Learn to learn Chinese classics happily D668
"Caigen Tan" manages the family
2 1 If you hear something unpleasant, you have something on your mind.
Original: My ears are empty, and there are always things in my heart. This is the cornerstone of my practice in Germany. If words are sweet and everything goes well, you will bury your life in poison.
I often hear some unpleasant words in my ears, and I often think of some unpleasant words in my heart. This is a whetstone to cultivate people's body and mind and virtue. If every sentence is pleasant to the ear and everything goes well, it is to soak in poisonous wine all your life.
Commentary: There is a famous calligrapher who writes very well. When he was willing to enroll students, many parents scrambled to send their children to study with him. One of the children is called Lan Bing. He is very clever and savvy. The calligrapher's wife asked her husband, can Lan Bing be an excellent calligrapher in the future? The calligrapher replied that this is impossible because Lan has hundreds of millions of properties. He is the only boy in the family, and his parents regard him as a treasure. Comfortable living environment is often difficult to cultivate promising young people. Since ancient times, heroes have suffered many hardships, and dude children have few heroes. Qi Jiguang, a famous soldier, was well educated by his parents since childhood, and his father was very strict with him. Qi Jiguang was taught to read and learn martial arts when he was very young. Father often tells him some truths about defending our country and being a man. Every morning at first light, my father woke Qi Jiguang up and asked him to practice martial arts. Running and practicing sword every day, in order to practice arm strength, you have to raise a stone lock. At the end of the day, Qi Jiguang often felt sore all over. Although the father loves his children very much, he has not relaxed his demands on them. In addition to practicing martial arts, his father also assigned him learning tasks, and all kinds of classics and history books were the contents of Qi Jiguang's study. Under the strict requirements of his father, Qi Jiguang cultivated good qualities, worked hard and made every effort to make progress, and became a big star. Be strict with teenagers so that they can face all kinds of difficulties in the world more calmly when they are adults. If you spoil them too much and refuse to let them suffer, then society will let them suffer in the future.
There is harmony between heaven and earth, and there is a western god in my heart.
Original: the wind is angry and the rain is angry, and the birds are sad; In the moonlight and wind, the vegetation is flourishing. It can be seen that heaven and earth can't be without harmony for a day, and people's hearts can't be without western gods for a day.
In the storm, all kinds of birds feel sad and afraid; In sunny weather, vegetation is thriving. This shows that there is not a day between heaven and earth without kindness, and there is not a day when people's hearts cannot be happy.
Interpretation: There is such a story in the think tank. There is an old man named you somewhere, and his family has opened three pawn shops. One day at the end of the year, the old man heard a noise outside his house. He went out to see what was happening outside. It turned out to be neighbors, quarreling with those guys. The man at the counter told Ewan, "This man took his clothes as money, and today he came empty-handed and insisted on taking them away. If you don't give it to him, he will curse. There are such unreasonable people! " The man still refused to let go, and he was so aggressive that he didn't feel wrong. Euon said to him calmly, "I know what you mean, but this is only the difficulty of that year." These trifles are not worth arguing about. "Grandpa, you send a clerk to take out what this person pawned, including some clothes and mosquito nets. Old man You pointed to the cotton dress and said, "This dress is badly needed now. Pointing to the cassock, he said, "This one is for you for the New Year." You don't need anything else now. You can live here first. "The man took the clothes and turned away without saying anything. That night, he died in someone else's house, and his relatives filed a lawsuit with that house.
It turns out that this man borrowed a lot of debts and was unable to repay them. That day, he took poison, knowing that you's family was rich, and wanted to die in you's family so that he could knock a sum of money. As a result, Mr. You couldn't bear it anymore, so he moved to another house. Someone asked Old Man You why he could know the situation in advance and tolerate this man's irrationality. Old man You replied, "Anyone who makes trouble without reason probably has a reason. If you don't let people do small things, then you may cause catastrophe. " People listened to his words and admired his knowledge. Your kindness saved his life. We need to be tolerant and friendly to others if we want to maintain family harmony and life stability for a long time. Between my own family, I don't care too much about some small things, and I don't care too much when I associate with others. There is a lot of harmony between heaven and earth, not to mention people! We need to maintain harmony and happiness all the time in order to maintain a harmonious and happy family.
If you are cold, you will be thin, while if you are warm, you will be blessed.
Original: the qi of heaven and earth, warm is born, cold is killed. Therefore, those who are cold will enjoy being cool and thin; Only those who are angry and warm-hearted will have heavy blessings and long-term interests.
With the changes of nature's four seasons, everything grows when the climate is warm in spring and summer, and loses vitality when the climate is cold in autumn and winter. Therefore, an arrogant and indifferent person's expression is lifeless, just like the weather in autumn and winter, no one dares to approach, so the blessings he can get are naturally weak. Only gentle and enthusiastic people will reap not only rich blessings, but also long-term benefits.
Interpretation: Fan Zhongyan was born in poverty and lived a very poor life when he was young. Later, when he became prime minister, his lifestyle still maintained the habit of poor scholars. Not only that, he also helps the poor and uses his income to help those poor people. As many as 100 people have been helped by Fan Zhongyan, and his behavior has been praised by the people.
The ancients said that if you do more injustice, you will die. This is the most reasonable thing. As the saying goes, evil is rewarded with evil, good with good, evil with evil, and good with good. Anyone who knows the inside story knows that this newspaper and that newspaper will eventually be reported. Judging from the operation of the world, if you go with the flow, you will be blessed. If you go against the sky, you will get into trouble. Even if you get a blessing temporarily, it will eventually become a curse. This is known to all wise people. For example, destroying forests and reclaiming lakes may produce more food. Someone once said that when you have food in your hand, you won't panic. Think calmly. Now is not the time to panic. In the long run, the ecological balance will be broken and the weather will be bad, and it will be you who will suffer. It is almost impossible to escape this disaster.
Thought is generous, and spring breeze breeds everything.
Original: generous thoughts, such as spring breeze, give birth to everything; The thought of avoiding grams, like snow, is overcast and everything withers.
A generous and upright person, like a warm spring breeze, breeds everything and can bring vitality to everything; A narrow-minded person who haggles over every ounce, like frozen ice and snow, can bring murderous look to all living things.
Interpretation: Confucius believes that tolerance is one of the five virtues of human beings (courtesy, tolerance, faith, sensitivity and benefit). Tolerance, being loved by all, and tolerance for politics can make talented people do their best. Without magnanimity, both individuals and the government will be affected. Tolerance is a kind of beauty, and the deep sky can only be sunny if it tolerates the temporary ravages of lightning storms; The vast sea is boundless only when the stormy waves are raging for a while; The vast forest temporarily endured the law of the jungle and was lush. Only by sparing no effort can Mount Tai become taller. Rivers can only become bigger if they don't choose small streams. Tolerance is the towering Mount Tai, and it is the rivers and lakes that accommodate all rivers and lakes.
Hanshu? The Biography of Ban Gu said that Ban Gu was generous and tolerant, not proud of his talent, and was deeply loved by everyone. A leader is tolerant, so that people can return to their hearts and do their best. "Lu Chunqiu? There is a story in The Book of Love: Qin Mugong lost a horse pulling a cart. It was being cooked and eaten when it was found. Qin Mugong sighed and said, It's not good to eat horse meat without drinking. So I gave everyone who ate horse meat a big bowl of wine. A year later, Qin Jin fought in Hanyuan, Mu Gong was shot by a spear, and Ma Jin Jun was caught and was about to become a prisoner. At this time, more than 300 people who had eaten horse meat rushed out, and all of them tried their best to fight to the death with the Jin people under Mu's car. Finally, they defeated Jin Jun and captured Jin Gonghui. It can be said that Qin Mugong turned the corner and turned defeat into victory by virtue of magnanimity.