When Zheng Banqiao was transferred to the county magistrate, his cousin in his hometown kept quarreling with his neighbors because of the foundation of a wall, so he wrote to Zheng Banqiao, hoping that Zheng Banqiao could use the official power to help himself. When Zheng Banqiao was helpless, he wrote the words "It is rare to be confused, and it is a blessing to suffer".
Extension extension:
1. Losing money is a sign of generosity, a virtue of modesty and courtesy, and an open-minded style.
People who often suffer losses are neither cowardly nor timid, because they are generous and polite.
3. People who suffer losses live easily, live freely and have a peaceful mind.
4. People who suffer losses actually win everyone's admiration and trust with optimism and honesty, while people who are extremely selfish will only make people stay away from them and disdain them.
References:
Baidu Encyclopedia-A loss is a blessing.