Since the 20th century, a series of Chinese studies education institutions have been formed in society. From Mr. Zhang Taiyan’s beginning to teach Chinese studies, to the current Chinese studies craze in society. The following is a classic Chinese culture gratitude story I have prepared for you. I hope you like it! Example of a Chinese culture classic gratitude story 1
A Half-Friend
Once upon a time there was a man who made friends with heroes all over the world and was very righteous. The warrior. Before he died, he said to his son: Although I have been wandering around in the world since I was a child, and the people I have made are like crucian carp crossing the river, in fact, I have only made one and a half friends in my life. ?
The son was puzzled. His father told him in his ear, and then said to him: "Go and meet this one and a half friend of mine as I say, and you will naturally understand the meaning of a friend." ?
The son first went to a friend recognized by his father. He said to him: "I am the son of so-and-so, and I am being hunted by the court. I threw myself at you in desperation, hoping to rescue him!" When the man heard this, he couldn't think about it, and hurriedly called his son and ordered him to hurry up. He quickly took off his clothes and put them on the unfamiliar "important criminal of the imperial court", and let his son wear the clothes of the "important criminal of the imperial court".
My son understands: When your life is at stake, the person who can treat you with sincerity and even sacrifice his own flesh and blood to save you can be called a friend of yours.
The son went to the place where his father said he was a "half-friend" again, held hands and said the same words to each other. After hearing this, these half-friends said to the important criminal in front of him who was begging for help: My child, I can't save you from such a big matter. I will give you enough money here. If you run away as fast as you can, I promise not to report you.
My son understands: when you are in trouble, the person who can protect you wisely and not add insult to injury can be called Half of your friends.
Words of wisdom: A friend in need is a friend indeed, and true friends can only be recognized in times of adversity. Su Jun, a general of the Jin Dynasty, divided friends into four types according to different ways of communication in "Cockcrow Occasion": Friends who can encourage and encourage each other, point out their friends' mistakes in a timely manner, and help their friends correct their mistakes and make up for their shortcomings are friends who fear friends or make up for their shortcomings. A close friend; when a friend is in trouble, he can stand up and help, and do whatever it takes to rescue his friend from the predicament. This is a close friend; when we gather together to eat, drink, and have fun, and say complimentary words to each other, based on fair and meat, this is a close friend. That is to say, people often say that they are fair-weather friends. They share the same feelings and form buddies. But once the spoils are unevenly divided, they will go to war and kill each other. This is a friend of thieves. Chinese Classical Gratitude Story Example 2
Language Skills
Cao Cao liked Cao Zhi’s talent very much, so he wanted to depose Cao Pi (pī) and make Cao Zhi the crown prince. When Cao Cao asked Jia Yi(y?) for his opinion on this matter, Jia Yi remained silent. Cao Cao asked very strangely: "Why don't you speak?"
Jia Yi said: "I am thinking about something!".
Cao Cao asked: What are you thinking about?
Jia Yi replied: I was thinking about Yuan Shao and Liu Biao's deprivation of the elders and the establishment of younger ones, which led to disaster. ?.
Cao Cao laughed loudly after hearing this, and immediately understood the implication of Jia Yi's words, so he stopped mentioning the matter of deposing Cao Pi.
In the Southern Dynasties, Emperor Qi Gao studied calligraphy with Wang Sengqian, a calligrapher at that time. Once, Emperor Gao suddenly asked Wang Sengqian: "Who has better calligraphy, you or me?"
This question is difficult to answer. To say that Emperor Gao's calligraphy is worse than your own is to say something against your will; to say that Emperor Gao's calligraphy is not as good as yours will make Emperor Gao's face difficult to maintain, and may even lead to the loss of his reputation. The relationship between the king and his ministers was very bad.
Wang Sengqian cleverly replied: "I am the best among the ministers, and you are the best among the ministers." ?
There are only a few emperors, but countless ministers. The implication of Wang Sengqian's words is very clear.
Emperor Gao understood the implication, laughed, and gave up, never mentioning the matter again.
Words of wisdom: Language can be a weapon, which can hurt people; it can also be flowers, which can bring joy to people. Mastering the skill of language is not about rhetoric, but using language as a carrier to convey love and extinguish disputes.
Example 3 of Chinese Classical Gratitude Stories
"Two people are of one mind"
The Yue people Jiafu Shi and Gongshishi each have their own strengths. Father Jia, Shi, was good at strategizing, but not decisive in dealing with matters; Master Gongshi was decisive in dealing with matters, but lacked scheming and often made careless mistakes. Because these two people have a good friendship, they often learn from each other's strengths and collude to commit crimes. Although they are two people, they seem to have the same heart. No matter what these two people do together, their dreams always come true. Later, they had conflicts over some trivial matters and broke up after the quarrel. When they went their own way, they all suffered repeated defeats in their political affairs.
A man named Misu Fen felt very sad about this. He advised the two of them: Have you ever heard of the jellyfish in the sea? It has no eyes and relies on shrimps to lead the way. The shrimps share the food of the jellyfish. The two are interdependent and indispensable. There is also the worm, which is an inhabitant with a snail shell, and the parasitic crab uses its abdomen as a nest. Suo was hungry and went out to look for food by relying on crabs. After the crab came back, Zoro was full because of the food, and the crab was happy because it had a nest. No one could live without the other. I wonder if you have heard of the Ju? Rat. It has short front legs and is good at begging for food but not good at walking. However, if the 卭(qi?ng)卭堠(j?) is weak, the four legs will be tall and good at walking but not good at begging for food. Normally, the 卭卭兠Xu relies on the licorice provided by the rat. Once faced with a disaster, the 卭卭孠Xu will escape with the rat on his back. They are also dependent on each other. I'm afraid you haven't seen the two-headed bird in the Western Regions. This kind of bird has two heads on one body, but they are jealous and incompatible with each other. The two birds began to peck at each other due to hunger. When one of them fell asleep, the other stuffed poisonous weeds into its mouth. If the sleeping bird head swallows the poisonous weed, both bird heads will die together, and neither one will benefit from the separation. There is also a kind of "Bijian people" who live side by side in the north. They take turns eating, drinking, and looking at things. If one of them dies, they all die. They are also inseparable. The two of you are very similar to this kind of "shoulder-to-shoulder" people. "Join-shoulder people" are connected through body and you are connected through career. Since you failed one after another when doing things alone, why haven't you reconciled?
Father Jia Shi and Master Gongshi listened to Mi Xufen's persuasion and reconciled.
Words of Wisdom: All gain and lose, friends should be tolerant and considerate of each other. Only by uniting and cooperating and learning from each other's strengths can we win one victory after another.