Seeing that the family loves their grandchildren and can't bear to part with their children, they use it as a threat, but they are still making trouble for you.
The court will mediate the divorce for the first time, generally not divorce, and it is not allowed to sue for divorce again within 6 months.
Daughter-in-law probably knows that it is easy to leave, so you don't have to worry too much.
Besides, who will serve her after the divorce? It's not that easy to remarry with a newborn child. She is not a fool.
If you give in, let her lead you by the nose, and it may be common for you to divorce in the future, because the effect is very good.
So don't lay this foundation.
You can be tough, or you can pretend to agree to divorce. She should be afraid.
However, with such a daughter-in-law, it may be difficult for you to have a peaceful old age! It is difficult for a son to have a happy marriage! It is even harder for grandchildren to have a harmonious and warm family! Therefore, divorce is not an absolute bad thing.
According to the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law:
The son's property before marriage belongs to him, but the daughter-in-law can't take it away. As long as there is no woman's name on the property ownership certificate, the house is still the son's.
When divorced after marriage, the property of both parties is basically divided equally.