the relationship between Li Ming and his father-in-law has become alienated. During the Spring Festival, Li Ming went home to spend the Spring Festival with his wife and children. His wife was cooking in the kitchen when the cell phone in the living room rang. This is a message from Li Ming's father-in-law. It was some greetings, and Li Ming politely replied, "Thank you, Dad."
I just didn't expect that my father-in-law actually sent a message saying, "You haven't told Li Ming about buying a house for your brother, have you?" Wait, wait until the end of the year. "When Li Ming saw the news, the whole people froze. He asked his wife what was going on. Her wife said casually, "isn't your business getting better and better now?" "Isn't it 500000 yuan? What's your hurry? " Li Minghe's wife filed for divorce because he felt that she didn't respect him and even cheated him.
Abstract: In fact, Bian Xiao still understands Li Ming very well. It is usually intolerable for a man to encounter such a thing, but I have to say that Li Ming and Zhang Fen are still responsible for it. The first one is Zhang Fen. She is in marriage, but she doesn't know what is the most important thing in marriage. She gave such unconditional support to her family, but she didn't repent at last. And Li Ming. Obviously, too little communication between husband and wife will lead to such a thing.
Therefore, in marriage, we must understand that husband and wife not only need mutual trust and understanding, but also need communication. Regardless of the size of the matter, we should discuss it carefully before making a decision. As a married woman, you must not secretly support her family without telling her husband, because it is easy to ruin your marriage and lose her husband's trust.